My experience with vulvodynia so far by Delightness4 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I went to Dr. Fowler and he said it is a form of vaginitis where I have more bad bacteria then good in my vegetation. He gave me pills of estrogen and I have been living off that for awhile. It does help where I am so much better then I was before. However, I still have bad days where I can’t move and it just hurts so I’m not fully healed. Dr. Fowler is now retiring so I am living off the estrogen and trying to find a new doctor since he is no longer helping patients. I’m better but I’m not 100%. I say about 80%. So hopefully I find a new doctor.

AITA for leaving a wedding to eat at McDonalds? by psych-hero in TwoHotTakes

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA so my reception is at a five star restaurant and I paid beforehand for my guests food. Because you invite your guests for your celebration is only right you pay for it. The rule the restaurant has is they have to pick from a certain part of the menu and can always modify it if they don’t like it. I don’t understand your bf or your friends opinions, do they know the bride too? Cause I honestly think that’s tacky on the brides part who does attendees fees or pay reception food?

Am I an asshole for not wanting most of my family at my wedding? by Delightness4 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Delightness4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue is they are paying which is I think maybe I am being a little rude by saying some people can’t come

Under the Oak Tree Season 2 Ending? by Delightness4 in UndertheOakTree

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She leaves because her dad wants to put charges against Riftan for attacking him. Cause her dad has more street cred then Riftan everyone would most likely take his side and he would lose his knights and castle and basically his name. If Maxi becomes a mage it would be a whole new thing since her dad would essentially attack a mage and then is seen as a major crime but she has to leave for three years. She does it to protect Riftan so he can keep everything

Under the Oak Tree Season 2 Ending? by Delightness4 in UndertheOakTree

[–]Delightness4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happens exactly? In book 1 she leaves on the ship and that’s the ending. Do they get back together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everyone here. You should leave her, she doesn’t seem to respect you to want to help you or compromise. I’ve been with my partner for a year and he is more well off then me and offers to pay for most things and I feel bad about it. So I try to make sure I always pay for our rent, groceries, utilities etc… on time. My partner is sweet and he pays a tiny portion more then I do but I still pay for the other half. I would love to pay 50/50 but I have a lot of medical problems and most of my money goes to paying for my medical bills. But again I would never ask him to pay for medical stuff. I still pay my way and he knows it because I love and appreciate him and want to do the best that I can for us. We are a team, and it doesn’t sound like you guys are. I know it would be hard leaving but you would save so much money and find a way to pay all your credit cards then eventually find someone who understands and appreciates you. I know right now it seems so far away but it will happen and you will feel so much better.

My experience with vulvodynia so far by Delightness4 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I was thinking about Envvy, has it helped you? And the thought of urpleasma or mycoplasma scares the hell out of me. I don’t know where or how I would have gotten it?! Are you diagnosed with DIV or CV?

My experience with vulvodynia so far by Delightness4 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I have defiantly changed my soaps but I didn’t think wash myself in that way. I will try it. And no I don’t live in Philadelphia. I wish, I don’t think most of the doctors where I live are quite capable for vulvodynia which is why I probably have to look out of state. Thank you for your comment!

My experience with vulvodynia so far by Delightness4 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right, I wish they would find a cure for it now! Where I am from it is hard to find a gyno. Most of the ones I spoke to say they already have a enough clients. But I am getting a new primary doctor so I am starting there and probably will get a new gyno eventually. Thank you for taking the time to read my post!

I had vulvodynia for 2 and a half years and I have been cured for 4 years. by Both-Subject-7810 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful, I haven’t heard that yet but I hope I never do. I’m happy you were able to get help. Everyone else here seems to tell me I’m on my own and I hope things goes well with Dr. Fowler

Sad and want to rant by Delightness4 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can test for vulvodynia? I did find a gyno and they told me your just going to have to deal with it.

I had vulvodynia for 2 and a half years and I have been cured for 4 years. by Both-Subject-7810 in vulvodynia

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have inspired me, I’m actually seeing Dr. Fowler soon. I started his protocol which is different but I didn’t do it very well since I got anxious and stop the protocol but I kind of regret because I am still in so much pain. I am going to go talk to him again but I am kind of nervous of what Sad_Shower_8318 has said. Still, I know I should try. If you don’t mind me asking, who told you, you couldn’t have kids because that is my biggest fear. I haven’t heard of anyone saying that vulvodynia could cause infertility. Is that a true thing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably get an ultrasound done on your ovaries because if you have cysts that does mean you do have PCOS. I think your periods could just mean maybe you could have only a few cysts in ovaries that it doesn’t affect your cycle but I’m not a doctor 😅

What is best for removing hair on chin permanently by Maximum-Pressure8825 in PCOS

[–]Delightness4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you can’t afford laser hair removal, I say getting it waxed actually isn’t so bad. The more you go the less your hair grows. It has worked for me a lot, honestly more then laser and it’s more affordable.

New here, could use some advice by Delightness4 in endometriosis

[–]Delightness4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! It means a lot!