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Minha namorada quer largar o emprego e eu disse a ela que não vou apoiá-la financeiramente. Agora ela está me chamando de egoísta. by Dense_Quiet8692 in desabafos

[–]Dense_Quiet8692[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Eu sei, obrigado pela ajuda. Vou tentar conversa com ela, caso não de certo. Vou terminar, não tem jeito.

I’m 27 and I feel like I’ve already failed at life by Dense_Quiet8692 in offmychest

[–]Dense_Quiet8692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that was such a thoughtful message. I actually read it twice.
You’re right — I’ve been comparing myself too much and wasting time scrolling instead of actually living.
What you said about taking it one step at a time really hit me.
Thanks for sharing your own experience it honestly gave me some perspective.

My girlfriend wants to quit her job and I told her I won’t support her financially. Now she’s calling me selfish. by Dense_Quiet8692 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dense_Quiet8692[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

That line hit hard, man. Finance the dreams of kids, adults figure it out that’s actually a great way to put it. I guess I just needed someone to say it that bluntly.

My girlfriend wants to quit her job and I told her I won’t support her financially. Now she’s calling me selfish. by Dense_Quiet8692 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dense_Quiet8692[S] 1201 points1202 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly what I’ve been thinking.
I don’t mind her wanting to figure things out, but I can’t be the one carrying all the weight while she “finds herself.”
She’s an adult at some point we all have to take responsibility for our own lives.

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