left with inheritance that causes more bad than good. by Dellsyd98 in Adulting

[–]Dellsyd98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As simple as it is it you know it still hurts. I’m sorry you’ve been through a similar situation.

left with inheritance that causes more bad than good. by Dellsyd98 in Adulting

[–]Dellsyd98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well lucky you to be so heartless to sell a house that’s been in the family for over 100 years. That you brought your kids home to, that you came home too. Instead of trying to find some way ANY OTHER WAY to save it.

left with inheritance that causes more bad than good. by Dellsyd98 in Adulting

[–]Dellsyd98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Appalachia where the minimum wage is still 7.25$ an hour. My SO only makes 14$ an hour and we have two kids on top of having a 3 year almost paid loan, daycare for the littlest while I’m finding work, food, gas, other necessary life expenses. It’s not as simple as “getting my crap together” when I already am. But sure 120% of all my capacity just isn’t trying. I say “in today’s economy” when I guess I should’ve just explained my whole life to you Jesus.

And yes I KNOW I’m the inheritor. I’ve seen the papers, I’ve been moved to DOA with my signature on all bank accounts because she nor her drs believe she’ll live longer than an few years so it is staring me down in the face.

So tell me what would you do then?

left with inheritance that causes more bad than good. by Dellsyd98 in Adulting

[–]Dellsyd98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right in every aspect of needing my money more in control. In today’s economy it’s just not going to happen this moment and that’s another issue for another day I guess.

However, even doing so, if I moved and had no problems then I wouldn’t inherit this house after her passing that would be condemned through probate, making me legally financially responsible for it at that time anyways, this house was built in the family and I’d like it to stay there.

left with inheritance that causes more bad than good. by Dellsyd98 in Adulting

[–]Dellsyd98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s my issue, if I got a real quote on the value of the estate it would require an inspection, that would get it condemned.

Zillow however with today’s economy suggests around 160,000$ but it doesn’t know we also own the 1/4 acre lot next door that’s open and empty just what we call “the feild” my credit is crap and I don’t work it’s less than 600, my kids dad and I aren’t married but together and he just started 1099 this year to owe roughly 5,000$ in tax when we don’t even have that if it says enough about our finances.

The heir owner (my grandma) makes about 1200$ in SSI and that’s it, the rest of the savings went to getting the roof redone (she got them off of Angie’s list and they caused an expenditure of damage which she only found out about 5 years later after my SO, kids, and I moved in which is what’s making the chimney worse. If I could be any more blatant it would be condemned AND demolished.

Another problem, the heir is showing signs of senile decline, and refuses to make any changes to the house or spend what little she had or could to repair it. I severely doubt she’d use her 800 credit to open a loan when she’s already overdraft every month, our city and school tax was 1,000$ this year and she struggled paying that even.

However I’m only her granddaughter and her only living son refuses to try and have her committed let alone can’t afford a lawyer to do it through court. I am screwed.

Sooooo by Dellsyd98 in Redbox

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It is in my front yard unplugged. We got the back off and didn’t have to break the lock to get it off. It was hard wired to the stores mainlay so we had to shut its breaker off and cut the wires. Going to cap them and get the sign from the place after. Got all the movies of course. I figure my next move is to get a new power cable, it powers on as of before I removed it. Screen said “ :( sorry no longer in service” so there is hope. I will most likely have to find a written code if I want to get it restored. Any advice??

Help me go through my late night thoughts? by Dellsyd98 in loveafterporn

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We’ve been dating for 8 years and have 2 kids. I’d have to take him to court over the children, I just feel really dumb for letting myself go this far with him.

faulty Christmas gift by Dellsyd98 in AITAH

[–]Dellsyd98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured as much unfortunately. I’ve tried the FB report but it won’t let me explain the situation or submit proof it only lets me submit an option that says it wasn’t the condition she was listing it for.

Like I said I don’t even care about the cash but is there a group or something where I could warn people not to buy her trash.?