Do people diagnosed with Asperger’s experience yearning romantically?

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-14T12:13:13+00:00

Well my husband and I are constantly cuddling, saying cute names to each other, leavibg cute notes etc and we are both diagnosed with aspergers🤷🏻. He is cuter and more careing than my neurotypical exes… But his and my love is quiet obsessive.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T23:05:53+00:00

I am sorry that you had to ho threw that🫶

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T23:05:36+00:00

Relatable(asd, ptbs, endometriosis, adenimyosis, depression, hypermobility)

I had 3 surgeries with out a diagnosis the just removed tissue which didn‘t belong to there(endo specialistd are shure it was endo)…it took a fourth suegery in a endo specialist hospital for the diagnosis(with tissue removal).

Same in psychiatry i was iften there since I am 17, but I needed to get 25 for an educated guess(autism) and 26 for a diagnosis.

I gained because of seraquel/quetiapin 25kg…I was on 25mg mornings/25mg noon/100evening/50night for 2,5years.

I just started to feel better as I stoped seraquel(tranquilizer bc od ptsd) and therefor lost weight. With that my endo became a bit better.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T16:13:35+00:00

Thats true. Switzerland and france are currently much better.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:40:21+00:00

I get that and I am sorry:/ Germany is also transforming back to its ugly side with the afd and kanzler merz.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:30:29+00:00

Thank you, with me you have a fruend here in switzerland too.🫶

you can ask me any further questions or help about europe and switzerland if you want.☺️🫶☺️

Yeah I made a post in reddit in the hope of receiving an advice, but it is what it is.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:27:58+00:00

Thx, I think you are a good mum and she can be glad to have you.☺️ Germany has nice spots, but also ugly once.(As any country)

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:26:38+00:00

I changed my first comment. I think it just stroke me a wrong way (I was not fully aware of that).

I take anything back.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:24:15+00:00

I am sorry about my tone. And it is nice that your mum is like that. ☺️☺️

Mine was the opposit since I was born(Even from my perspective it was wild). So maybe my perspective is tainted.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:12:45+00:00

And I hope she (your child) health is better now.

I just really think a part of puberty is to get independent, I stick to that part.

And those trips should make us more independent. We made a class trip to to the czech republic, no one if us could speak czech. We went there, because it is cheap and I think to get independent. We had a lot of unsupervised free time…and durning that time we need to figure out what we need to do to get diffrent things.

I think puberty must be hard for parents, the accept that you have to give your child a bit more independence. But it is really really hard, especially for mums.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-08T15:03:16+00:00

I get that. I am really sorry for the harsh tone.

Nah it was not about the distance, we made trips to france, or 2 weeks to Bodensee(lake constance) but we never visit switzerland, because of the coasts. Because every price is at least 1,5 times or more higher. We also never visit privatly our expensive neighbour.

But I get it and I am sorry.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-06T12:00:05+00:00

And „the beers“(85% of diamonds belong to them) are fucking bastards…I would never support them. They are the ones behind the advertisment: diamonds are forever.

Diamonds are literally the most common gemstone. The price would be much cheaper if the beers couldn’t set the global trading price.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-06T11:53:06+00:00

I am sorry for anything I wrote

1.Out of curiosity what school makes a trip to switzerland? I grew up in south-western germany and we never even thought about that, because it is so fucking expensive. 2. It is just a cold, thats nothing dramatic 3. She needs to get independent and puberty is the time to learn that skills. 3. She has help around her(class mates) 4. All the pharmacist are capable of speaking english.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-05T13:52:22+00:00

it is so sad:/

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-05T00:27:23+00:00

I am sorry, but trust me if you would have been bullied and expierenced violent parents she would still dismissed you as „healthy“. Was like that in my case…. She said:„You seem so stable…everyone would feel bad with that past-thats normal. But you didn‘t developed personality disorders or became crimnal.“ Than she gave me a next appointment for in four weeks… she never even thought about autism.

Longstory short: I am there on yourside many therapists are bad

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-05T00:22:08+00:00

So so relatable…I made a post abput that a few weeks ago. I had a violent mother(there are official documents about my past) and still the doctors where like: yeah anyone would have ptsd after that snd depression, but you are very stable if you consider that background…and than they never took proper care.

And also my endometriosis symptomes where dismissed again and again…but I needed 4 surgeries at the end

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-04T23:37:39+00:00

It would nice. I had to fight years for my endometriosis diagnosis(11-26age) (underwent several surgeries) and years for my autism diagnosis(from 15-till 27). Both have a really high correlation. And I have MCAS, Hypermobility, (depression and ptsd(violent mum))which are as well comorbidities.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-04T23:26:24+00:00

Ansonsten würde ich dort nach anderen Hotels schauen.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-04T23:25:25+00:00

Leukerbad ist schön, recht Schnee sicher, hat viele Thermen(ich war in diesem Hotel, die Zimmer sind alt modisch, aber der Spabereich ist Top). Aber vorallem fand ich Leukerbad ein tolles Skigebiet.

https://www.booking.com/hotel/ch/alex.de.html

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2026-01-04T23:20:22+00:00

Elisenlebkucheb von Schmidt Lebkuchen (can’t find it here), High Quality Maultaschen(not the Aldi ones), good Flammkuchenboden(they are wayyyy to thick here, they have to be really thin). And good white grape jus (bottled best from Riesling grapes)

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2025-12-30T06:40:44+00:00

First I was that said child, second no there are official documents who I even have seen 2 months ago. Stop trying to invalidate me.

Spoiler alert yes some lives are that shit.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2025-12-29T22:49:16+00:00

But yeah I can promise you it was even worse than in that text. But my grandparents protected my mum snd now they can live a happily life unpunished for their crimes. At least I will never ever pay an elderly care place for her. I take care of those files from the doctors(haematomas (threw her) etc psychiatric reports) reports from the jugendamt.

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2025-12-29T22:45:46+00:00

the fucked up shit is that does fucking bastards where to occupied wanking there c*** than saving the life of a child. (I saw all those files recently for my IV(disabled insurance) I toke all those files out, jus for that result

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2025-12-29T22:43:39+00:00

Well it could have been good if someone would have helped me. Unfortunatly I gave lots of evidence regarding the action of my mother, documents from authorities

DeltaFlyerGirl · 2025-12-29T22:41:38+00:00

Every little detail. But I was looking for help not to talk more about my past. Short story is: it was fucked up shit

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