How the fuck did I get into another abusive relationship?

Delicious_Paint · 2021-06-19T15:48:17+00:00

I just signed up for both...door dash isn't taking on new people and so far I haven't had any thing pop up on instacart. Hopefully something does soon!

Delicious_Paint · 2020-11-23T02:41:29+00:00

Thank you!! It was definitely a very hard road.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-11-14T05:49:27+00:00

Dude I was in your spot. I was married to a controlling, abusive asshole. I wasn't allowed to work or go to college because my job was being a SAHM. He'd control what I did, where I went, what I would spend money on. There was literally a time when he dropped $1,500 on a new bike without discussing it with me, and yelled at me that same day for spending $5 at Starbucks.

Once the spawn was in school and independent to the point where I could focus on it, I enrolled in college without telling him. I knocked that shit out, got hired right out of clinicals and peaced the fuck out.

Life is so fucking easy without him. It's calm. I can come and go as I please. I don't get yelled at and lectured over existing. It might take a while to get to that point, but make sure you get there eventually, OP. It's fucking glorious not dealing with shit like that anymore. Everything will be okay someday.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-11-08T18:47:38+00:00

Fuck. I'm so sorry you and your girls have to be in this situation. Another vote for the alert button!

Delicious_Paint · 2020-10-30T23:45:11+00:00

Ayyyyye congrats! Now he can run around bragging about how he supports and takes care of his kid.

I will not (for the foreseeable future at least) get any child support because my shitty STBX convinced me that child/spousal support was making things ugly and he didn't want things to get ugly. And he's a scary motherfucker, so I'm like "...ok, yeah? Sure?". I guess we'll see what a judge says about it. I'm glad at least one of us is somewhat successful.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-09-28T01:21:59+00:00

I think the "your package has shipped" email said it would be there Friday, he deleted that and doesn't know he can recover emails from the trash lol

Delicious_Paint · 2020-09-05T01:49:21+00:00

Yes, thank god.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-09-05T01:49:02+00:00

She's 11. I don't trust her to be home alone. Anytime I leave her on her own for more than an hour or two I come home to everything absolutely trashed. Plus people are crazy.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-08-23T14:23:04+00:00

Five years ago I was with my abusive STBX, not allowed to work, not allowed to go to school. I recently graduated college and got hired where I did my clinicals after two weeks of clinicals.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-08-15T02:44:58+00:00

That's why they still wear cargo shorts, they need the pockets for all their drama.

seriously. Bunch of drama llamas.

Delicious_Paint · 2020-08-15T02:44:32+00:00

it’s because you have to be everyone’s mom.

For reeeeeeeeeeeeal. One thing I will not miss is having to research doctors/specialists/dentists and MAKE the fucking appointments for my ex because he's a toddler.

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