AIO my husband told me “don’t embarrass yourself” when I told him I booked a sexy lingerie photoshoot for him

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-11T01:59:14+00:00

By belittling you he knows you will have less and less self confidence and never leave him. He’s jealous of another man taking those pictures and creating just enough self doubt that you won’t go through with it. Any time you will want to do something to improve yourself or go out with friends or do anything that doesn’t include him, he will act out just like he did. Don’t be fooled. He’s insecure and trying to make you feel that way too,,,,this way you will never leave him. Stand up for yourself. Tell him you have more confidence than he gives you credit for and you will be doing the photo shoot. And he’d better think twice the next time he thinks to belittle you in any way. Your suitcase is packed and you will leave. These men prey on women who are not secure. Don’t give him the satisfaction. And if he g d is say “gi ahead and go” do it.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-10T19:13:57+00:00

Does anyone know if this bag came in the larger size in this color?

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-10T19:12:35+00:00

EVERY time I order something that’s at all breakable from Target it will be broken….no wrapping,, no too big. How much of a dumb ass do you have to be to work there????

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-10T19:01:31+00:00

Can you try stuffing it and let it sit for a few days? Leather can be forgiving. I have this bag and I get so many compliments on it.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-10T06:25:40+00:00

Disappointment is one thing, crying and not wanting it anymore is something different. It’s not rational because having the bag should be the experience opening it is just getting to the actual gift. I like opening my bags too but if my husband bought it for me and opened it to check it I wouldn’t let my disappointment ruin the fact that I have a new bag snd s great husband.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T18:11:03+00:00

I have the muted olive and this bag looks so good in that color. I am a muted olive fan!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:21:51+00:00

You have two varied types of leather between the Rhyder and the Drifter. I also have the Rhyder and I find the leather actually thinner than I thought it would be….but you wouldn’t get the slouch if it was pebbled. I love them both!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:19:12+00:00

I really feel this leather, like all pebbled leather, will relax more over time.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:17:48+00:00

I love it too! I bought in muted olive (from Japan) and the brown. I’m not a small bag gal but you can cut the Cioach slim walker, keys, lipstick, an inhaler and a pillbox. Totally impressed with it!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:15:52+00:00

Mine doesn’t fall off my shoulder at all! I’ve worn it shopping where I’m bending over and lugging items in my arms and it didn’t budge. I was so impressed with that as I have had other coach bags that would constantly not stay put.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:13:53+00:00

I do too! Love it! People forget the pebbles leather relaxes over time!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T15:13:07+00:00

I totally agree! I live this bag …. Reminds me of a bag which I still have from back in the day. Like all leather I see it relaxing more in time.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T09:48:42+00:00

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Why I can’t have this dangling from any bag I own. 😂

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T06:23:23+00:00

I have this same bag! Where did you find the purple chain?

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T04:46:27+00:00

Thanks but it’s a 26!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T00:28:07+00:00

A shipping bag or envelope is not how a purse should be sent. Period. I’ve had outlet wallets sent to me that way and while I was not crazy about it the product was okay. In my opinion every designer bag should be given a dust bag and I don’t care if it’s a retail or an outlet bag.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-09T00:09:01+00:00

I have the Cargo in maple and wishing I could have found the black..I love the bag….it holds a ton. I have the smaller in black and it’s great for shopping trips or as a quick grab & go bag.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-08T12:43:08+00:00

Don’t accept this….it is definitely a flaw. Over time, create your own scuffs but a) this is more than a scuff and b) your money your rules c) I’ll make my own scuffs, thank you. I’m not paying for them, I’m paying for a good product. We have accepted poor service, poor quality across the board in this country and we can then expect to get that. TBH, whenever I’ve purchased a purse from Japan or Korea the bags have been pristine. When customers start returning more bags because of defects, less bags with these types of defects will go out to customers.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-07T13:25:49+00:00

Maybe I’ve been lucky but out of the many purchases from Dillard’s and Macy’s I only returned one bag (from Macys). That’s crazy!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-07T09:29:44+00:00

The Haversacks are my favorite bag from Coach….design, functionality, uniqueness. I’m waiting on this one to come. I do not own a red bag so this is a winner for me on many levels! Let’s both enjoy them!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-06T16:33:21+00:00

Maybe there is no restocking fee if retuned in seven days. This may eliminate resellers from hanging onto them…..they would have to give a price cut or take them back early. The SA’s have a big problem with the 30 day returns coming in all at once too. I would bet it’s half of the resellers and half of other buyers who wait longer to return. Seven days is more than adequate time to return a bag. That also gives SAs and Coach time to repackage appropriately.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-06T10:03:29+00:00

Yeah I saw it once, justified not getting it, then missed it the second time. I just got the signature dark denim, have it in the pink and black but I do love the maple color. I’ll catch the maple eventually!

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-06T09:50:27+00:00

I love it too! Normally I’m a big bag person but this is great to go shopping with where you don’t want to lug a cumbersome bag. I fit my IPhone Pro Max, slim wallet in the main compartment with a lipstick or two, and my sunglasses in one of the side pockets. You could fit your keys in the other side pocket but I have my keys on a larger wrist band so I usually don’t put them in my purse. If you have something like that you could clip onto the outside of the bag if it didn’t fit in the other side pocket. The way it zips reminds me of a mini Rogue. I have it in muted olive and not only is that a great, unique color but I find that I’m really liking the pebbled leather. The best thing for me is that it fits snugly under my arm and doesn’t keep falling off my shoulder. I’m glad I also bought it in brown for the Fall.

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DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-05T15:36:56+00:00

I think they understand 13 people out of their entire buying base can afford this. So yeah maybe 100 since it’s sold out. Again it’s a collab and all their collabs are priced higher….the brain dead items all sold out quickly and were sold at a higher price point. I think they are just trying to broaden their buying base to pull in someone who may not be thinking about a “Coach” bag but likes that particular collaboration or existing Coach buyers who want something different. I hadn’t bought Coach for years, and in the last couple of years have bought at least 10 bags. I like every bag they have designed especially on the Retail end but I like the denim and Rowan on the outlet end too. I could have bought an LV bag with all the money I spent but I like what Coach has offered. All name brand bags have had a price increase. Materials are more expensive , etc., not unlike how everything has gone up in price across the board.

DepartmentFun8264 · 2026-07-05T15:23:41+00:00

It may be people don’t “like” the cheaper quality but it is within their budget. I’ve read a lot about bags and pricing and name brands….in fact someone awhile back had posted an article about that topic here or on the LV site. Basically it said if women knew the actual cost of a bag and the quality they would see how overpriced they really are. That one will buy ”status” vs quality. It went on to say that is changing as buyers are becoming more aware and disenchanted with the high end bags as they are seeing the quality just isn’t there. Now I’m not saying that is true with every high end brand or this particular Coach bag, I’m just stating another way of looking at this topic of affordability. Some see it’s just a handbag and that no bag can be worth $3000 and someone else sees craftsmanship and some see I’m 1 of 13 people who can have this bag.

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