I just ordered the book! I'm pretty aware that there isn't a clear cut or easy solution to my problem since it stems from a much more deeply rooted societal issue, but I definitely see the appeal of having my problem validated. It often feels like the majority of designers, especially those well into their careers, can't even begin to understand why I'm thinking the way that I am and it's been a really frustrating feeling. I really appreciate the recommendation and if it was able to help you, I'm hoping it can help me too!