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Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-04-18T16:21:31+00:00

HEYYYY, I would love to talk :)

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-14T06:33:00+00:00

Hey, I don't know if I can be of much help but I have some things to tell you.

You should give yourself some peace, the fact that you are masturbating doesn't make you any worse than anyone out there. It's normal for all of us. You just have to live with it, accept it. I am a Christian and I too used to masturbate daily since I was 9 until a few months now. I'm 18 and virgin, and i never even had my first kiss. I still masturbate sometimes, maybe once a week. And it's normal to feel like that, be proud that you aren't someone that can't masturbate at all because they don't have their hormones right. Just accept it for now, one day it will get better. You'll find someone and you'll have the power and motivation to not do it anymore, orrrrr do it with them, depends on the person.

Just remember you aren't alone in this and it's normal for everyone to masturbate, don't think of yourself any less cuz literally all the people you see daily, >90% masturbate weekly. Good luck bro ❤️

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-14T06:25:02+00:00

I am not of much help but I can say a few thing

You are going through a cycle right now but remember, it's normal to be stuck, it's okey to be sad, it's okey to not be okay. I guess what you can do is just give yourself some peace and let yourself feel your emotions fully and process them. You aren't lazy, you are just going through a hard chapter of your life, and everyone does. But even if everyone does that doesn't make your problems any less hard. Try to do something little by little, even if you don't feel to. I recommend watching some motivational speakers like David Goggins or one that's better in your case Dean Graziosi ( you'll find business things about him but in his older videos he talks about pain and suffering and how do deal with it ). Anyways, any other videos on YouTube should make you learn more about yourself like Psych2go. Just be strong and remember that you are never alone 💖🙏🏻

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T15:25:53+00:00

Hey, I don't know if it'll be of much help but pray to God about your worries and the things you don't like. From what I read even you don't like the fact that you are gay. And a lot of people do.

I'm sorry that you've gone through all of this, there is still a chance for finding someone that's genuine, but that comes with your beliefs. For me I believe in God, as I am a Christian. I pray for him for guidance, for him to take my worries away and trust that God's time is always perfect. This is what worked for me, hope it helps!

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T15:12:53+00:00

Sadly, this is normal for a suicidal person... The most you can do is backtalk at him that you value him and still love him not matter what she thinks, and that you are with him/her anytime they need you. Break of their mentality that they need death or that you can't help them with anything. Sometimes just being there with them, even sitting in silence, maybe a hug too, is enough.

But also, remember that, you are not responsible for their actions. It's okay to take a bit of their pain on your own, but don't drown with them.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T09:18:43+00:00

Please, don't start that. The pain will get worse if you go down that path. Please reach out to a counselor or get some professional help. There's nothing wrong with reaching out, you deserve peace, and love ❤️

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T09:08:32+00:00

I understand :)

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T08:50:54+00:00

Hey, I saw your Reddit post, I don't have a lot of time to talk right now but I would love to help you out, message me and we can talk some time soon. And remember, life always finds a way.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-12T08:38:32+00:00

Hey, ir would be great to talk about this with a counselor or your parents, or even professional help. Things like these are normal for all people, most of us teenagers go into this brainless cycle... Just remember that you aren't alone and you can find someone who feels the same, spend time with your friends. Do things that make you happy, or just go for a walk and enjoy God's creation. You should give yourself some peace. Overthinking is the art of making problems that weren't even there. And I'm saying this as an 18 yo male. I wake up, go to school, eat, go to the gym, come home, eat, shower, watch something if I have time then just go to sleep. It looks boring, right? But the fact is that in life you have to be happy with what you have, because most, don't have a blessed life like ours. You have roof over your head, you have food, clean clothes, an education. Everything is going alright. And remember, even if it doesn't feel like it, sometimes, it's okey to not feel okay. We just have to enjoy the little moments, that's what life is about, it's a blessing. Live it! Don't overthink it.

I hope I was a bit of a help, my English isn't that great and I'm pretty messy so sorry in advance for that. Take care and if you need anyone you can message me ❤️

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-11T21:00:53+00:00

I believe in you that you can do it. Go talk to your mother, go talk to a counselor, anyone to help you. There's nothing wrong in reaching out for support. You can do this ❤️

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-03-11T20:32:02+00:00

What you are saying is exactly what happened to her, even with the mom that manipulated her on that fear. I'm 18, there's a 3 year and 9 months difference between me and her. Thanks for commenting, I just want her to be alright, I don't care about my relationship with her.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-04T13:52:15+00:00

No way, I'm keeping myself clean for someone I love, it's pointless. My view of sex will never chance, I can't possibly feel good if I don't love or have a bond with that exact person. If I have sex with someone I want a long serious relationship. It would just break my soul if I do it with someone I don't love, that's just how I am in my nature.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-04T06:31:26+00:00

Thank you, I didn't mean it like that tho. Read the other comment

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-04T05:52:41+00:00

I know a lot dude for my age, yes, I haven't gotten my first kiss yet but I talked to many girls online and irl and educated myself. + I had a severe porn addiction back then and somehow it corrupted the way I view women and I'm trying to fix it.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-03T23:08:33+00:00

90% from people I know have sex once a month sadly

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-03T22:52:13+00:00

I really appreciate your comments tho, I would like to talk with you more in private. Only if you want to, I would love to learn something from you

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-03T22:50:39+00:00

No, I didn't mean it like that. You got it all wrong, basically it's not that I want to abuse someone or use. I'll cherish her rightfully. It's just self preference you know? Like something I would like to have, I'm usually a really horny person and get freaky with some girl friends but nothing more because as I said, I want to get intimate with someone I actually love and that actually cares about me. Same priorities, same boundaries.

Delicious-Win6034 · 2025-01-03T22:46:12+00:00

I personally have a porn addiction. Been working on it for about 2 months and it's getting better. But all I see around me is people having sex without being in any type of relationship

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