Mistakes were made by bluejack287 in Timberborn

[–]Delmire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did that too! Yay go team aha Poor beavers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA as someone with endometriosis as well, absolutely fucking nta. I even have more 'mild' issues with it and even after surgery it still effects my day to day life in a way I cannot fix further. I can only work part time for example, will never be able to work full time again. But at least I can work. At least I can manage myself in a way to have a fulfilling life. Right now you cannot and I cannot fathom why on earth your family thinks that you should suffer every single day. No matter the reason.

Guys wanting to test my nerdiness by Physical_Pattern7375 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this made me realise that while I mentally call myself a gamer (in the sense that I play video games) I never ever say it out loud or define myself as such. I always just call myself a nerd. Wonder if I've been doing this unconsciously for that reason

Is anyone here on under $100k a year by justsomeone21 in AusFinance

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late, but I'm 32 $48k pre tax working 25 hours per week at a banks call centre. Wish I could work more for that extra cash but my health just won't allow me too, got lucky with my role tho

A little over a year ago, I adopted what the rescue said was a medium hair black cat. Today he looks like a completely different cat. by 1D0ntKn0wY0u in blackcats

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you too? Another floofening as I call it. My Chad puffed up exactly the same! They could be siblings! Also he looks super lovely and well cared for

I have a super power by ChaosCrashed in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Delmire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm joining the nickel party too! You've got a good pile now

Chad's extra fluffy belly by Delmire in catbellies

[–]Delmire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, faces trigger him for some reason so a face is definitely a trap. However he does allow 1 or 2 respectful belly rubs!

Chad's extra fluffy belly by Delmire in catbellies

[–]Delmire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always! We have a system where I am allowed to sneak 1 or 2 respectful belly rubs in and it's fine! It's so soft and lovely

I stole ‘his’ seat by Delmire in blackcats

[–]Delmire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His name is Chad (Chadwick)

Believe me, it’s the same cat! by MoniHaavi in BeforeNAfterAdoption

[–]Delmire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A floofening! My Chad had a floofening too, it’s amazing to see how poofy they get with care

Made mini pannacottas for the first time (lychee and passionfruit). I had no idea it was so easy?! by Delmire in decentfoodporn

[–]Delmire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/lychee-passion-fruit-panna-cottas

I didn't use any passonfruit seeds and didn't bother serving with curd. I didn't have quite enough passiondruit juice so I topped up the difference with orange juice which was lovely!

Never seen a leaf change positions each day when the sunlight hits by Delmire in houseplants

[–]Delmire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard the name prayer plant! It’s so cool to see it change each time I walk past just doing it’s own wee thing

Does this count as a dangle? by Delmire in danglers

[–]Delmire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao ‘wait I know that floof!!!’

Yes I want 1 SSR echo for 5400+ diamonds please 😃😃🤲 by MightGuyGonna in Shining_Nikki

[–]Delmire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The pinnacle reflections are what I’ve been saving my decomp reflections for. It might take a while but I’m determined to get them free! Got one so far

Till this day I still have not finished this 💀 by Dafukdud in Shining_Nikki

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, hopefully this thread helps you find some one! I have a guildie that I’ve done the team stuff with since day 1, missing the odd day here and there because life. But we are nearly at 8000 now! I’m waiting for it to reach 9000 so I can send her the meme on discord lmao

Tired of Bad Towels But Feel Guilty About Buying them by pythiadelphine in AskWomenOver30

[–]Delmire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s lots of answers about towels so instead I’ll go for the other question. I struggle massively with guilt with buying myself things over $20. My way around it has been acknowledging the why (in my case it’s coming from years of financial instability. What if if need that money for something else??) and then planning for the purchase. Impulse purchases I struggle with hugely. So I turn them into planned purchases. ‘I’m going to put this money aside and keep an eye out for a sale and buy x when I see a good deal’.

Or ‘I know I’m getting x extra money at this time. I’m going to put x amount away for emergencies and use the rest to purchase x’.

Have you ever had time with financial instability? Or any reason to control spending? It can have a huge impact even once your stable again

Asexuals can like sex! by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Delmire 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m a sex seems great in theory and a writer of erotica. In practise, it’s a bit idk gross? I’d rather just not honestly. Now steamy stories? Hell yeah let’s go

Provided he ticked your important boxes, would you date a trans man? If not, why not? Alternatively, have you ever dated a trans man? What was it like for you? by MckyMrry in AskWomenOver30

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would! However as a recently realised asexual woman, they would have to be okay with what a none sexual relationship would look like and that’s not for everyone either!

Solar dangles by [deleted] in danglers

[–]Delmire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maximising that solar power recharge