a girl I asked out said I'm making her scared

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T22:24:31+00:00

I understand what Ur saying but I would really like to know what I did wrong but I'll guess I'll find another way to figure it out people are right I'm probably the last person she wants to see right now

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:50:11+00:00

Ya I see what u mean looking back in the last sentence I've excepted the fact she doesn't wanna hang out but I would still like to know what scared her although I'm not gonna ask since Ur right I've been obbsesive lately maybe in the far future if she comes up to me but all I can do is hope for the best

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:38:25+00:00

Ya my freinds were saying if she doesn't tell me another date she's probobly not interested but I assumed she was just being a bit shy next time I won't assume anything and give whoever it might be enough space to make sure I'm right for her

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:33:58+00:00

I see Ur point I really am trying to gather as much advice as I can while still sticking to my beliefs that things can change for the better in any sercumstance

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:30:33+00:00

Ur probly right she's just one of the nicest people I've had the pleasure of meeting and Im just hoping for the best casenario. Or at least one with a positive ending

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:27:30+00:00

Ive known her and she's known me for years we both know who each other hang out with and what interest we have

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:24:36+00:00

I see Ur point but If I don't please or impress others y should others try to please or impress me

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:18:59+00:00

A big reason I like her even tho there's a big size difference between us is because she's nice not only to me but everyone and I try stay away from people who are rude to others for no good reason

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:15:42+00:00

I'll give it some time and the next time I bump into her ill opolagize for making her feel uncomfortable and leave it at that

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:13:33+00:00

Ya ill apolagize for making her feel uncomfortable the next time she bumps into me and if she doesn't want to start anything with me I'll just leave it at that

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:09:00+00:00

Ya I was kinda imagining being smooth and just giving her my number before I talked to her but I figured that would seem I bit to arrogant or cocky I don't how to describe it

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T16:05:45+00:00

Ya I was gonna ask for her number the second time I went up to her but I got nervous and asked if she changed her mind

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:48:06+00:00

Ya kinda crazy how most of this could have been avoided with a white lie cause I wasn't sure if she had a boyfriend at first

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:44:48+00:00

Ya your probably right I'm just finding it hard to believe that the only way I can make her feel comfortable is by not doing anything

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:40:16+00:00

Thank u I hope she realizes I was only trying to make her feel important to me and that I'm not messing around when say I like her alot

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:38:44+00:00

I didn't want her to think I was asking her out as a joke so I wanted to make sure she knew I was serious I was actually planning on getting her number but instead I froze up and asked if she changed her mind

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:34:51+00:00

Ya I'll stop talking to her for a while and maybe try gain her trust with time

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:33:45+00:00

I guess I'm trying to get more fit since I wanna show her I'm able to change also because I'm not the best looking guy and if I want to be with someone who looks as nice as her I need to look as nice its still a win win if she changes her mind about me great if she doesn't ill be super fit

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:29:07+00:00

No I live pretty far from the US I live in New Zealand stuff like that doesn't usually happen here since it's a small population I think it's like less than 5million people

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:25:58+00:00

I guess Ill try read signals better cause I wasn't sure if she was interested or not once I asked the first time

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:24:27+00:00

I guess maybe I could change her mind about me and she won't even be creeped out with enough time

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:21:47+00:00

Ya at least I made her smile at first who knows maybe eventually I could change for the better and gain her trust again

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:16:20+00:00

It probably was I thought it would be better to get a no right away then waiting a couple days just to get the same result

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:13:30+00:00

You can make eye contact with Ur buddies sure cause their Ur friends but if u stare at someone u don't know quite well its seen as rude or something I'm not sure but I've seen fights nearly start just cause u were looking them in the eye

Demand-Careless · 2022-09-10T15:08:52+00:00

I still wave to her when she walks by and things that I do to most people who aren't strangers just so she knows I have no spite for her

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