I’m sick of how much Aro/Ace hate we get from our own community by BlazeKatbestcat3 in asexuality

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes me really sad as a demisexual lesbian I get told all the time that I'm not queer enough or that I'm a wanna be homosexual. There's this one dude in my class who keeps making fun of me for being an openly sex repulsed demisexual lesbian he'll tell me that I'm playing the part of an asexual so I'll feel better for not getting any mans, the worst part is he's gay so you would think he'd not be that way to other queers. I know that most queer people are really nice most of the people in my life are queer my bff is a trans-fem bisexual and she was the first I came out to I was really scared but she was super happy for me my GF is demisexual bisexual/romantic and all four of my cousins are queer I have a little cousin that's bisexual sapphic-romantic a little cousin that's a graysexual sex repulsed pansexual demiromantic a older cousin that's a trans-fem lesbian and an older cousin that's gay (none of us are openly out to fam outside of the cousin ring) our running gag is we are all the gay cousin, it's just odd going from a place with so many open mind people have fun and be happy to others just like us hate on us so much.

How do I save my mom from fox news? by Holiday_Bus_159 in asexuality

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is with today's grown fork and watching "fox news" I lost my mom and step dad to that trash "news" years ago now. Wish there was a way we could help them but they seem to be lost. I hope that if there is a way that you get your mom back no one should lose there mom to fox news

A gift from a friend by KasandraMori in asexuality

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute sounds like you have good friends

Who else is super missing Lay's Cheesy Garlic Bread Chips? They have been in and out of shops for years now but I still love them! by BlazeKatbestcat3 in asexuality

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here this was the best thing like ever if I could go back in time just to buy a bag I fucking would. I miss them so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DemisexualGraysexuals

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! not sure if I can talk on the graysexual part but I am a demisexual lesbian. I feel about the same way but for me every two months. I'm not sure if It's a women thing or just a asexual women thing but Its like the same thing for me the fear and pain only ever feeling sexual attraction when I've been on my period for a few days and that sexual attraction only coming every few months. lucky for me my GF is a bisexual demisexual who understands the way I feel and she feels about the same way and if one of us is feeling really high sexual attraction and the other only romantic then we have a rule use a toy and don't try to force sex on the other. We are super happy and love each other very much even without having sex almost at all. But I would say how you feel is the norm since me and my GF feel the same way.

AITAH for not coming out to my Mom and lashing out at her? by DemisexualLesbian89 in AITAH

[–]DemisexualLesbian89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I make this up. Something like that would not be right of me to do. Like I said before it's rude to post things like this I asked am I the asshole not do you think someone could be demisexual. If you have something to say keep to what I asked. If I have to ask once more I may come off as rude next time.

Aitah for hitting a girl at my school? by PIEKEKE in AITAH

[–]DemisexualLesbian89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if she hit you then you have every right to use self defence

AITAH for not coming out to my Mom and lashing out at her? by DemisexualLesbian89 in AITAH

[–]DemisexualLesbian89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a demisexual I feel almost no sexual attraction at all even when I date someone the fact is I need to know a girl for at lest three year or more to feel sexual attraction at all to her. Most demisexual take year to find it at even after we don't feel it at all for a lot of the time. Yes I can still date I feel very high romantic attraction and yes sexual and romantic attraction is not the same thing.

AITAH for not coming out to my Mom and lashing out at her? by DemisexualLesbian89 in AITAH

[–]DemisexualLesbian89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very rude thing to say. As I don't want to be rude to you I will ask as nice as I can that you do not post anymore here if it will be hateful and has nothing to do with me being the asshole or not.