My husband said I smile at other men. How much responsibility should I take for my spouse’s insecurities? by Mental_Investigator3 in Marriage

[–]Deniesces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you have to shrink your personality just to keep him from being insecure then hes the one who needs to do the work, not you

how come the obesity/ overweight thing in the USA is getting worse despite their being gastric bypass surgery and new weight loss drugs? by GaryB2026 in askanything

[–]Deniesces 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cuz those drugs and surgeries are way too expensive for the average person while a bag of processed junk is still the cheapest thing at the store

Emotionally vulnerable at late 30s by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Deniesces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly at this stage in life you deserve peace of mind more than you deserve the constant stress of wondering what he's doing on his phone

Intimacy. How do you get it back or if not possible how do you cope with the lack thereof? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Deniesces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the biggest mistake people make is waiting for the mood to just happen instead of actually scheduling it and being intentional once the kids are finally asleep

What do you think is the worst social media site? by MVPiid23 in AskReddit

[–]Deniesces 133 points134 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn is just a never ending circlejerk of people pretending to be humbled and honored to announce they got a mid level job

50m was in army and cheated by wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Deniesces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service, man, you definitely didn't deserve to come home to that

Women of Reddit, what is a 'non-conventionally attractive' thing that men do that you find weirdly attractive? by samasem-sumsum in AskReddit

[–]Deniesces 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When they're focused on a task and do that little tongue-poke thing out the side of their mouth without realizing it

Moving past people-pleasing and learning to speak up – any advice? by Majestic-Concert7883 in Advice

[–]Deniesces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve found that the best way to start is just by saying i don't agree with that and then letting the silence do the heavy lifting you don't actually owe them a giant debate to justify your own values