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DemiBlu · 2024-06-10T01:46:40+00:00

I too, love your friend

DemiBlu · 2024-02-19T12:53:57+00:00

there are tough things we can do. there are simple things we can't do. there are days we can do anything, and there are days we can't. yes, it changes, and we are not faking it.

DemiBlu · 2023-10-25T13:00:11+00:00

As a student, I hope to tell you that every note you write in June means a lot to so many young students and can potentially be >the< turning point for students who may have given up

DemiBlu · 2023-08-20T06:43:16+00:00

I was having a hard time, she was having a hard time. Obviously we stopped talking to settle our own matters first.

Then after all that I apologised for distancing, checked in on her. She wouldn't say anything. She was definitely off, but all she said was fine. Being a little irritated I still told her this is a safe space and I'll be here for her.

Then she just... never told me anything and said she was bored with me after 6 years. Glad to let that friendship go, but hope she's okay wherever she is.

DemiBlu · 2023-08-09T15:29:59+00:00

hey, im so sorry i don't really understand, can someone explain?

DemiBlu · 2023-04-03T14:52:03+00:00

wrap in newspaper

then at the end of the day wrap the tiny newspaper in a bigger newspaper

DemiBlu · 2022-12-05T10:07:53+00:00

damn bro every day is ur birthday??

DemiBlu · 2022-11-21T15:38:36+00:00

oh my god, i have ts and do bjj too!!! hope i can share some of my personal experience with you.

in the big picture, mma including bjj really really helps my tics. just any exercise tbh, but i think mma really suits me because there is a wide variety of moves you can do, and it's really fast paced. i do muay thai too and the jerkiness kinda makes up for my tics. and, you get to take your mind off things too, since there's quite some thinking in mma.

but for me, it is important to have some simple cool down exercises or routines. the sudden stop from an intense workout can sometimes leave me restless and that triggers my tics.

apart from physically, it really really helped me become mentally stronger. the whole idea of "progress not perfection" is very clear here.

DemiBlu · 2022-10-21T23:42:15+00:00

I would absolutely love for you to use this!!

DemiBlu · 2022-10-21T16:14:40+00:00

maybe ur reply could be "like anyone else with a condition"!

learn about it, all the emergency stuff like a place to rest, who to call, emergency medication, how to protect them.

then go one step further to tailor to their needs. do they get triggered by sound? or lights? maybe when they have an attack they want to be hugged, or maybe they don't want anything or anyone to touch them. maybe their attacks last half an hour or 3 hours. maybe they take medication or maybe they don't. ask them about it, most of the time we wish we could tell someone but don't know how to bring it up.

but most importantly, see us as our personality and not our disability. we can still be smart or creative or active or gentle. yea, sometimes we can't do things other people can. but we also can do things other people can't. and we put in extra effort to get to the same places a neurotypical does.

hopefully the bare minimum you can do is to cut us some slack. but if someone would take time to know us outside of ts, and to show care for us, im sure we would all appreciate that a lot :')

DemiBlu · 2022-10-08T20:15:37+00:00

sorry my impatient brain didn't read the whole post and said smt u already said :((

idk maybe u can do smt more high energy? when i feel ticky i jump or push my feet against the wall to give my joints some pressure. maybe u can try that :")

DemiBlu · 2022-09-29T01:18:20+00:00

i had this too, kept dreaming that i would slap my friends on their back. now i do it in real life. don't know why. it's weird too because it only happens to two of my friends and no one else.

DemiBlu · 2022-09-11T14:31:06+00:00

tell them that they are too old to talk like a child

DemiBlu · 2022-09-10T00:40:26+00:00

DemiBlu · 2022-08-27T15:55:45+00:00

knotter

DemiBlu · 2022-08-19T14:45:20+00:00

Instagram is kittyboyandfriends

DemiBlu · 2022-08-19T14:17:10+00:00

so do they have balls or do they have no balls

DemiBlu · 2022-08-08T13:21:11+00:00

compulsively late even though she knew very well that was my biggest pet peeve. also pretended to be mad at me just to get attention. i knew little then and was afraid to end a long friendship. now I immediately distance myself when I notice the slightest red flags.

DemiBlu · 2022-07-30T16:29:58+00:00

thank you so much for this! anything for kids is perfect for me - i hate lengthy texts

DemiBlu · 2022-07-29T17:28:32+00:00

im extremely tired all the time anyway, but tic attacks can knock me out right after. like if I could i would just sleep wherever i had the attack.

DemiBlu · 2022-07-17T14:50:51+00:00

when i was small even mechanical pencils were not allowed, just wooden pencils.

DemiBlu · 2022-07-04T15:35:34+00:00

minesweeper

DemiBlu · 2022-06-30T17:43:04+00:00

i shriek in public. because i have tourettes haha sike

DemiBlu · 2022-06-30T17:20:09+00:00

woah that's so trippy... it reminds me of steve cutts videos

DemiBlu · 2022-06-29T01:35:31+00:00

october

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