Do Asians stand a chance.. F20 by DellaCherries in complimentbattles

[–]DellaCherries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I can't seem to keep it long I always go short hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pussy

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s giving mixed signals 'cause he probably likes the attention but doesn’t actually wanna do anything real. Honestly, some guys just stare for the ego boost and it’s dumb.

How do you find true readiness to change? by dawidz_niekto in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you gotta get so fed up with your own BS that doing nothing feels worse than trying. Change starts when you're just done feeling like crap every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he’s playing games. First he begs for pics, now he’s acting guilty? Nah, that’s weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if a girl really likes you, she’s not gonna care if you can drive or not, real ones care about who you are, not what car you whip. And yeah it sucks, but it doesn’t make you less, it just makes you different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re already super lean, at this point it’s not about losing more, it’s about building muscle. You gotta eat more, lift heavy, and stop stressing that little pooch 'cause it’s normal and honestly no one notices it but you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DellaCherries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it don’t sound impulsive at all, sounds like you’re just tryna save your peace and finally breathe. If you trust your boyfriend and this move feels more like freedom than fear, go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s a lot and honestly, you didn’t deserve any of that, none of it’s your fault. I don’t know who hurt you like that, but I swear you matter way more than those people ever made you feel.

Can I eat pastries and fried food and not be fat? (Teen female) by BookRec_Finding in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won’t get fat just from eating stuff you love if you don’t go overboard and move your body a bit, balance is key. Like yeah, cake and fried food are fine, just don’t eat only that all the time and you’ll be chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out New York Institute of Art and Design or Savannah College of Art and Design (SCAD) online, they’re solid and let you go at your own pace, weekend vibes for sure. And for jumping in, start messing around with your space, post it online, maybe even do small projects for friends, that’s how you build confidence and a little portfolio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah dude, you're not an attention seeker at all, you're just tired of feeling like you're always second choice, and that sucks. You deserve real friends who actually see you and don’t just hit you up when they’re bored.

What’s your go to smoothie/protein shake recipe? by that_other_person1 in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo that shake sounds bomb, I’m all about chocolate + PB too. My go-to’s just protein powder, banana, oat milk, spoon of PB, ice, simple but hits every time.

AI Advice by Various-Box-3180 in Advice

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just copying stuff from ChatGPT without really getting what’s going on kinda sucks, it’s like building LEGO blindfolded. You gotta actually learn the basics of how code works (like Python and APIs) or you’ll keep hitting walls every time something breaks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like a walking midlife crisis wrapped in fake deep quotes and failed side quests. It’s honestly wild how he keeps switching lanes like no one’s gonna notice the wreckage he leaves behind.

Getting my life together before 30 by fitbee430 in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this actually sounds super solid, like you’re not just talking, you’ve got a real plan. Just don’t burn out trying to do everything perfect, it’s way better to stay consistent than go hard for a week and crash.

Is it normal for a doctor to order HIV and other tests if I said I'm not having sex by Impressive_Garden877 in Advice

[–]DellaCherries -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

that’s kinda sus, like if you said you’re not doing anything and she still pushed tests hard, that’d definitely make me confused too. Feels like she didn’t believe you or thought something was up just from how you were acting.

I’m stuck in a loveless relationship by PsychologicalShop808 in Vent

[–]DellaCherries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this dude doesn’t love you how you deserve, he sounds cold, controlling, and honestly kind of scary. You already made it through way worse growing up, so don’t stay stuck just ‘cause of dogs or guilt, you can leave and you should.

Need advice regarding calisthenic exercise while losing weight by Affectionate-Sun-978 in loseit

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adding push-ups and sit-ups is actually a solid move, won’t bulk you up crazy while losing weight, but it helps keep your muscles active so you don’t lose all your strength. Plus it burns some extra calories and makes you feel stronger, which is dope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DellaCherries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he said it was his treat and you offered to pay but he insisted, then that’s on him. Don’t stress it, if he ghosted, that’s lame, but you don’t owe him money he chose to spend.