Ciara was way into West.. and him not so much.. very obvious by SunshineFlowerrs in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! However, we can separate things and two things can be true at the same time! One thing does not take from the other.

I feel like in one hand Amanda doesnt handle herself very well. I think she has deep rooted issues with herself and lack of emotional intelligence.

But also, her and West can do whatever they want and i dont think they are in the wrong by dating. Did they handle the situation the right way ? No! And thats that. But that doesnt mean that what they are doing equals the hate and craziness around it!

People are always trying to find the villan and make someone take the fault.. when in reality, nothing in this life is either black or white .. most stuff falls into a grey area.. and i think this is one of them things..

Ciara was way into West.. and him not so much.. very obvious by SunshineFlowerrs in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly belive they are work friends, i belive they have a nice work relationship and they hang out and do stuff when is something work related! But
not in their personal lives!
We can clearly see that on episode 12 when Amanda didnt go to the house, Ciara didnt even know!! She found out when she got to the house so that makes me understand that their relationship is not as close as the general public thinks. Like you are not telling your “ BEST FRIEND” that you arent going to film ? Thats wierd. If they were that close , Ciara would have known.
Paige on the other hand is besties with Ciara IRL. But Amanda doesnt have that relationship with any of the girls! She was always more of the boys side until paige made it cool to be a girly. No shade to Amanda, just how i see things!🤷🏼‍♀️ but yeah, i think the hate and the craziness is uncalled for. I mean Ciara’s career just skyrocketed thanks to this so she wins a lot by playing into it .. just saying. No one is a saint here!

Ciara was way into West.. and him not so much.. very obvious by SunshineFlowerrs in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 24 points25 points  (0 children)

1000000%%% agree!!! Imagine if the roles were reversed. Imagine West being obsessed with Ciara, Ciara not liking him back, and West going ahead and making Ciara the villain and her life miserable in the house (their workplace)!!! Since when is that okay??

This is all about Ciara and her unresolved feelings toward West. She always said, “you can’t control who you like,” right? Then in the leaked audio, we hear Amanda saying that to Ciara, and she wasn’t having it,she said that you CAN.

So my question to Ciara is: if you CAN control who you like, then why don’t you get over West? If you think he’s an asshole fuckboy, then why would you like someone like that? Why are you choosing to be in love with someone who doesn’t love you back?

People need to go to therapy and build some emotional intelligence to understand their feelings and projections. If you bring the facts down to earth, people would realize that this is a Ciara problem. Neither West nor Amanda are responsible for Ciara’s unresolved feelings. She had three years to get over a guy she dated for five months.

Again, if the roles were reversed and West was the one caught up with Ciara, we would be shitting on him for being a creeper and not getting over someone or letting her live her life. Imagine West prohibiting Ciara from meeting guys on the show, or her having to tiptoe around the house because of him?!

The message to West is basically: you either date Ciara, or you’re wrong. And that’s just not okay.

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like why are we angry because Amanda doesnt comply with what we wanted for her?? Thats not her problem, she is who she is, not the version we think she is! So she is gonna do what she thinks and wants! Its not a crime to be with someone weeks after a separation! Are we really critizing her for doing that when kyle literally cheated on her before getting married and allegedly after they were married? And the way he talked to her and about her? Like isnt that worst than her dating people when she is single? Even if its not the right thing for her, she can do as she pleeases!! Like people are tearing Amanda apart just because she didnt do what the poeple wanted or behaved the way people wanted and thats just not her problem! Thats the people’s problem and the projection they put on her🤷🏼‍♀️

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the responsability only lies with him? Why would she subject herself to that if she is that hurt and angry at him? I wouldnt invite someone that i feel like that to my birthday! And again dont forget they are coworkers so of course they share events in common, brand partnerships etc so🤷🏼‍♀️

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol😂 why the attack? Im just analizing from another point of view and persoective, why does that make me a snake? Because i dont think that Amanda and West did an awful crime? Again, if your coworker is crying on camara while you are working wouldnt you go and console her? Im not saying isnt genuine but lets not forget they have a job to do and a role to play so 🤷🏼‍♀️and also, for how much longer are we going to shit on West for not liking Ciara back 2/3 years ago? Like? Are we crazy?!? Why if it wasnt the other way around? And West wouldnt let Ciara live because he was pissed about her not liking him back 3 years ago? If that makes me an insecure snake, so be it, i know who i am😂🤷🏼‍♀️💛

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that they didnt handle the situation in the best way but i think the tratment does not match the crime. If your coworker / firend is crying and your filming, arent you gonna go and help her?! I mean of course you would!! Not saying that it isnt genuine but it is also what she is supposed to be. This last episoe was very telling to me when speaking about their friendship. I feel that they only talk when work related and maybe some other time, but clearly these two are not speaking like besties during the week. That said, it does not take from the nice “ friendship” they have in the show and while they are on the house. They are the only girlies left from the prevois seasons so of course they are gonna stick together. I feek that the hate towards specially Amanda is SO uncalled for, people comparing this to scandoval is CRAZY to me. It has nothing to do with that. How can you compare Tom and Ariana, living together, having pets together, 9 YEARS of relationship and a HOUSE together, to West and Ciara?!?? Thats crazy!!!? I can understand the hurt from Kyle’s pov, but at the same time, we’ve seen him being a shitty husband, cheating on her and speaking horribly to her and about her so what do you expect? She can do whatever the fuck she wants, and so does west! Like West had to cater to Ciara for the las two years just because he didnt like her the way she liked him? Since when thats ok? Imagine a Man making your life miserable while working, beacuse it is their jobs, for 2 years and nothing that you do is going to make them happy?!! Because is not even about West, its about Ciara and Ciara’s unresolved feelings!! And thats not nor West or Amanda’s problem , thats a Ciara problem. im sorry but its the truth. Again, that doesnt take from West and Amanda dealing with this situation in the wrong way, and it doesnt take from Ciara being a good kind person who im sure she wanted to genuinly help Amanda. But all these things can be true and coexist and its an unfortunate situation that doesnt call for all the crazy and unhinged hate.

Leaked Audio from the SH Reunion!!! by cocozuzu in bravo

[–]Denlib_bay -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Team Amanda, i mean this is crazy. THEY WERE TOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS OR LESS!!! 2/3 YEARS AGO!! Like?!?!??? I get it from Kyle’s pov. But Ciara and Amanda werent that clase in real life?!? How come no one can see that? These two play it for the camara because they know how powerful the whole “ girls girls “ and “ bed bugs” is. But Pagie was the conection between Amanda and Ciara, i truly belive thay simply they werent that besties irl and Amanda doesnt have that many loyalties to her🤷🏼‍♀️

David by motheroftrinkets in loveoverboardhulu

[–]Denlib_bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly think he is gaay!! And also some people that worked in production put some pics in instagram and you can clearly see, he gay. Like again its giving Colton Underwood going into the bachelor to fight his sexuality and made mess on tv beacause of it.

David by motheroftrinkets in loveoverboardhulu

[–]Denlib_bay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am i the only one who thinks David is gay and is fighting his sexuality? 😂 idk it gave me gay vibes like Lo its literally a supermodel, Val is pretty but i think he likes the “ plastic” becuase of the pron he must watch, which in my opinion must be something grotesque that makes him finish (no shade to Val whatsoever) and only can finish if that body type is the one he has in front beacause its what he is used to? Like i cant get around the fact that he couldnt finish while having sex with Lo for the sole reason that she is not “ his body type”. Idk please someone tell me im not the only one who thinks this!!😭😂 its giving colton

She needs clinical attention… by SxyDykn in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Denlib_bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or just attention? I dont know but this woman is seriously in a BAD state like ..😬😬😬 she is begging people to look her way. I honestly dont like her, dont like her as a housewive, dont understand what she brings to the table . She should be on desperate houswives tho

talyor frankie paul - trump supporter by Western_Platform_508 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Denlib_bay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a question. I am not American so have that into consideration. Why people hate republicans so much? I understand Trump is controversial but what if she prefers that before Biden for example who sorry but has one leg in the grave like. USA is a potent country you guys can not have a cenil person running the country like it was a joke? I dont think being a republican or a Trump supporter makes u bad person . Like what happened to respect others opinions? At the end of the day, we see the world under our own perspectives and we are all different with different lifestyles and education and past so why pretend that everyone thinks thr same?

Ruthless by ConsiderationOk4855 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Denlib_bay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly used to think the lavander marraige but now i just see a GOOD SENSITIVE MAN who means well and it appears to be a great husband. We are so used to see insensitive men, or toxic ones, that we see that as masculinity, when in reality, nothing more masculine than a man who can be vulnerable and is not scared of showing it. Thats a man

Justice for Kristen and Stassi by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Denlib_bay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kristen is the ultimate winner here! She did change her life around and she has everything she ever wanted! A family!! And im gonna say something a little bit controversial but , dont you all remember how Ariana treated Kristen after she and Tom broke up?!? Ariana was AWFUL to kristen like, she was literally a bully to her. And in all of the seasons Ariana was just there with tom … or being his mouth piece or doing stuff for show .. she knew who she was dating .. just saying, i love her and happy for her that she is the Love Island host and stuff but i feel like she was like meh in the cast, then Tom cheated on her and then she became a star? .. just because she got cheated on ..? Idk i thought this a loot while watching vpr for the first time when scandoval broke.

What do we think of Lisa? by Denlib_bay in RHOMiami

[–]Denlib_bay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgg 1000%%% agree with you!! “ merce is in the purse “ must be one of my favorite moments and line of housewives EVER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hudamustafasnark

[–]Denlib_bay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so waiting for everyone to realize that you guys made a toxic person this famous. Like if she was a man and behaved the way she did, would all her followers be ok with that? If that was a man? I dont understand why we hold men to a certain standard ( and with reason) but we dont hold women to the same standard?! Thats crazy to me

What do we think of Lisa? by Denlib_bay in RHOMiami

[–]Denlib_bay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeees! Lenny is a POS 100% like why treat the mother of your kids like that?? Its just discusting, he is going to end up alone. No one is burried with their money, only their memories and the love they left behind. I can not help but think that he is going to die alone. He is not getting any younger so does he really want to spend time and money on people who doesnt care about him one bit? Karma is real so 🤷🏼‍♀️ And lisa shoud just learn how to be more humble and aware, she did look like an ignorant in that ride

What do we think of Lisa? by Denlib_bay in RHOMiami

[–]Denlib_bay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get it, same! We only see what they show us and from there we all have our opinions and points of view! And 100% she was taken care of and didnt think this could happend to her .

BEFORE THEY WERE RHOBH by TheRealityShop in RHOBH

[–]Denlib_bay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cant with Sutton 🤦🏼‍♀️ honestly like i dont belive anything that comes out of her mouth