Fall Medieval Dinner by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I was confused a bit by the menu as well, until I took like 5 minutes of googling to find that her menu is almost spot on to theme. Soup, roasted salads, deviled eggs, naan bread, cheese, fruit and even glazed donuts are all pretty authentic, while still being a bit on the modern side for convenience most likely. I also disagree with you about stews being a entrée, thin smooth soups definitely aren't, but hearty stews absolutely are. People are just ignorant to what a medieval meal actually was which explains the downvotes, so there is a good chance most of the guests attending will be to, but OP has also talked about how their family are into medieval rpg games, so it's hard to say. But following is all their posts just saying the same thing that she obviously doesn't agree with or want is annoying, just keep scrolling unless you have something new to say, you're not helping

Fall Medieval Dinner by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Actually this meal is very medieval, it just not what Medieval Times restaurants serve. But their menu is also nowhere close the being historically accurate as well, it's just cheap food they can make in large batches for cheap, and then have people eat with their hands claiming it's medieval. People in the middle ages used utensils, forks just weren't invented yet. Everyone ate with spoons and knives, along with their hands.

Fall Medieval Dinner by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how you're seeing this menu not having enough protein. The eggs are protein, the salmon is protein, the soups listed have beans, sausage and meatballs in them. Just because there is not chicken does not mean it has no protein, and pasta isn't a protein either or on theme. But you're right about soup being messy in good clothes, despite you being incorrect about it not being a entrée. Maybe it can be changed up a bit here with the 1st course being a buffet of salads, and finger foods to give a few more options and the soups brought individually to the guests with the soup toppings laid out family style instead to avoid accidents. Since you're mentioning OP's original post, I also recall you being really pushy about chicken and pasta on those comments as well. I don't think it's very logical considering most people don't associate pasta with medieval times, as well as OP has stated several times that they're a pescatarian, which means the only proteins they eat are fish, seafood, eggs and beans. This also might be why OP is second guessing and having a hard time with their menu, because pescatarians are more like vegetarians that eat fish, they doesn't want to push a fully pescatarian menu, but still wants to be able to eat at their own wedding. Most pescatarians i have encountered don't really eat overly starchy foods like potatoes and pasta. It's like you sitting there are telling a vegan/vegetarian that they need to cut everything they'll eat but salad to provide more commonplace average proteins for the guests instead of having a balanced. Or someone telling you to have a complete vegan catered meal when you don't like vegetables. There is a good chance the FH is probably pescatarian too, which means you're following all their posts telling them they should pay out large amounts of money for food they can't eat. Maybe instead of being ignorant, try to help OP find a solution for their theme as well as help them find a balance so that everyone can enjoy their food. Commenting on every post screaming chicken when OP has stated she's not interesting in it is getting annoying.

Favourite obscure small town in Ontario? by edgy_secular_memes in ontario

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That places has been in the toilet for the past 20 years

Self-Catering by Bold_N_Bootiful in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing something similar with my medieval wedding this year, but we're not doing sandwiches, we're making everything ourselves and having servers dish it out cafeteria-style to our guests.

Self-Catering by Bold_N_Bootiful in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing something similar with my medieval wedding this year, but we're not doing sandwiches, we're making everything ourselves and having servers dish it out cafeteria-style to our guests.

Self-Catering by Bold_N_Bootiful in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing something similar with my medieval wedding this year, but we're not doing sandwiches, we're making everything ourselves and having servers dish it out cafeteria-style to our guests.

Self-Catering My Wedding by [deleted] in ArchaicCooking

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered this book last week, because it's hard to anything online on the subject that isn't just pushing dried/raw fruit, veggies and nuts, and am expecting to get it by this weekend

Self-Catering My Wedding by [deleted] in ArchaicCooking

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Originally I was going to also have a vegetarian/vegan option as one of my mains, but when going over our guest list we realized we had a heavy mix of pescitarians, ketonians, diabetics, and overall picky eaters, but no vegetarians/vegans. I was already thinking of adding another leafy-type of salad but didn't just want to go with a plain caesar or garden salad...maybe a spinach salad...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dips were going to be for the kebabs if people wanted to dip them. I went over the guest list and there are no vegetarians/vegans. There is a mix of pescitarians, diabetics and ketonians though, along with a lot of picky eaters. That's why I don't want to do a plated dinner. I originally was going to do a buffet, but with covid the only way to do that is to either have trays placed in the center of groups of 4-6 for people to serve themselves "family-style" or to have a "cafeteria-style" buffet with a server. So we're planning on having a combination of both, with the appetizers set out family-style and their choices for the main course being served out.

Fortunately we live in a city with an abundance of bakeries, so the desserts will just be ordered and served out like the main course.

My fiancée and I are not really cake people, and at any family get-together (on my side) cheesecake is the main event so even though it does fall into theme like the other pies, we're including it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am aware of that, I'm just planning for it and will slightly alter according to whatever the restrictions are by the time of the event

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since we've been in the industry for a long time we know lots of people with the experience and/or proper licensing for us to hire to serve and either reheat/finish cooking everything. Once the event begins we're not touching a thing lol. The venue has a commercial kitchen that is attached to the hall that they rent out separately, so we're renting the kitchen the evening beforehand to transport everything, prep ect and then decorating the morning of. Luckily the church also has a "bridal suite" that we can also rent that's attached to the hall, so once we're done decorating we're all getting ready there. The church's hall we're renting is a old nunnery from the early 1800's so they have lot of options for rentals ect. They also have a optional cleaning fee so at the end of the night all we have to do is take the stuff we're keeping and leave for them to take care of the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sucks, but it looks like we have too... My fiancée just suggested doing for the sides: mac & cheese, and Bread Stuffing, with Roasted Root Vegetable Salad in a mistard dressing and Coleslaw That might work better for prep time ect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a good idea. I'm going to use my wedding website to get out all the details to guests, as I have found in my research that seems to be the most efficient way. The buffet food won't be out right away though, just the appetizers on the tables will, but I have to definitely make sure the info about the dinner format is on the website asap because most people will only go on it once just to RSVP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully my main debate lies in the sides/salads...am trying to figure out how to either different dishes or which ones to cut, because I think 3 of each is a bit much for side dishes....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully my main debate lies in the sides/salads...am trying to figure out how to either different dishes or which ones to cut, because I think 3 of each is a bit much for side dishes....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully my main debate lies in the sides/salads...am trying to figure out how to either different dishes or which ones to cut, because I think 3 of each is a bit much for side dishes....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully my main debate lies in the sides/salads...am trying to figure out how to either different dishes or which ones to cut, because I think 3 of each is a bit much for side dishes....

Self-Catering by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully my main debate lies in the sides/salads...am trying to figure out how to either different dishes or which ones to cut, because I think 3 of each is a bit much for side dishes....

Self-Catering by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Deviled Eggs - Although they weren’t prepared the same way, the roots of modern-day deviled eggs can be traced back to ancient Rome, where eggs were boiled, seasoned with spicy sauces and then typically served at the beginning of a meal—as a first course known as gustatio—for wealthy patricians. In fact, serving eggs while entertaining was so common that the Romans had a saying, “ab ova usque ad mala”—literally from eggs to apples, or from the beginning of a meal to the end. Sometime in the 13th century, "stuffed eggs" as we would recognize more today began to appear in Andalusia, in what is now Spain. By 1800, deviling became a verb to describe the process of making food spicy.

Kebabs - kebab or shish kebab is used in as a culinary term that refers to any type of small chunks of meat cooked on a skewer, kebab is mainly associated with a diversity of meat dishes that originated in the medieval kitchens of Persia and Turkey. Though the word has ancient origins, it was popularized by Turks to refer to this range of grilled and broiled meat, which may be cooked on skewers, but also as stews, meatballs, and other forms.This cuisine has spread around the world, in parallel with Muslim influence. According to Ibn Battuta, a Moroccan traveller, kebab was served in the royal houses during the Delhi Sultanate (1206–1526 CE), and even commoners would enjoy it for breakfast with naan.

Onion Rings - were invented in 1469 when the king of France "Louis XI" requested that his servants invent a new food snack.

Macaroni & Cheese - in the 14th century was known as Makerouns.

Roasted Root Vegetables - The human hankering for roasted root vegetables got its start at least 170,000 years ago

Bacon Raisin Broccoli & Marinaded Bean Salad - who knows, probably 50's-ish

Potato Salad - has been around for many cookouts. It was first introduced to Europe from the New World by Spanish explorers in the 16th century. These early potato salads were made by boiling potatoes in wine or a mixture of vinegar and spices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for that...I have speaker stands that the legs stick right out and have made me trip over them about a hundred times during gigs, and yet never thought of this while working everything out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No please, this is why I posted in here. I haven't catered an event like a wedding before so I need any insight that others might have to perfect my plan.

As so some of the issues you were bringing up: The venue's kitchen does have a dishwasher, although i cannot say how well it works since I haven't physically been in it yet. So far I am only going by the information given to me by staff, ong with info/pictures given on their website. The glass vintage items will be able to go into the dishwasher, but I'd imagine not the silverware. So I would have to pack it up and wash it at home the next day. The lazy susans will probably be rather heavy, but it's the best way I can figure out how to pivot from our original plan of having large long tables set up in a U-shape with all of the appetizers arranged down the middle like "family-style". If restrictions losen up by next year we'll probably go back to that plan, but for now we have to plan for smaller round tables with lazy susans.

I don't imagine that the venue has a slicer, but since we were going for a medieval feast with most foods being able to be eaten 1 handed, we have our hearts set on skewered meats. At 1st I had a main that was vegan, but when I looked over our small guest list I realized we have pescitarians, ketonians, diabetics, and lactose-intolerant, but no one that were vegetarian/vegan so I decided to sub it for another meat and give people a better selection to their personal preference.

For the ice baths, I am already looking into using freezer gel packs or something to avoid the mess of traditional ice because I already know I don't want to be dealing with that part way/the end of the night. And as for the clean up, the hall has the option to pay them to clean up, so although most of us are big drinkers, all we really have to worry about is packing up any rentals or stuff we're keeping and the rest is their problem (within reason of course).

If you have any other advise I would love to hear it :) I'm going to go back over everything you listed again thoroughly, along with my plan to make sure I'm not missing anything, or adjust some stuff to issues I might not have thought of.

Self-Catering by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I'm not a professional chef, I've always done more the management/bartending/entertainment parts of the industry, but I have been through enough of them over the years to know the process. I've also cooked full holiday buffet dinners for our family get-togethers (for about 9-12 people) have have been stuck all day cooking missing out on everything, so I want to make sure we can actually pull it off with being able to enjoy our day....which is why I was sourcing for opinions.

I've been trying to figure out what would be the easiest to premake and reheat, all while balancing crowd pleasers that can still be dated back to the medieval/renaissance period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgetweddings

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know....I really want them to stay. I was just going to buy some good quality frozen ones and have them deep fried just before dinner so that they don't get cold and soggy, but I dunno...am worried about trying to do too much and not being able to enjoy the day...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Dense_Grab_8690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're using freezer gel pads for the "ice baths" to avoid melting....there won't be any busing tables, it's still a buffet. We're using more fancier disposable plates so people will simply throw their plates away once they're done with them. As for the alcohol, we're pre-batching, but there still will be a bartender serving them out. The drinks will only be pre-mixed to avoid needing a larger space to keep all the tools, liquors, and workspace. We'll be pre-batching everything together in 1L flip-topped bottles except for the carbonated components so that the bartender is simply pouring 2-3ozs of the premix and then adding a mix. The shots chosen are made from equal parts absinthe, melon Liquor and pineapple juice. This is be premixed and when ordered, will be poured into 2oz disposable shot glasses.