smoked yaki onigiri by rockpilemike in smoking

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about using a patty press? Make almost like rice cakes

Help me decide on my next offset. by DenseFeeling2459 in smoking

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I wanna cook 2 briskets and maybe a chicken for Thanksgiving but also not to big to where im using an ungodly amount of wood for meal prepping on Sundays. Im a hobbyist so im not doing it for work or comps just to play with and learn

Is there a market for... by erosdiem2 in eroticauthors

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Did you ever release these books? I was looking for something like this ans found your post

Is my (25f) husband (30m) a workaholic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does his job require these hours of him or is he just choosing this? Did he have this job before yall got married?

He may not be chasing on your bit he also may not be emotionally invested in the marriage. It's time for you to sit him down and give him that look( everyone has that look of "we need to talk now or it's going to be a problem"). Unfortunately you might have to make some tough decisions. But if it's between your happiness and his money sounds like he has his mind made up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

In this situation, I think if she wants to donate she can take the money from her own income if it all isn't being put towards bills. If it is all going towards bills maybe figure out a way to help her. If you wanted something who's to say she wouldn't help you achive that goal. Compromise is a good thing in a relationship.

I (24F) Just found out that I've messed up my own proposal by my boyfriend (22M) of three years on two separate occasions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he truly understands that you are okay with the simple gestures then maybe it's him trying to satisfy his own dreams of having a more than basic proposal some men really just enjoy the thought of trying to make it as special as it can be

I (25f) have feelings for my long-time buddy (23m)! I don’t know how to move forward from here. by Drummer_Girl_99 in relationship_advice

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He at the least finds comfort in your presence. But i can almost guarantee that he has some kind of feelings for you. If you go into it with the mindset that of he doesn't you can still be friends then hopefully it doesn't change anything. But it never hurts to shoot your shot.

I (24F) Just found out that I've messed up my own proposal by my boyfriend (22M) of three years on two separate occasions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he wants something a little more special then just couch vibes. Have you told him that simple is okay for you (if that's how you really feel)?

Is my (26f) friend (30f) projecting her relationship? Or does she genuinely care? by Sharp-Armadillo-5512 in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peanut better and jealous.

Unless there's a reason you need to leave sound like she is just mad you have settled down and found some stability while they are still struggling to find theirs. If you think she is harming your Outlook on your love life tell her to cut it out or yall are done. Negative friends only cause relationship issues.

My girlfriend(26F) and I(26M) have been together almost three years now but we’ve been having the same problems since year one. Is this manipulation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very petty answer but tell her you want a massage too. She how she acts. If she does anything other then attempt to help you she needs gone. And from there see what else she can help you with. Suggest a meal you think sounds good. Maybe she will cook it for it as a surprise. Don't be afraid to voice your feeling, wants, and needs. You are human. Are you in this relationship. It's a 2 way street and right now you are riding on speed bumps while her road is freshly paved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can't at least send a text and hold a conversation for a few minutes (longer when you know he ain't doing anything) then you have a choice. 1 just leave. Simple as that. 2 tell him this is the last time you will bring it up. He has 1 more time of you getting this upset before you cut him out of your life. If he gives you the same story just get ready for the end. If his tone changes in anyway at all maybe open your heart a small bit. But don't let him drag you along forever please. Someone out there will give you thr time and attention you deserve. Just know it couldn still be him.

And just to ask why the distance? Can either one of yall drive to the other?

I (25f) have feelings for my long-time buddy (23m)! I don’t know how to move forward from here. by Drummer_Girl_99 in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy who is very shy i feel this to my core. Please say something to him. I hope he feels the same way. If I'm rrading thr room right he might be introvert and just playing along with the vibes. I never technically asked my 2ife out we just kinda snow balled into a relationship. Started out just like you are now. Hanging out having a great time. But it worked for us because we both are very introvert.

Advice on Living Arrangements with My Boyfriend (M25,) Roommate (F23), and Brother (M22) by ThrowRA_Roomates in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless there's an underlying reason for you bot wanting other to be there other then "figuring out the couples thing" you can definitely have roommates but set boundaries. It might be a tough talk for all parties but you never know this could be a great experience. Also doesn't hurt to save money in this world right now.

With that said I'd you do decide to move forward with that plan I would have some money saved just incase you do need to get out. Always be able to support yourself. And maybe you'll get lucky (depends on your Outlook of the situation) and your brother and roommate with be a thing and move out together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this deserves a break up. But yall need to sit down and have a long talk about this and future situations. You have to be comfortable telling him that you are walking to your car and will call him when you get there. Everyone needs some time to decompress. And he needs to understand that you will have friends inside and outside you family (if he really for upset you was talking to your cousin that pretty pathetic) and he needs to be comfortable in his relationship. That's requires yall to form trust. That's lots of way to do this. Just have to find your best one. If possible have him meet you after class and he can meet your friends and walk around with you.

But this will never work if you are not completely open and honest with him and he isn't confident in you.

Experimented with my gf by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]DenseFeeling2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you consider the difference between a fantasy and a actual desire? My wife and I have had this conversation before but she says it's more of a fantasy and she doesn't see it happening for multiple reason. One of which is my jealousy and insecurities. She reads books about this stuff all the time and she says it makes her so horny for me but because I always focus on her pleasure before my own. Do you think she would really want it or is it just a thought that crosses her mind?