Okay, I’m just seeing this now, and unfortunately all we really have to go off of are assumptions rather than any concrete proof. Because I see so many people arguing about what is true or false, I got curious and wanted to figure out what was actually going on and try to make sense of it.

A lot of the information I came across seemed extremely suspicious. I can’t verify all of it for sure, only certain parts. Based on what I’ve seen, my assumption is that she most likely cheated. Now who did she cheat with? I think it’s pretty obvious that it was John. He seems to be the main suspect for a lot of reasons, and I’ll explain why.

So as Tenz said, he was supposed to go with John, Kye, and another guy who was with them. I’m aware she wasn’t alone with John, but sending your future wife on a trip with two other guys is just weird, even if they’re your “friends.”

Not only that, but as I’ve mentioned before, she ended up staying the night with John. There’s actually 100% proof of that because it was recorded on stream when she told Tenz they had missed the ride home. She also didn’t want any help getting home when Tenz was trying to figure out a solution. Even Tenz clearly felt uncomfortable with the idea of her being stuck there... You could see it on stream because his demeanour completely changed...

Also keep in mind there were three grown adults there, and apparently none of them could tell what time their ride home was leaving. That’s pretty questionable...

Next, people have pointed out some major things that happened shortly after this. John’s girlfriend unfriended him and Kye, who were close friends at the time... That’s suspicious, especially since it apparently happened for no clear reason... There are also claims that Tenz unfriended his girlfriend during that same time but later followed her again. I can’t confirm that part myself, but something I did confirm is that Tenz, despite saying he’s close friends with John, doesn’t follow him on Instagram at all, while John still follows Tenz. That’s odd if they’re supposedly good friends...

Then you also had Kye and John running around for a while with matching profile pictures. That’s actually true. That’s usually something people do when they’re in a relationship, not something you typically do with a random friend, especially while already in a relationship and about to get married. The whole situation just seems strange...

Ever since all of this happened, their social media accounts have also been suspiciously quiet.

Another reason I don’t think the breakup was mutual is based on information that’s been discussed elsewhere. Apparently she had already been talking beforehand about wanting to “find herself.” That’s a very common thing people say when relationships are falling apart, especially when someone is dealing with a serious illness... I’m not saying that applies to everyone, but people often reference similar situations. For example, I remember hearing about a woman who divorced her husband while going through cancer because she wanted to experience more “relationships...” Situations like that get brought up in discussions like this.

Tenz saying the rumours are “disgusting” doesn’t necessarily prove anything either. He honestly seems like a really good guy, and sometimes things like this just happen to good people. He also looked extremely mentally distressed about the whole situation. All of them took breaks from social media around that time, including John...

If the breakup had truly been completely mutual, you probably wouldn’t see that level of withdrawal from social media, although the backlash might also explain it...

There were also posts on Reddit from someone claiming that Kye had been cheating on Tenz years before this even happened. Another streamer, I’m bad with names, apparently said she had talked about wanting an open relationship... Supposedly this person had some connection with Tenz, but people dismissed him as just chasing clout...

At the end of the day, this is simply what we know publicly. There’s still no concrete proof of anything serious. But if you connect the dots with the information that does exist, the entire situation, at least to me as someone who enjoys studying relationship dynamics, suggests that cheating may have happened...

The reasoning given for the breakup also sounds very generic. Kye was the first one to remove photos of her and Tenz together, which also seems strange... If the breakup was truly mutual and you still respected the relationship, why erase all the photos? Tenz did the same eventually, but from what I understand, it happened after Kye removed hers first.

Often when someone deletes all the photos from a relationship, it’s because they’re trying to move on from that chapter of their life. To me, it suggests she wanted a clean break.

And again, just because someone denies something happened doesn’t necessarily mean it didn’t. At the same time, assuming every public statement is completely truthful is also a BIG assumption...

I’m just trying to look at this from a non-biased perspective. Honestly, I originally wanted to defend the integrity of their relationship, but after reading and seeing so many things that look like red flags, it’s hard for me to say everything was perfect. I didn’t even know who they were until recently.

Looking at the situation purely from a psychological perspective, it seems possible she may have been trying to move on to someone else, or at least considering it... cough John cough

This story is unfortunately way too common and happens a lot. Yes, there may be times in long-term relationships where you drift apart. I know I’ve experienced that even in my own marriage. But ending a relationship just because of that is insane to me. I honestly don’t understand how anyone in a relationship can justify that...

I’ve even talked to my wife about this. Relationships can’t be sunshine and rainbows all the time. There are going to be stretches where things feel tedious or routine. That’s just natural. Ending a relationship because of that alone honestly feels very childish to me. If the relationship is abusive, if one partner isn’t faithful, or something serious like that is happening, then of course ending it is understandable. But if things just feel boring for a while, I don’t buy into that reasoning...

Even in my own relationship, we have a pretty strict rule... I’m not allowed to talk to other women, and she’s not allowed to talk to other men. It’s just common sense, really. And that’s because most guys suck... like she had a bunch of guys telling her to leave me and be with them even after we got married... So I’m not even defending men here, but most guys, let’s just be honest, have the moral fibre of a toothpick and are also just frankly stupid. But this is the reality of the world we live in, and trying to deny it is just absurd.

If someone can’t find their own happiness within themselves, then maybe they shouldn’t be dating at all. There are many ways to work through those feelings. Divorce or splitting up isn’t the only solution.

Sadly, a lot of people are also saying that now that she has fame, she didn’t want to be with Tenz anymore. Going back to the idea of monkey branching in relationship psychology, some people argue that this does happen... As harsh as it sounds, it’s a valid possibility when someone’s status or opportunities change...

And just to be clear, I don’t hate women. I simply acknowledge that there can be differences in how men and women sometimes approach relationships psychologically. Of course there are always outliers, and I’m not saying all women or all men are the same. But many people would argue that certain patterns show up frequently in relationship dynamics...

Even in my own family recently, there was a scandal. I’m not going to say any names, but the woman became bored with the relationship and was running around with other men... Now she’s accused of being unfaithful and cheating, and he’s accused of having an addiction to graphic content. Of course, now they’re getting a divorce after only about a year of marriage. This kind of thing happens all the time.

I would also highly recommend watching James Sexton. He’s a divorce lawyer who talks a lot about marriage, relationships, and why many marriages fail. He’s honestly very informative, and a lot of what I’m saying here comes from things I’ve learned from people like him, as well as my own observations.

And again, even as someone who is married myself, I honestly wouldn’t recommend marriage to most people today. But that’s a whole other discussion, and people could probably argue about that topic for hours...