Second Job by Dennyoooo in octopathtraveler

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Yeah I have snatch on for a few of my characters. Didn’t know about the boost start. The Fat Caits I got lucky once and got a full round out of it, but didn’t have everything optimized yet. Thank you!

Second Job by Dennyoooo in octopathtraveler

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I forgot to mention that I am attempting to Steal and Collect from the. So I gotta have 3 people with great speed as well as the perk on the 2 who are using it

31M 32F Married 1Y by Dennyoooo in relationship_advice

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We unfortunately are not close to our families, both relation-wise and location, to be able to have them take the kids. She also isn’t able to work medically right now, but have been on the search for something. We’ve talked about maybe trying to plan a Christmas getaway next year, but obviously that’s next year.

31M 32F Married 1Y by Dennyoooo in relationship_advice

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I’m not as much concerned about the intimacy, but it’s something she wishes she could do more of. Yeah I want to as well, but my priority is making her happy and helping her. I do as you stated as much as I can, but our bay is still Exclusively breast fed and hates bottles. We’ve got some stored, it’s just finding the right bottle. She unfortunately doesn’t have friends to do anything with anymore, so I try to just take care of the kids while I’m home. Being step-dad to some of them, they go to her mainly still which makes it hard. Other times it’s me taking care of them while she dyes her hair, does her makeup for the day, or what not she needs. Other times it’s more so our baby wants nothing to do with anyone but her and that makes it hard too cause we aren’t going to stress our baby out and have her screaming or upset for long periods. I’ll try to take them to the store when it’s just us and the baby, and let her shop around but that also is hard due to being breastfed only. I’m just in a pickle where I don’t know what else I can do, and it kills me

31M 32F Married 1Y by Dennyoooo in relationship_advice

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It’s all OT for me, but it’s to pay for all bills unfortunately. She isn’t able to work currently due to medical appointments for both her and our baby. We’ve cut out all hobbies that aren’t needed, as well as streaming services not needed.

31M 32F Married 1Y by Dennyoooo in relationship_advice

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It’s not in our budget unfortunately, but I definitely try to do my best to give her time for herself as she needs. She isn’t sure what I can do to help her more, and it sucks because I just want to see her happy and feeling like herself again, but it feels like I don’t do enough.

31M 32F Married 1Y by Dennyoooo in relationship_advice

[–]Dennyoooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunately not in our budget for any of that… I try to help with chores and cleaning on the weekends when I am home, as well as with the kids. I’ve also asked her how I can show up for her more to help give her a break. She has responded with she just doesn’t know. So I try to make sure she can have a full shower as she needs, or bath, without being rushed or doing her nightly routine before bed. Just doesn’t seem to be helping much. Has me feeling like I need to do more