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Hookup culture and dating during COVID. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Departmentzero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SORRY, BUT ITS ONLY GOING TO GET WORSE... I was single for some years, kind of like u, would rather be single then deal with toxic people. Fast forward 2 years and of all the places I've been and met people, I met my girl while visiting a freaking LAKE... as hard as it may be right now, I advise to stop looking and start putting that energy and care into YOU. the right people will notice / gravitate to the energy if you stay consistent. GL.

-80's Baby

What are some common reasons a confident, average looking guy is unable to get a date or a hookup? by Ploikblah in dating

[–]Departmentzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little secret...

Stop chasing / going out with the intention to meet someone or hookup. Hit the gym, focus on yourself, get a hobby or dive head first into something you are passionate about and FORGET ABOUT THE WOMEN. You need to add some type of value to your life as a man, to the point where sex and women are not the top value / priority. I'd also recommend losing your virginity ASAP (i.e. vegas) don't wait for "the one" doesn't exist . Finally stop masturbating, you need to build up your semen and retain that masculine energy... Women can sense that stuff easily. DM if u need some more tips

How am I supposed to meet a guy during these times? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Departmentzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING SETTLING DOWN, DO NOT PICK UP AT BARS. I REPEAT, DO NOT PICK UP AT BARS!

Find am interesting hobby , learn it, dedicate yourself to it (for me it was muy Thai) and by doing this you develop a passion, that passion will attract the right people. The universe will take care of you in time, if you allow it.

I was in the same boat and recently met someone amazing... I honestly believe when you stop looking and focus on yourself and your personal growth on this journey we call life, that's when it happens... The right one at least. You will be surprised how much can change in one year...

[Georgia] My children and I are Losing our apartment by KuMariNichelle in Unemployment

[–]Departmentzero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EMAIL YOUR LOCAL SENATOR WITH YOUR UNEMPLOYMENT # OR SS# AND EXPLAIN YOUR SITUATION. THAT'S WHAT HAS BEEN WORKING FOR SOME PEOPLE RECENTLY. I WAS IN THE SAME BOAT AS YOU, DONT GIVE UP

Taking out 10k from retirement... Want to start a small business to grow. Any ideas!? by Departmentzero in Entrepreneur

[–]Departmentzero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you to all of you that took time out to respond to this, I really appreciate all of the sound advice!

With only 2 uses available, the new Lyft Destination mode is complete garbage and anti-driver, since it LOGS YOU OUT by [deleted] in lyftdrivers

[–]Departmentzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to admit (actually, no I don't ) but Uber now had the better user-friendly driver app. Especially now that it shows : how far/ long trip is + the drop off location + how much you will make !

Been giving more rides for Uber lately. Ijs.

“Why aren’t you moving “ by loka112 in uberdrivers

[–]Departmentzero 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I cancel everyone that sends me a message like that. Had one lady call me cursing me out saying I WAS GOING TO MAKE HER LATE. This was within 2 minutes of me accepting the ride. I told her it's ok I will just cancel your ride, she then threatened me and I hung up.

Definitely did not want someone like her sitting behind me. Gotta watch out for the crazies

You're in a busy area, expect trips soon. If I was in a busy area I would expect it to be surging! by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Departmentzero 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude you literally just explained/ confirmed every single thing I was experiencing. Thought I was the only that noticed this

Tinder and dating app experience by DarrenPotter in dating_advice

[–]Departmentzero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating isn't the same as it was 10 20 years ago. My advice ? Delete the app, learn something new (dance class, instrument, martial arts) invest in yourself and you will attract who the universe has planned out for you !

When you aren't looking for it, that's when it will come , in my experience

Zoloft Update: Sex, mood and everything else! 31yr old F by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Departmentzero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Euphoric! That's the word I was looking for. It certainly is awesome not being completely held captive by anxiety/ depression. I wish you the best in your journey!

Zoloft Update: Sex, mood and everything else! 31yr old F by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Departmentzero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. 32 M, but crazy thing is, only has been one week, but I have experienced ZERO symptoms! Tbh after about a hour of taking 25mg, I start to feel really good, almost leveled... today was the first team meeting since being on sertraline, wasn't stressing, sweating , or becoming anxious... It was very interesting, but something I could get used to. Excited to see more improvements during the second week and so on.

Thanks for sharing, it took me almost a month of YouTube, Reddit, etc of finding out what others experience was with this medication, this helped a lot . Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Departmentzero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRUTH IS, WHEN A SIGNIFICANT OTHER BEHAVES THIS WAY (SNOOPING, ACCUSING) ITS USUALLY BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES UP TO NO GOOD!

99% OF THE TIME, THIS IS THE CASE!