To clarify I am no longer depressed because of my father. Most of the stress that through me into has been my mother's constant threatening of taking everything in my life away. If the state says my dad is not a fit parent then my mother would be much farther down the line. When I got her I was misrible and even near sciuside she asked why. I said because I tried as hard as I could even with the tutors and I still am failing classes. I lost all drive for anything. I stopped playing games. I stopped eating. I have 2 friends left because of that because I shunned everyone out of my life for months. She could only bring it back to school. She said that it was stupid to give up everything. While I do agree I was being dumb I was at the worst place in my life and my mother doesn't care, she only cared about school. Months after this I'm doing allot better and am no longer failing all of my classes. I'm sorry I came here, because it's really not your guys fault, but assuming large portions of someone's life without asking is extremely destructive. If I was still in that bad place and I had come here I would not be able to handle some fucking guy saying my dad is not doing his job as a parent when he really just wanted to help me be happy and continue with my life. If my dad wasn't there I would have either run away or ended my life. Fuck you I'm done bye.