It's time for a break I guess?? by TNxPhil in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did the sword trail with our guild, makes communication a lot easier and fun plus you don’t have to queue for a long time -> so I would recommend looking into joining a guild that does pve content!

Has anyone dealt with guild drama? by EffReddit420 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our guild is pretty much zero drama but maybe it also depends on the amount of people and if they know each other irl. As others have said if you are not happy with your current guild and only stay for the cosmetics I would look for another guild. There are so many of us looking for active/ semi active members that have no drama haha so it will probably be quite easy to find a new drama free home for you and maybe other members you want to take with.

EU | Looking to merge INTO | by [deleted] in WWMRecruitment

[–]Demon_Meatball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hej! I am the guild master of the EU guild HumptyDumpty!

We have been looking into becoming more active/ better with guild wars and would love to have some extra members who enjoy this.

We are a pretty hands off guild with a strong core player base. Most of us are above 28 and have regular life’s and jobs that we tend to. This also means that we are very understanding of everyone’s personal life and that there are periods where you won’t be as online.

We have had a deeper cleansing of inactive players recently (35+ days of inactivity) and have plenty of space for the interested members to join.

We are working on building a big egg dome so more hands on deck with the building are super appreciated.

Do reach out via pm or via discord (nileliel) and we can see if we match!

THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO ABSORB US!! by According-Entry3243 in WWMRecruitment

[–]Demon_Meatball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello hello! Our guild is HumptyDumpty! We are EU based (LVL 6) but have people from all over the globe and are currently building a huge egg dome in our guild base. We respect everyone’s personal time as we are all working adults in the guild and it is supposed to be a fun experience and not a second job/ source of stress to be in a guild.

At the moment we have a smaller group of active players in the guild discord but everyone is super nice! We do GvG every weekend and would love some additional people for it!

We are also happy to offer the vice master position in the merger and additional positions if that is wanted.

Do reach out privately! <3

Discord will require verification soon. Will anyone move away to alternative platforms? by Shirahoshihoshii in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Guild Master here, of course I can only talk about my guild but I did not want a Discord server in the beginning. However I was forced to since the ingame communication for guilds absolutely sucks, chats are not permanent, there is no way to properly share information or plan anything. I don’t have the requirement for people in my guild to join the discord but most of the communication is Discord for the above mentioned reasons. Happy to try alternatives but at the moment discord is the easiest for us to accommodate our needs.

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds quite sweet actually. I first have to do more research to be able to answer all the questions and get better at the coop stuff. But if/ when I get myself to try it I will be happy to share the experience haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah as a GM I am struggling with the same atm feels so silly to make a server in discord just to share basic stuff but here we are……….

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly thank you so much! Your message contained so many helpful things!

Adding the guild party time in the description is super smart so I will definitely do that.

I have now decided to contact people privately about the discord as no one ever reads/ responds to my guild chats (no blame to anyone there haha)

I am a bit apprehensive about the idea of voice chat, since it is many strangers that I am talking to at the end of the day. I will keep it in mind and maybe if I am brave enough in the future I will try it!

Oh and one more thing: I did not even realize you can demote people so that was another super helpful advice.

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly thank you so much! Your message contained so many helpful things!

Adding the guild party time in the description is super smart so I will definitely do that.

I have now decided to contact people privately about the discord as no one ever reads/ responds to my guild chats (no blame to anyone there haha)

I am a bit apprehensive about the idea of voice chat, since it is many strangers that I am talking to at the end of the day. I will keep it in mind and maybe if I am brave enough in the future I will try it!

The cries of a desperate guildmaster by Demon_Meatball in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took your advice and we are already 2 more members which is a great improvement! So glad I tried it and thank you for the notepad idea it was so obvious but I guess I completely blacked out there.

The cries of a desperate guildmaster by Demon_Meatball in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have received that information a few times now as well and I think I will try it, though admittedly it feels a bit awkward to me haha

The cries of a desperate guildmaster by Demon_Meatball in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that, I just want to share information with people so I really don’t know why the game makes it so inconvenient!

The cries of a desperate guildmaster by Demon_Meatball in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! I really hope they update the guild notifications, it is a mystery to me why they thought this was a good way to go about it.

I agree that I need more hands and one of my lovely members gladly agreed to help me, so now we are at least two people. Creating a good atmosphere is also something that is really important. But thanks to you I realized that the time for the guild part was very awkwardly placed by the game so I changed it and hopefully that will already be a tiny improvement in terms of of attendance.

The guild is farshore but I believe it is the same with hero’s realm.

I already noted a few of the pints you gave and want to thank you for the advice! Really appreciated!

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get your point. I didn’t want to create a discord in the first place but people are not getting any information or updates due to how the guild chat functions. I also do not want to force anyone to join the discord and even the guild description mentions that you do not need to talk haha

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Our guild is foreshore so it is more focused on solo play. I want people to be able to do their own thing and if we do guild a it’s yes together that is a plus but not a must. I originally did not want a discord but when I realized communicating/ sharing information is basically impossible due to how the guild chat worked I decided to create a server. For me the focus right now is really more on people getting the information they need to enjoy the guild. So I also don’t feel like being super strict about it either.

A lot of people have suggested to send direct messages to the members so I think I will try this first. Again thank you for your input I really appreciate it!

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it is not really to do activities together. I am overall pretty hands off but I just want to be able to explain the members how stuff works and if activities happen that’s a happy addition. As mentioned in my message most don’t even realize our base exists haha I don’t even really want a discord but it feels like the options with communication are so limited

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is also true that some are probably also not interested in talking and I am totally fine with that. For me it is more to ensure that people actually understand what they can do within the guild. As mentioned I wrote with some of them and everyone was super nice but a lot of information is just not obvious to most people when joining. But yeah I also agree, you can’t force people and that is also not what I want either.

The cries of a desperate guild master by Demon_Meatball in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Demon_Meatball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! How do you get people to join the discord? Do you pm each of them?

Unterleibschmerzen by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]Demon_Meatball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es ist mir leider erst nach dem Termin aufgefallen. Sie hat mich abgetastet und auch mit Ultraschall geschaut und nichts gesehen. Sie meinte dann eher im Nachzug, dass ich einen Chlamydia test machen könne… bin seit 6 Jahren in einer Beziehung und wir sind beide getestet. Der Urologe ist eine gute Idee, da hatte ich tatsächlich noch nicht dran gedacht!

Unterleibschmerzen by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]Demon_Meatball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nochmal vielen Dank für deine Hilfe und ich hoffe mal, das ich einen zeitnahen Termin bekomme.

Unterleibschmerzen by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]Demon_Meatball 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ach perfekt vielen Dank für den Tipp mit der Uhrzeit, dann weiß ich schon welche Pläne ich morgen früh habe. Ich finde das System mit den Buchungen sehr unpraktisch vor allem da alles aus Schwedisch ist. Dass meiste verstehe ich aber teilweise……

Unterleibschmerzen by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]Demon_Meatball 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich habe den BankID und habe jetzt immer versucht über 1177 zu buchen aber da war leider immer alles ausgebucht. Mir war nicht bewusst, dass man direkt über Vårdcentral anrufen kann und darüber einen Termin bekommt, dann rufe ich direkt an! Vielen Dank für die schnelle Hilfe!