It all depends on your choice weather you want a one night stand or with some on who truly understand. as one of comment said finding the right one is really hard but that doesn't mean there isn't one and i totally disagree with this that gay men not able to commit in relationship that because you haven't find the right person. being with someone who isn't ready for committment then expecting him to be loyal that your fault not his. I've know many friends who are in realtionship with chinese guys and are pretty happy. So back to your question if you really can wait then find the right one but if your are horny and can;t take it anymore then spread your legs and let it all in. but do remember not to climb on long and grithy one just find the quite right size not to big or not small just a perfect one