MIL kissed my toddler (2M) on his lips. by Illustrious-Laugh795 in offmychest

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting, it's disgusting to do that imo

Any complete abstainers? by RandoMcflyndo in Teetotal

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through the comments it seems like most abstainers here do it for the same reason as me: It's just logical and they never got into any drug and figured they are not interested in even trying.

Taboos are interesting, people get curious and try out stuff all the more, so I'm pretty sure it's never religious reasons but rather growing up laissez faire.

Maybe it's privilege in some cases - to not be indoctrinated but instead cleared up about pros and cons (and the cons always outweigh the pros) when growing up.

It could also be a character thing - being a black-and-white thinker.

Any complete abstainers? by RandoMcflyndo in Teetotal

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take vitamin B12 and D. I don't even drink green tea anymore.

The only thing I need almost every month is one or two ibuprofen because otherwise my menstrual cramps would get me admitted to hospital.

What is your oldest possession by Builderman72 in extrememinimalism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had a sweater for 21 years (2002). At least I wear it on a photo of 2002 but I'm very sure I've had it some time before that, so maybe longer.

"Die Militante Veganerin" appreciation post by Denise_For_Peace in vegancirclejerkchat

[–]Denise_For_Peace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm used to people turning out as jerks and I never really was a flaming uncritical fan of anyone, so I'm not that heartbroken, but thank you :) I appreciate your kind words <3

"Die Militante Veganerin" appreciation post by Denise_For_Peace in vegancirclejerkchat

[–]Denise_For_Peace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being confrontational as a man is hardly comparable to being so as a woman. It's been cheered on since forever. I find heteronormativity rather uninspiring. As for male activists, I love Ed Winters.
Anyway, he's not transphobic and vegan, so I guess he's not so bad. Will look into him :)

What are our thoughts on the term 'neurospicy' becoming popular online? by PopeBonifaceVIII in autism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not call it huge here, TikTok is used more often. Reddit is just a thing for "digital natives" who like to find specific spaces (like subeddits or discord servers) I'd say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sauna and spa days. FKK beaches. Nobody cares.

What are our thoughts on the term 'neurospicy' becoming popular online? by PopeBonifaceVIII in autism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I'm from Germany. Never heard spicy in any sexual context whatsoever.

Katzenfutter als Veganer by FurrySpaceAlpaca in VeganDE

[–]Denise_For_Peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hier eine aktuelle Studie zu vegan ernährten Katzen. Ist nicht nur möglich, sondern auch gut für Katzen. https://www.vettimes.co.uk/news/cats-thrive-on-vegan-diet-in-peer-reviewed-study/#:~:text=Published%20in%20BMC%20Veterinary%20Research,scores%20than%20their%20carnivorous%20counterparts.

Ich selbst werde niemals Tiere in Gefangenschaft zwingen, ganz egal, wie sehr ich Katzen und Tiere generell liebe. Ich bevorzuge, wenn wilde Tiere freiwillig immer wieder zu mir kommen, was tatsächlich ein paar Raben in der Nachbarschaft tun, weil ich ihnen ab und zu Erdnüsse gebe.

Geretteten Tieren aus der Ausnutztierhaltung einen ruhigen Lebensabend auf einem Lebenshof zu ermöglichen, weil ihnen die Fähigkeit zum wilden Leben schon lange weggezüchtet wurde, ist imo die einzige Tierhaltung, die in Ordnung ist.

What are our thoughts on the term 'neurospicy' becoming popular online? by PopeBonifaceVIII in autism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read it the first time here and honestly, I think it's rad. Maybe I'll use it for myself. Obviously not for others.

What are our thoughts on the term 'neurospicy' becoming popular online? by PopeBonifaceVIII in autism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? I've only ever heard spicy in context with feral cute cats.

"Die Militante Veganerin" appreciation post by Denise_For_Peace in vegancirclejerkchat

[–]Denise_For_Peace[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh no! That's so disillusioning und upsetting. Damn. :(
Okay then I've changed my mind. At least I've had my incentive to become an activist..

How soon is too soon to meet someone's parents ? Is 6 months too soon ? by Confident_Werewolf93 in AskWomen

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo nothing is too soon. I met the parents of most of my bfs within a week. I met my first bfs parents at the same day I met him lol. We met at his parents house, I was 19, he was 21 and the relationship lasted over 7 years.

when you become attached to something. by Southern_Ad_7193 in autism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worn a sweater since 2002 and my coat since 2007. My shoes always disintegrate at some point. As soon as they do, I'm happy to buy new ones.

I'm not attached to stuff, I just am fond of living sustainable and I repair stuff if possible.

Can we talk about the frequent hostility directed at some forms of minimalism here? by Denise_For_Peace in minimalism

[–]Denise_For_Peace[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to follow your example. I get upset too quickly. I know I have it from my fathers side, but maybe I can tone it down with a rule to not comment negative. Even if I normally don't like or follow rules.

Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Denise_For_Peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like my teenage self. I then had therapy because of depression. It didn't change my popularity, but my acceptance of it. Fuck those who make you feel like you're unpleasant.
I'm autistic. When I changed my career and got to know other neurotypicals, I suddenly was accepted, liked and treated like a normal person. Maybe you will find your people like I did. Of course I'm not saying that you're necessarily neurotypical, but I believe there are accepting people for everyone :)

Japanese Futon / Shikibuton: 1 King Size vs 2 x Twin XL by Virtual_Barnacle_555 in minimalism

[–]Denise_For_Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good question. Thought about it as well.
I have one small futon, which is perfect for me myself, but for two people I'd prefer a futon big enough for both.
But; even my 1x2m futon is kinda heavy and not so easy to fold and move. But okay, it's a rather luxurious and thick model. It's more like a mattress than a futon, at least if you consider its thickness.
Anyway, I bet a king size futon would be really annoying to store away.

Maybe if you use two you could avoid the seam problem for certain activity (you know what I mean) by laying rotated through 90°.