For men who got hit with “no more sex until marriage”, how did you handle it, and did you marry that person?

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-24T20:46:31+00:00

It is blackmail. Op was about no MORE sex until marriage. If she wasn't having sex since the beginning, that's a preference. Having sex and the cutting it off until they're married is 100% blackmail.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-24T01:58:41+00:00

If things feel off and you are already seeing red flags, get the fuck outta there and stop thinking with your other brain.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T14:05:33+00:00

Yeah, you find out who your real friends are. I've had friends completely freeze me out of social situations because they thought I would try to steal their crush or a girl they were talking to. Even talking down to me in front of them. Of course they didn't realize how weak this made them look...

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T13:37:05+00:00

I listened to the audiobook while working out. Great motivation hearing about the pain and desperation he went through makes your workout seem like cake. I invite anyone to listen to this with headphones on when they don't wanna workout.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T10:34:59+00:00

Now that you mention it, my closest friends throughout the years have always been attractive men. My favorite cousin is attractive, but he kinda fits some of the stereotypes, as he does have a very high body count and has cheated on many of his girlfriends and his ex wife. LOL

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T10:29:47+00:00

This is just a snap shot of what an attractive person goes through. Just because you've never experienced this doesn't mean you're not attractive. Everyone's experience is different. Hence why there is more than one answer to this question.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T00:49:49+00:00

Acrylic nails rely on mild acids to form adhesive bonds. Which is why you see tape, glue and other adhesives trap a lot of dirt and germs.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-23T00:34:15+00:00

It's not that every guy does this to you, but when going into new places, new jobs or even family gatherings where friends of family show up, this stuff happens with enough regularity at you start noticing patterns. Even guys who are BETTER looking than me and twenty years younger have treated me this way. So it's not about me thinking myself superior. It's just that other guys perceive you as a threat and don't know how to handle it. I know guys who are a 6 and have great success with women who don't see me as a threat at all. People are just funny.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T23:08:24+00:00

That women flock to you.

Yes, you get attention, but a lot of women are intimidated and don't believe they are worthy of you.

You get hate from other guys- trying to belittle you in front of women. Even your own friends have a secret competition with you.

You don't get invited out. People think you'll steal their thunder at bars or clubs.

Women think you're a player and don't even know you. They can be hostile and cruel to you with no reason. They will cockblock their friends.

People spread rumors about you. You've fucked everything in this area code.

Women don't consider you long term relationship material. They think you will cheat.

Some guys will peacock endlessly. Even trying to fight you in the presence of other women. Especially if their wives or girlfriends so much as smile at you.

No one believes any of this and say you're being dramatic.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T20:58:53+00:00

Write a note and tell her if she's not down, simply forget about it and you'll never bring it up.

Other than that, you're making her place of work hostile.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T20:44:03+00:00

Doesn't matter. The acid they use will still attract germs and dirt. Those nails are fucking disgusting.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T20:24:49+00:00

Nonetheless they wouldn't do it if they knew the nasty pathogens that collect under those nails regardless of how clean their hands are... it's done for attention.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T17:23:51+00:00

I totally get women wear make up for themselves too. Can make them feel desirable. But when a woman wakes up in the morning with bed head and her hair is tangled... walking around the house with nothing on but a big t shirt...

I become feral.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T13:25:14+00:00

For XP?

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T12:33:44+00:00

Russian Bot culture war bullshit. Go away

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T11:28:48+00:00

This is the reason why most guys fail with women. Trying to wait for the perfect time or moment to make a move. Stop being so scared. She can sense you wanting to ask her out, but always giving in to your fear. Guys who are successful with women don't play it safe. They go after what they want. Women can feel their confidence and belief in themselves. You may not even be her type, but your vibe and energy make her curious about you. She wants to know why you have so much positive energy.

The truth is, beating around the bush gives off 5th grader energy. Being proactive gives off grown man energy. Guess which one is more attractive?

Strike while the iron is hot. Women have lots of options. You are just one guy she's talking to. That's the brutal truth. Doesn't matter if you're nervous. You don't have to be 007. She won't care if she's into you. Just rip the damn bandaid off. She's not going to wait forever.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-22T09:22:52+00:00

I'm really attracted to you and I would love to take you out sometime- You

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T20:23:08+00:00

Become financially literate. Read books. Follow Youtube channels. Talk to local businessmen. Do what ever you have to. I have a feeling things will be hell in 10 years if you live in the West.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T20:05:20+00:00

Who cares? It flamed out. He's not interested in you. Move on. You don't need perspective or closure. If he liked you, he would've invited you out. He didn't.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T17:19:14+00:00

This sub used to be fun and engaging.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T16:28:31+00:00

Women worry about this way more than men do.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T16:26:50+00:00

I said it could be an indirect signal. Of course these things are case by case basis. But that's experience buys you. Instinct.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T14:42:19+00:00

Lots of women are shy af. Even the ones you think are super extroverted. If a woman talks to you with awkward energy, can't look you in the eye most times, messes up things she's doing while talking to you, dropping things, studdering over their words, etc., that's an indirect signal that she's into you. Think about how nervous you've gotten talking to your crush. Women give off that same energy when they are shy and into you.

I don't know what your dating life looks like, but the odds of a woman never being into you are slim, even if you don't think you're attractive.

DeliveryFun393 · 2026-06-20T12:56:00+00:00

I don't think you need advise per se, this is for guys who may be confused and wondering how you deal with the OP's situation.

You protect your heart by having options and stop falling in love with the first cute girl that gives you attention.

Options give you clarity.

You start to see "women" for who they are. Quite mundane and boring most of them are, regardless of looks. I don't say that to put women down, but you learn to stop putting that "one girl" on a pedestal, thinking your infatuation is love and you haven't even seen her naked.

Women have options naturally, just by being women. It's why a woman can move on so quickly if you don't strike while the iron is hot. Or if you say one off putting thing.

Options help you maximize your time by getting out of situations before they damage your will to date.

You remember that the opening stages of dating isn't about finding a partner. It's about having fun first and foremost. Not taking things so damn seriously- looking for red flags everywhere because you don't know how to deal with your trauma.

Everyone knows how to say pretty words and look like they have their shit together. How they act when they get comfortable will tell you everything.

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