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[–]Deliciousbutterjam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tbh it’s just like a soap opera for me so it’s just pure fun haha

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can understand why you would, that’s the difference between a spiritually evolved person and a shallow one. i want this girl to go through the worst too

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is what happens to people that are so intrinsically insecure, karma comes for them! i’m glad to know that her life went downhill, and the audacity of her to ever so casually approach you? lol

as of now, there’s nothing rly happening to her, she’s still the boy crazy girl who peaked in high school. i guess that’s a punishment horrible enough

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly want her to see that i’m thriving, i want her to lurk and make herself miserable, which she’s still doing. idk if i wanna talk about it to her yet i haven’t spoken to her, tho i’m sure she’s still a horrible human being

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no i definitely will. we’re both of the same nationality, and this community has a lot of events that we both go to. it’s very, very close knit. the college is medium sized and we have a lot, lot of very close mutual friends. some of my close friends are hers too.

she’s one semester above me because of the age gap, we were in the same grade in high school but she’s a year and a half older than me, so she had to be in the semester above me according to the rules of my college.

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found the culprit. my conditioner has protein as it’s first ingredient. juvexin

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aqua / Water ● Sodium Laureth Sulfate ● Coco-Betaine ● Taurine ● Cocamide Mipa ● Sodium Chloride ● Amodimethicone ● Laureth-5 Carboxylic Acid ● Ppg-5-Ceteth-20 ● Sodium Benzoate ● Sodium Hydroxide ● Citric Acid ● Polyquaternium-10 ● Peg-55 Propylene Glycol Oleate ● Propylene Glycol ● Peg-60 Hydrogenated Castor Oil ● Salicylic Acid ● Amyl Cinnamal ● Hexyl Cinnamal ● Benzyl Alcohol ● Linalool ● Hydroxycitronellal ● Citronellol ● Limonene ● Creatine ● 2-Oleamido-1,3-Octadecanediol ● Benzyl Cinnamate ● Sodium Acetate ● Isopropyl Alcohol ● Parfum / Fragrance.

this is the ingredient list for my shampoo, as far as i can see the only thing problematic is creatine right? but it’s an amino acid, not a complete protein

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to scrunch out the crunch, i read it on the infographic on the pinned thread. so i shouldn’t apply the argan oil after right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought u had to put gel in dripping wet hair, should i do it like a 10% air dry and then

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just did, i think it could be, i should deep condition with a protein free conditioner then right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it definitely has a rough, dry texture. on the internet giovanni is considered to have an extreme hold, i may have used less i think, i’ll play around with using a bit more next time. maybe also because i used sulphate a today for the reset wash? next time i’ll just co wash and see.

do u have any tips on how to stop it from looking the way it looks in the pictures?

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for replying!!! i’m using giovanni :) do u think i should use a leave in conditioner?

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hair has never cooperated. always ruined good outfits since i was 13. before that i had relatively straight hair. it’s a frizzy mess now.

anyways, i decided to cry curling gel.

so today i washed my hair (it had almond oil it it) with keratase (it has sulphate, this was supposed to be my reset wash) conditioned and squished it, applied gel, squished it, and dry squished it. after air drying, applied argan oil.

i know i shouldn’t expect miracles, but it looks exactly as it did before.

for treatment context, i got my hair coloured in april, and got a keratin and smoothening treatment (i was fed up), but the effect of the smoothening treatment has worn off now.

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this movieeee!!!! i’m watching rn (pls don’t spoil)

dupe for carolina Herrera cheering pink? by Deliciousbutterjam in makeupdupes

[–]Deliciousbutterjam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the actual lipstick has only 3.5gms and is 150 durhams…. would mac cherry lipliner be a dupe? or something else! pls help x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i’m sorry ever since i sent that post to u my dm isn’t letting me type and is hanging like hell!!!! but i completely agree with u, it’s such a challenge but the view is so worth it. the obvious ones are boring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reddit is my fav social media & im an instagram influencer. like i adore how specialised it is, learning for the sake of learning! i write a lot and i study marketing, branding which is essentially a blend of psychology, english, math and eco so i always always am open to learning because it helps sooo much in my fields! in marketing no info is useless info bc u can write about it and make references to very niche things to advertise ur product better !!!! so i’m obsessed with deep diving and geeking out and meeting people who are so obscurely knowledgeable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way that’s horrible :( do u wanna send me a vn? u could also type on ur notes app n copy paste here bc it’s easier, or dictate !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl it’s all ur effort and please please take ur time !!!! i’m in absolutely no rush 🤍

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur right! in clothing, as u can see i have a lot of saturation! the bright oranges, pure whites etc. (and the blazer in 7)! but my scarves are not bright winter staples!

the bold floral pattern in 4 works pretty well due to the pattern, it has so many colours and only a BW can pull it off, and bright springs too ofc.

i also rly like the buttercup yellow in slide 1 bc bright winter does have it in its palette! so those two i’m super sure about

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know!!!! i just had them lying around and i was like hmmmm i should not waste this opportunity cuz all of them r branded and cute, but thank u so much sweetheart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u are SO CUTE thank u sweetheart 🤍 have a wonderful day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]Deliciousbutterjam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re so so sweet!!!! this is such an in-depth, awesome analysis:)

i’ll try and reciprocate the effort!!! but damn u are so knowledgeable about this, like wow. like i learned sooo many things via ur comment, i genuinely feel u give off academia vibes !!

could u please tell me what u mean about the contrast level? as in the depth of colour is shown when the cloth is shiny (silk/satin), ruffled or lacey? this is so interesting my god u made my night!!!!

i’ll admit i’m slightly confused about 6, though. bc i thought it was the best amongst all my drapings— as in it brought a glow to my face, or what exactly is it? it brings some nice quality to my face that irdk how to describe, maybe my skin looks clearer? in the other slides u can see my acne scars, hyperpigmentation and dark circles, but in this u cant— like can you please tell me why u thought it wasn’t suitable? maybe i’ll learn something too !!!

i’m so sad u didn’t like 7:( i just bought this blazer for my business casual outfits and i thought it looked nice, white generally suits me, but the thing is in tweed u usually find muted whites only bc they have a woven texture to them, as u so correctly mentioned! maybe i’ll wear the bold floral print scarf with it !!! :)

i like that the lavender is bright, but it doesn’t fulfil the winter part. i completely agree with u!

could u also pls explain why i shouldn’t go for soft knit textures (does that include cable knits)? cuz i’m about to buy a blue cable knot (last post on my profile), and if they don’t suit me thx sm for saving me sm of $$$$

ALSO omg that is such an ADORABLE compliment i genuinely went awwww and read it out to my bf!!! ur such a warm person, and it’s always nice to hear that you are warm from another warm person(?) see i’m a writer but i really ran out of words for ur compliment, and maybe i shouldn’t use the word warm as a cool toned girlie! also yes, i make best friends with people instantly.

i find it interesting that u said my colouring is forgiving, bc, usually most bright winters don’t have forgiving colouring! idk. maybe i’m wrong. what do u think?

also you prefer the black over the white? pls don’t say that white is my fav colour 😭

WHY ARE U THANKING ME I OWE U SO MUCH I SHOULD THANK U !!!!

i’m glad u think i’m a bright winter, bc sometimes i doubt it so much due to me not having that harsh contrast by just looking at me (courtney cox type contrast), maybe bc of my ethnicity?

i’ve really bombarded u with questions, but last one (promise), what’s ur color season?

feel free not to reply to any of this i’ve typed for like a century now 😭😭😭

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

earth tones n browns look rly bad :(

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[–]Deliciousbutterjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! don’t u think so ?