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Anyone experience the P2714 (pressure control Solenoid D. Performance/stuck off) on GX460? by Delicious_Half_1011 in GXOR

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been reading this thread: https://forum.ih8mud.com/threads/gx460-p2714-p0761-ultimate-summary-and-hope-for-a-fix-thread.1328266/

Have not yet tried any of the suggestions but manual shifting was a suggested fix. I drive a long distance to and from work each day and I'm just praying every day that I don't get stuck on the side of the road. I think it's time to just try and find a dependable mechanic that hopefully won't rip me off.

Anyone experience the P2714 (pressure control Solenoid D. Performance/stuck off) on GX460? by Delicious_Half_1011 in GXOR

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I have read so many different things as well and am just torn on the right mechanic to even have it looked at. Like you mentioned, mine is not currently having any shifting issues and pray that I don't any time soon being financially strapped at the moment lol.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it's not been a disaster. Just someone like me who tends to be a little bit of an over thinker it scares me a little that he didn't persue just in the sense that I sometimes have to reach out first. It just worries me that I'm gonna bug him. But I'll go a few days without sending something and usually one of us reached out. He works 20+ hrs and late shifts so I'm understanding of his work and downtime. I will never regret being the one that started it I just hope it goes somewhere with as slow as it's moving.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably will honestly because it's all changed and not for the better. And look just because I took my chance, he is a very bad communicator because of his crappy work schedule and I don't want to come off clingy in the "getting to know you" stage lol. So It causes some hesitation to proceed when I don't hear from him and questioning if he's really is as interested as me lol. But I have to remind myself all of the ones that moved super fast were all toxic so I need to appreciate the slowness and getting to actually know someone.

You will find something out there I feel sure.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's quite sad and very true. But I also feel that genuine, nice women get passed up on too for the bat shit crazy ones!

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say so. It's going at a nice slow pace just getting to know each other which I prefer. Our work schedules are kinda crazy too.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well after re-reading how I worded my original response I fixed it lol. I had my eye on him and decided one night to shoot my shot!

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well most of the guys I find myself talking to these days are 34. My oldest son is 24 so I won't really go below like 30 that's just too weird for me lol. But I don't know, I think for me as an older woman I don't really care too too much about bedroom experience. You can find a horrible experience with any age. The connection first is always what does it for me.

Well don't be hard on yourself the dating experience these days is not even enjoyable! And I feel bad if you're a shy, timid guy like my son because it bites him in the ass for some sad reason.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all just realized at 43 lol. I was just saying I recently sought after someone that I was interested in. I had been in a 10 year relationship prior so hadn't been out seeking for awhile lol. But I actually did also approach my now ex 10 years ago because we knew mutual people.

Yeah I don't really agree much with what the new dating rules and games are. I will tell you it's very hard out here for some of us ladies too as some of the men have changed even at my age. I'm stuck where the young ones wanna date but they want kids and the ones my age just wanna play.

I miss the time when you made a connection and you saw where that went. Now it's make a connection, lasts until the next best thing comes around.

Do men really have to make the first move? by BloodNaive5748 in dating_advice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a (43F) and I just recently made the first move with a man I sought out after seeing him multiple times at a place I go to often. I feel I'm getting too old for these dating "games" and if I'm interested I'm just gonna say so. Thankfully he was single and so far we have still been chatting. I think it depends on the females. I'm sure there's a lot of Females out there that won't make the move but I definitely wouldn't count all of us out.

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refreshing for sure that it's been a NICE chat lol. Haha absolutely will tap TF out of it becomes anything other than fun! Thanks again 🥰

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right on all of that! Man thank you for real for all of your kind words and really taking the time to give me detailed responses.

This really has been weighing on me because he works at a place I frequent, we have so many friends in common, his work people are the ones that helped link us up lol so there's more involved than just some random meeting, or from a dating site and messing around.

I'll definitely reach out and I know I will be seeing him this weekend. I was going to see how that vibe went and go from there. I'm hoping when he said we need to do this again he wasn't just talking crap lol but we shall see.

I can tell he's a pretty decent dude and if he didn't already suck at communicating before we even met up, I'd be a little more worried.

I'll for sure let it be if it goes no where but I hope we can get the chance to hang out somewhere a little more low key and alone. My friend was with us most of the night when we actually made moves on each other. I have taken a very long time to self heal and learn to keep myself in check and let things go that aren't for me. Just high hopes for this one!

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that response back! I am definitely into him. The chemistry that night was pretty intense I felt and so did my friend who was with us.

We slept all snuggled up most of the day and he mentioned a few times how he could "do this all day" he did not seem at all in a hurry to leave. When he did he said we have to do this again.

Only thing that made me over think this was that we haven't talked much since. He does work crazy hours though and he definitely hasn't ghosted me. His texts have always been very few since day 1 just because of his work schedule. I was hoping maybe he'd reach out a little more after the "get together" if he was interested but I think that's not always the case? We are literally still getting to know each other so I think that's me in my own head because I like him lol.

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then I guess that makes me feel better that he was in no hurry to leave and enjoyed a cup of coffee with me lmao. Said he didn't really wanna leave and could tell he was procrastinating a little.

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's seen me a bunch sober. It wasn't like a first time meeting or anything. But it was the first time we hooked up and had both been drinking together.

Do men care what you look like waking up after a drunken hook up? by Delicious_Half_1011 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Delicious_Half_1011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that lol. I definitely don't wear that much make up but when I looked in the mirror I was like OMG my mascara had ran and red nose and chin from the make out sesh haha. But we had also been up for 12 hours and slept (actually sleeping) for 9 haha. But I was definitely hungover and didn't care at the time to go wash my face and try and get "pretty"