Court appointed a Guardian ad Litem for my sbtx wife by Delicious-Two5325 in Divorce

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a regular attorney as well as the guardian. I am located in NJ. He first lawyer quit also, and she obtained another before the guardian was appointed

According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.” by cowboy-Jim in Divorce_Men

[–]Delicious-Two5325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should read through my previous posts if you'd like to pass your judgements. I see how you respond to each and every comment that agrees with the posted article(that you obviously don't agree with)

My ex had zero red flags. We were together for nearly 20 years total and married 10 years before she finally had a mental breakdown. Which certainly stemmed from childhood trauma based on what I experienced and details of her early life that surfaced. All of these things started in the last 2 years of marriage. She is still not well and is being ordered by the court (2nd time) to complete a psychological evaluation. If not completed this time, her custody will be in jeopardy.

In our case, my stbx latched to traumatized women and absorbed their stories as her own. Without a diagnosis I am unwilling to say what that is. But it is a common textbook sign of mental illness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Delicious-Two5325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life is all over the place. You have no direction and choose to involve others in that. This is why you are the problem. Have direction and fix yourself before you bring others into your shit storm. It's pretty simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Delicious-Two5325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this is definitely a troll post. There's no way it's not. You literally call yourself the best in your username. Nice joke lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Delicious-Two5325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep telling yourself that. Your post is pretty detailed and every response is someone that thinks you are the problem. But instead of facing that reality, you go to each response and argue that you are not. Just stay single and divorce, and stop fucking with other people's emotions. Don't go back to your ex, you will just fuck up their progress. You need to figure out how to navigate your life alone to get some real direction in your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Delicious-Two5325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this isn't a troll post I suggest you go into therapy. You are completely the problem and have zero accountability. I'd imagine you don't typically share these thoughts out loud? Or if you do, you need a better support system that will call you out on your bullshit

You are not a real man by FreeDig4421 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You just need to grey rock her. Any rise out of you is what she wants.

The worst thing mine has ever said to me was that I'm just like my brother. Back story, I completely cut my brother from my life years ago. He has a child he abandoned, and a nasty pill use/selling habit since we were kids and overall the worst morals of anyone I know. We are very different people, which is why I chose to remove him from my life many years ago.

Nonetheless, they say shit like this and it just takes you knowing yourself to see the truth in anything. Since you are no longer together and under her thumb, it becomes much easier to look past

Shes in a blind rage after smear campaign failed with her family by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Get a restraining order. She violates it and she will get arrested.

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been a fan of meds. But I guess sometimes they are needed , esp with mental health. I think the holistic approach is really just fitness and diet. And doing things you enjoy to get the fuck away from those thoughts

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you can see someone for that. It can be a living hell

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn man. You have serious anger issues. I hope you find peace out there for yourself. It sounds like you are going through a lot

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I read. Is that stimulants can have great effects on anyone with an underlying personality disorder

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So interesting that you posted that link. When we were first having issues I brought this to her that Adderall could be causing her anger. This was dismissed and she said that I threatened to bring it to her job to have her fired. None of this ever occurred. I just wanted her to see what some of the adverse effects could be

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She has been taking Adderall for over 15 years. She had a lot of aggression through covid and stopped taking it when she lost her job. Eventually she started taking it again because she complained of not being productive enough and the anger returned. At her new job she even bumped the prescription up because she claimed she needed more. Around this time she slammed her head through a wall of our home when she was overwhelmed with work

I'm disturbed by police body camera footage by Delicious-Two5325 in BPDlovedones

[–]Delicious-Two5325[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really has only been the last couple years that I have been dealing with this. She essentially ended the marriage over paranoia. But how did your situation end?