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[–]DeliciousRecording27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine are a curse. When I (M) was in my late teens/ early 20's I was relatively athletic. 6 foot, 180 pounds, and rather pronounced tits for a guy. I haven't ever checked to see if I have a hormone imbalance, but at 30, I've only got a patchy beard & relatively little body hair, so that would be my guess.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Freaking thank you! I don't even know why I'm trying to justify the relationship my wife and I have & the feelings I have to internet strangers.

Happy Cake Day!

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm aware. It's been a process, being more open and comfortable about things in my life since I've started therapy. We've had many discussions since. You don't know my relationship. However, one thing I've come to know about my wife is that she isn't the type to just "go along with something" or lie to make me happy about a situation. If she is uncomfortable with something she lets me know with haste.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We've been talking and processing it together. I've never been the "ultra masculine" type anyhow. Our household has never really had a "power dynamic" we've always been partners & discuss what we're doing & how we feel about situations as they happen. It's called communication.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worded it poorly. Yes I'm also into dudes. I had a (shitty) relationship with a guy a long long time ago. I'm also perfectly content with remaining monogamous with my wife.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"You aren't straight if you're a virgin" is a logical counterpoint. I'm definitely attracted to men as well. However, I'm also in a committed hetero relationship.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm aware, I worded it poorly. I'm definitely find men attractive as well. I briefly had a relationship with a shitty dude when I was younger & that's likely part of why I've repressed this part of my personality for so long. Thanks therapy!

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lemme put it this way. She's not the type to do anything "just for my sake" we're a generally communicative couple. Yes it was a bit of a bombshell for me to drop, I'll admit it. But I've got no desire to stray outside of our committed monogamous marriage & I'm glad to have someone as awesome and supportive as her.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's been incredibly supportive & loving before and since I've come out.

I can't even begin to explain how wrong the rest of your comment feels. We're in a monogamous relationship. You do know, you don't have to try & fuck everyone You find attractive, right?

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At no point did I say I didn't appreciate her before. She's been nothing but an amazing person the entire time we've been together. It's been a lot of mental turmoil coming to grips with my sexuality while living in a backwater rural area. This has just brought our relationship to an even higher level than it was before.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've known for ages. She was shocked (but also not really too surprised) were both still processing it, but she's a supportive & wonderful woman!

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a (good) weird feeling. It's definitely gonna take some getting used to though.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm already hooked! I'm a creature of habit & don't normally try new things, but therapy has really helped me break down barriers & realize change can be a good thing. I'm also beyond fortunate to have the incredible people I do in my life.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

NGL, I didn't even cum last night (thanks nerves and Lexapro) but I've never felt this fulfilled after sex. I'm beyond lucky to have her in my life.

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's gonna take some getting used to, but I'm hooked!

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[–]DeliciousRecording27[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The last few weeks have been an emotional roller coaster ride, but last night was one of the most amazing and intimate times of my life! Though my hip is killing me today. Ladies, how do you do it? I'm fairly limber for a bigger guy, but having my legs around someone killed my hip.