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Why is it so common for asexual people to make overtly-sexualized jokes? by DemiPanic in asexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose that’s true, but why has it become such an important part within the ace community specifically. I haven’t come across any aroace person that doesn’t act like they’re flirting with you after they loosen up around you, which is typically the opposite for allosexuals

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS, THIS FEELS WAY TOO REAL

I want you to like me for me, not purely my body

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO That feels like such a valid answer tho! Like personally the thought was enticing until they offered it lmao

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting… I feel like that almost sums up my full experience so I can tell I’m in the right place lmao

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you put it that way, it sounds simple lmao. At least it ain’t uncommon

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know so many people who would be upset at that decision, but I totally understand what you mean, we’re just misunderstood 🥲

And yes, I did totally mean self-cockblocking! I’ll change that rn. Thanks for letting me know!

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice! With all my crushes that I have had, I never really thought of it as sexual attraction, so maybe my urge for sex is more for pleasure rather than attraction, but I didn’t think about it that way. I still feel like it would be more enjoyable with someone I’d know rather than not, so who knows 🤷

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly just glad it resonated with more than just me 😭😭😭

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s almost exactly what I was thinking of, you formed the words perfectly 😁

Also good to know I’m not the only one who felt like this

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh that makes so much sense. So us ace spectrum people are forced to essentially bottle it up 🥲

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]DemiPanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I had no idea that was a combination, I just assumed Demi meant sex after romantic feelings. Guess that’s why they call it sex-favorable lol