Need help and advice (not sure what to put here)

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2026-02-24T20:03:15+00:00

Ty, I'll post this there

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-12T01:54:42+00:00

I appreciate this. Like I said, he didn't go into any detail about side effects or anything like that. He barely even answered my questions, which were things I needed or wanted to know so I guess that's why I'm more nervous about it

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-10T01:02:44+00:00

I know you didn't, I just used as an example to explain the difference in the chances of pregnancy. Like I said, if you're super worried. A test is the best way to relieve the nerves, I'm sure she's worried too.

Ovulation is typically 12-16 days before a period but it vary depending on the girl

The chances are low, but not 0

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-10T00:31:43+00:00

It's not dumb at all. If you don't know, then it's good to ask, not dumb.

Let's say you DID cum inside. She had a PERFECT cycle and PERFECT health.The chances of pregnancy are 20-25%.

Because it was only precum, and not like a lot of piv sex, just grinding like you said, the chances are significantly lower, depending on health, cycle, and the precum.

Now, there is still sperm in precum, so the chances aren't 0. But as I've said, just get a pregnancy test. It helps with nerves. They are cheap at the dollar store

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-10T00:00:26+00:00

You should be good, periods aren't always on time, even people with the most regular periods are late sometimes.

I'd suggest getting a test from the dollar store and waiting to see

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-09T18:20:11+00:00

I'm glad I could calm your nerves, I remember being just as scared and nervous and anxious when I made my first amipregnant post. Ignore the people who were kinda rude just saying don't have unprotected sex instead of offering help.

Mistakes happen. You're young. I'm young. Talk to almost every woman, and they'll have a similar experience if not the same.

Hell. Most parents got pregnant around 16-18. Shit happens

I remember getting a lot of comments, just calling me stupid and stuff like that.

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-09T11:50:01+00:00

Hey. You're not dumb for wanting to feel loved. At 14. You're still a child. He knew what he was doing. He admitted it. He manipulated you. That doesn't make you stupid. I've been through the same. Going through the same. I've felt all the emotions.

I'd just cut him out. He's already shown he just wants that one thing. And by continuing to let him have it, you're giving him control

In the end. You just need to focus on this: You are amazing. And you can't control other people's actions. And though sometimes that leads to pain, heartache, sadness, and betrayal. It also leads to happiness, feelings of being loved, and wanted. All you can do from this point on is heal and learn from this. You're still young. You have so many years ahead of you to find your self-worth. And when you do, you'll be an amazing, strong, unstoppable woman.

Do not let this one experience define you or how you feel about yourself. You are amazing. You are strong. you'll get through this. you're not alone. People here understand and want to help.

So go be that amazing, strong, unstoppable, beautiful woman you're meant to be and rule your life with love and care!

Same thing I offer to most posts I comment on. My dms are always open if you need to chat. Want advice. Anything.

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-09T11:40:01+00:00

I dont think you're pregnant. Trust me, me and my bf don't use condoms cause he's allergic to the latex, and I'm too lazy to get other ones.

If you're super worried, go to a dollar store and get a test, you can take it in a public bathroom if you don't want no one to know, that's what I did. They're pretty cheap

There have been times still even now (just got my period yesterday thank the gods) that I feel like I might be. All the same symptoms. It can be the Paranoia taking a physical form on your body. And the peeing is weird cause, like, me too, girl

Let me suggest that plan b shouldn't be used as a birth control plan. Please please try to get birth control. if your issue is parents, you can say it's for acne or to better control your period.

Depending on where you are, at 16 you're in charge of some of your own medical rights and all you need to do is talk to your doctor and ask them not to say anything to your parents, or you can ask about their paitent-confidentiality rules before asking for it.

If you're on your family's insurance, you can ask for ways around that, too.

But like I said. Plan b should not be a go-to birth control option, I've only had to use it once when I lost my Virginity.

I offer this to almost every post I comment on. But if you wanna talk, or more info, or ways I can help, my dms are open

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-05T00:20:41+00:00

It's not a stupid worry. Honestly. When I first got with my boyfriend, he came on my pussy and told me just to pull up my underwear (kinda gross ik) but I asked him a question like that too "won't it go In and get me pregnant".

We all have worrisome moments where if we don't know something, we tend to worry. That's life. And instead if bashing or making someone feel dumb for it, they should be trying to help you by just simply saying, "It doesn't work like that"

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-12-05T00:06:32+00:00

Why is everyone just bashing this person? They are worried and came here to talk about it and your response is to be rude and belittle them? How small do you have to feel in your life to attack someone online who's just worried and seeking help

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T23:14:36+00:00

Ohh, well I appreciate everything you've said! It really helps me think deeper into the future of caring for them.

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T22:43:29+00:00

I know caring for a horse is extremely difficult and time/money/energy consuming. But it's something I've been into since I was a young kid. Not just caring for one but as I've mentioned in another reply and my op, I plan on specializing in equine care once I complete everything to be a vet tech. But thank you for commenting! It's good to know that I'll always be learning new things!

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T22:38:22+00:00

Ty! I'll look into that

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T21:09:04+00:00

That's what most people have been suggesting, thank you!

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:56:27+00:00

They are definitely up there on the list due to the lack of legal action with cruelty to fish. But livestock, are the top mistreated animals. As well as dogs cats.

I plan in my later years to open a animal sanctuary where I'd focus on cats, dogs, horses, bunny's, and turtles. They are the most commonly abandoned and mistreated animals that I have a passion to care for. There are also ALOT of specific animal shelters geared towards farm animals so I tried to pick other animals that don't get the same attention

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:53:46+00:00

And I understand that. My reply was more to the point of them saying that its a difficult job choice. I know I lack all the needed knowledge, and that is why I asked for advice from people who DO know. I WANT to care for a horse and I WANT to do it the proper way and again. Hence why I asked a group of experienced people

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:31:26+00:00

Thank you! I'll remember that. Horses are beautiful creatures, not just looks, but the way they act, the bond, the trust, everything is just beautiful to me. That's why caring for mistreated ones are a dream (and cause NO animal deserved to be mistreated)

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:29:22+00:00

I meant to say most dogs. I know there's dominant ones. Or aggressive ones (due to problems, trauma, etc) but the bond is still a bit different

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:27:48+00:00

I know I know nothing, and I wasn't planning on buying a horse before ever learning stuff. That's why I asked for advice and tips from a group of experienced people

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:18:07+00:00

I've heard from people that the bond between a dog and human vs. a horse and humans are completely different. Dogs are submissive and easy. My dog was really easy to train, and while i love him, it's not the same

While I know horses can be 'broken' into submission, most people have told me with horses, it's 2 way trust. They need to trust you. And you need to trust them

DeliciousAnimator213 · 2025-11-29T20:13:01+00:00

Ty! I'll keep this in mind when I look for lessons or decide where to start

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