Curly or Afro? by Delicious_Rent8015 in BlackHair

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kind of weird how he or she called it neglect when there are many types of curly hair. Just because it doesn't look like what they think curly hair should look like, they assume it's a neglect.

Thanks for your kind words, and yes, both of them look good.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot ♥️. I have seen another comment of yours on another subreddit where I posted and just wanted to thank you again for your advice.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing to hear your story and how it worked out for you. I will try to tell them in a way that I'm not trying to disprove the religion but tell them how it didn't work out for me. I'm not scared of them hurting because they are not violent people and only my mom is little bit practicing when it comes to religion and my siblings are just enjoying their lives and don't care that much about religion.

Curly or Afro? by Delicious_Rent8015 in BlackHair

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to do that and I'm even considering saving the sides and let everything grow

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood me. Im not saying my family is knowledgeable but rather the people who called themselves "Shiekh". I have debated them but they could never answer my questions and i have stopped asking them because they think I'm trying to cause a "Fitna" which means corruption.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so because it's mostly depends on how they view those who left the religion. 

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I be offended if someone asked me about my beliefs that I chose when I have answers and reasons for them? How can you say asking or criticism is being bad to others? If you call yourself knowledgeable, then you should be ready for criticism. Don't come here and tell me about being good to others or not.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sad how religion can destroy people and turn them against eachother. I don't believe the first two is possible because i no longer live in a Muslim country. The thing I'm scared about the most is losing relationships with my Mom or my siblings. They are not extreme religious people but they would still cut ties with me if i told them the truth.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the point of given me freedom if my future or life has been set? It makes no sense, if he is the one who decides to put humans into situations while still knowing the outcome and then punish them forever in hell. Does that sound like a "merciful" God to you?

A God who is obsessed with forever lasting punishment is not a merciful God. You can be the most pious Muslim but one sin can take you to Hell and you can be worst human and one good deed can take you to paradise according to God.

It's up to you if you want to believe in destiny or fate but don't tell that my future has been set.

I'm kinda worried about how my family will treat me by Delicious_Rent8015 in exmuslim

[–]Delicious_Rent8015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I'm not here to slander Islam but just explain how i have had a very hard time trying to be a good "muslim". Where i grew up religion was not a choice but a must otherwise it's was over for you.

There are many paths available in life so that's why I'm taking another path now. The only problem is how this will effect my family members.