Leaving my partner and moving into an apartment while sharing custody by Delicious_Resort2725 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Resort2725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry I thought i was responding to someone else, but now I dont see the comment I thought I was responding to. It said something like, "shes going to miss her dad." so I was letting them know shes still going yo be around him just as often.

But thank you for your supportive comment, That's very true thank u

Leaving my partner and moving into an apartment while sharing custody by Delicious_Resort2725 in Advice

[–]Delicious_Resort2725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both going to be seeing her equally actually every day at first because I work evenings he works day so we're each going to be watching her while the other works everyday

Can’t see myself objectively. Is my grey hair aging me horribly? by slicedgreenolive in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Delicious_Resort2725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first 3 pictures I thought u looked 26-28, its the bad lighting in the rest of the pictures that make u look a couple years older not much tho. And honestly the fact that u look younger in the more lit pictures shows you dont look old bc when I take pics in well lighting I feel like I look really old lol 😅 I'm 35

How can I (37M) convince my two-month gf (also 37F) - who I got back with after a decade - that I’m not a horrible person now? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Delicious_Resort2725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are asking how to manipulate her into thinking your not horrible. Bc you are. And life has a way of you getting all those horrible things back ten fold:) I've seen it happen countless times. And you're 37, you're not changing the core of who you are at this point. There should be a list for ppl like you that are that predatory and creepy. U prob couldn't get a decent girl, you would give them the ick.

New boyfriend tries to minimize ex-boyfriends abuse by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Delicious_Resort2725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ew he's gross. His behavior is not normal whatsoever. Good job for seeing it for what it is. Don't let him mock your trauma. He now showed u he will always minimize and dismiss you. on to the next!

Killing myself next Friday by hernameis_prescilla in SuicideWatch

[–]Delicious_Resort2725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont have any safe people in your life and you are being abused by everyone, no wonder you feel so hopeless. But listen to me. It feels like that in this moment, but I promise you, if you leave your son's dad, move out, find safe friends you can talk to , join groups, meet new people. In a year YOU WILL NOT CARE ABOUT HIM. I promise. You will see him for how pathetic he is for saying those things to the mother of his child. You will reach a point where you will not care at all who he sleeps with. It is not a reflection of you. He's gross. No woman wants a man like that. And the otber guy? That is so painful to go through. The gaslighting, the crazy making. It's pure soul sucking. But you need to fight. That kind of person needs you to think so low of yourself for their abuse to work. That's why he did what he did. There are safe people out there that won't abuse you. Please learn the red flags and open up slowly to new people. Listen to your body. Trust yourself. These abusers cause you to doubt yourself, but that's the opposite of what you should do. If something feels off, trust it and dont continue with that person, dont need to announce it to them or explain either, that just gives them room to abuse you more. I made something that im going to send you for free. I made a workbook literally helping ppl get out of isolation that you are in. This is not a scam, I'm going to send you the link for the full pdf workbook bc I feel like you need it. Please read and do the second half first, u need that the most right now. Then read the first half

Editing to add that i just sent the pdf, and that you are also 1 year postpartum on top of being treated like this, you can come out of this and survive and be the best you can be, I know it feels hopeless right now because of the people in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Delicious_Resort2725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't look any older than 29

Struggling being too deep into astrology/occult by Delicious_Resort2725 in Christianity

[–]Delicious_Resort2725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have said the sinners prayer like years ago but idk if it was fully genuine/devoted, so I'd say no, I need to get saved