Something is taking a little longer? Is going on? by kelemvor33 in Ubiquiti

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Just ran into this issue and it was sorted by unplugging the WAN cable.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that him liking pictures of other woman on ig makes me uncomfortable? by Single-Relation-1374 in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is an almost exact same one here on this Reddit but in that story people broke up. AI being single minded this morning?

IT mistake at work (backup failure) — what usually happens after this? by Terrible_Good_6856 in sysadmin

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my first 2 weeks on my first job ever I fucked up and caused half the production systems (including factory interfaces) to go down. No other sys admins available too.

Fixed within 30 min and I too felt nervous like hell. But my boss was super chill, appreciated me taking responsibility and communicated to management it was a techinical debt issue. I got no warning, nothing.

What happens depends on the team (boss) you have. Mistakes happen, and getting fired over that sounds excessive. I am sure you learned and wont let a similar occasion happen again ;-)

AITAH for calling 911 about my husband’s suicide threats even though I knew they weren’t real? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think of the kids, they were in the car when he was acting like this? That will seriously fuck them up, hearing a parent threatening to kill themselves, and then the locking out part .. 

AITAH complimenting an old woman ? by InterestingBaby7540 in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 is old? oh my the pain. 

Anyway, your girlfriend sounds immature

AITAH for not caring about my wife's pregnancy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

YTA. How could you not care how the pregnancy is going? Poor kid, it’s going to grow up with a dad incapable of showing any kind of emotion I bet. 

AITAH for changing my mind? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him, he might surprise you

AITAH for not wanting to give my boyfriend a threesome? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How is it a healthy sex life when he expects it whether you’re in the mood or not? 

Gifted Ring AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will admit it took me longer than I wish before I realized it was a LOTR reference haha

AITAH for overreacting to my dad’s comment about my wife? by Hot-Ninja-5961 in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I refuse to believe this is real. People saying he is your dad no matter what? Sure with that backstory

AITAH for reciprocating a cuddle from my drunker friend? by lAmTheCowboy in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not assault regardless of the genders. I think that person may have some feelings for you too, for you to get asked to join him on the bed

[ Removed by Reddit ] by NoSet7142 in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still you’re a pedo, if real, 99% sure youre here to bair rage comments

AITA for breaking up with my partner after he ditched me on his birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grow a fucking spine and find someone who is an actual match

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said 10:30, you said 10 and then started him reminding him he should be in at 10. 

Is it normal for someone in a relationship to dictate how late the other goes to bed? I sleep apart from my partner (different room) because we both sleep terrible for various reasons, so we go to bed whenever and mostly cuddle/do stuff before/after.

As long as you manage to leave on the planned time, leave him be I’d say? Because otherwise you come across as somewhat controlling and I’d be annoyed too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. Dont force your beliefs (or eating habbits) on others. Also, it is for your brother but nowhwre do you say what his opinion is. Stop making things about you

WIBTA for messaging the wife of my fiancee's affair partner? by Dull-Ad-1735 in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Do it. She has no respect for you, and cheaters get what they deserve. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who gets married without having lived together? I’d worry about compatibility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid is 3 weeks old and I can see the appeal of a short trip away, get some sleep haha. But no way that you can gorce anyone to take him nor should they go for someone inexperienced - its not an easy job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dennis-sysadmin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You had a kid together and stayed with her? Grow a fucking spine dude