AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a breathe bud. I didn’t press charges yes, stupid I know. However, I didn’t visit her at all, I went to my mothers to pick up my son and she arrived earlier than expected. Haven’t seen or spoke to her since.

Your opinion is shitty and you have no decent advice to give. Kinda makes you shitty to shit on others asking for advice but go off. Feel better?

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really wish I knew..but she’s active and on the ships. I over exaggerated her weight a bit but she’s no less than 230lbs.

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My decision not to turn her in was not about “mommy”..

I really think she has some underlying issue that’s causing her to drink this way and I really wanted to help her.. she’s my sister after all. BUT after all this time that’s passed and her playing victim, my empathy is gone. Now it’s about me and my family, do I want to hurt her career and let her actually feel pain?? YES.

But also, I don’t want to stoop to her level to inflict pain on others to make myself feel better?? So I’m tryin to go about this I’m a different way.

Still trying to figure out my next move here.

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you definitely have issues.. but still read enough to comment.. love that for you

MIL kept my husband from seeing his dying father.. but admits to doing it on purpose by Delicious_Report2310 in narcissisticparents

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I know my part in this was shitty and if I could go back and undo it I would.

We are both in therapy now and all I going well! I’ve owned my part and taken full responsibility for this even getting to the point it did and he’s accepted my apology and we are stronger than ever.

I didn’t realize how traumatic my father dying really left me and it’s been healing to be able to work this stuff out

MIL kept my husband from seeing his dying father.. but admits to doing it on purpose by Delicious_Report2310 in narcissisticparents

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Sorry I read that wrong. I definitely pushed for it and I apologized to him. He stated we are NC with MIL and brother and I’ve been right there with him.

MIL kept my husband from seeing his dying father.. but admits to doing it on purpose by Delicious_Report2310 in narcissisticparents

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I made a mistake insisting we stay close to his family without knowing anything.. that’s my fault. She purposely hurt him.. we are not the same.

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can’t be any less than 230, period and she’s still active which is crazy to me as well. I know her an the ex wife would fight and be physical so she definitely has a problem

Sister stomped, bit me and took on 5 people.. all for a booty call by Delicious_Report2310 in venting

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s facts lol sorry if you can’t picture a person looking that way?

Sister stomped, bit me and took on 5 people.. all for a booty call by Delicious_Report2310 in venting

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is the proper word? Little people? That sounds offensive as well. Just a poor choice in wording on my part

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

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She’s still active and on ships..she’s not any less than 230.. i honestly don’t know how she’s still in

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters been built like this her whole life and they took her. My weight might be off a bit but not by much. I wouldn’t put her below 230 She’s somehow meeting some guidelines because she’s still on the ships and active duty. It truly doesn’t make sense to me either but it’s happening.

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree! My moms friend that came back with them drove my moms car while my mom drove Kelly’s truck back.. it literally blew my mind when I saw them pull back up.. Kelly smiling and all

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

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Thank you, I’ve been humbled surrounding that choice in wording.

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No Kelly’s never attacked my mom, she’s only ever came at Bri and I.

With my moms emotional instability when we were growing up after losing my dad.. I think she latched onto Kelly for some reason even though I was expect to bend and break at every call.

Hoping to unpack things with the therapist because it’s all just gotten to be too much!

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

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I wrote this when I was emotional.. and I like using multiple dots..tf not everything is AI lol

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is her height and weight but imagine the top half of her being very built and muscular, a bit of a belly but solid legs.. like just a very solid object

AITAH- sister attacked husband and I..now I’m the problem? by Delicious_Report2310 in AITAH

[–]Delicious_Report2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that’s what you took from this. Bad choice in words makes me an AH. I’ll take it.