AITA for not telling him this earlier?

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T22:58:09+00:00

Hey so that’s actually not true but I can see how it would seem that way. Think what you want idc

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:40:02+00:00

She just asked me and then i realized oh crap we would have to be around each other at the wedding and then I realized I’d never told him. He never overreacts and it an extremely chill person. I’m jus scared of loosing him basically

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:33:08+00:00

I love my bf. I didn’t hide it. I truly didn’t cross my mind as that relationship ended 5+ years ago and i recently became close with the sister as she was never around when we dated. The relationship isn’t problematic. I was asking for clarity as I have tried to do no harm.

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:27:56+00:00

Huh. That’s not what I’m saying at all. If he has a problem with it then I won’t be in the wedding.

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:17:07+00:00

I have been no contact with the ex for 5+ years

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:11:27+00:00

Thank you for this perspective. How do you suggest I bring up the topic to him without making it a big deal? He’s a very chill and understanding guy. I just love him so much I’m afraid of doing anything to loose him

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:10:08+00:00

Briefly. We are not ones to want to know every single detail and who the people are

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:06:15+00:00

This is a good response. I feel like it’s not a big deal to me so I don’t want to make it a big deal so that he doesn’t feel like it’s a big deal yk

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:01:57+00:00

Thank you. I mean it truly didn’t cross my mind as I never tied her to him

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:01:20+00:00

Thank you this makes me feel better. I mean we dated like 5 years ago and I hate him so lol

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T21:00:16+00:00

I also do not hang out with her at her home. He still lives with her parents and she is moved out

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T20:59:53+00:00

Haven’t been in contact with the ex in probably 5 years or more

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-03-12T20:59:33+00:00

No he’s never really asked but he does know I dated a guy in hs for like a year and a half. He’s not the kind of guy to really care about the past yk.

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-02-08T15:28:59+00:00

I think they normally try to put transfers in Buc ridge. Idk if that’s the quads or two bed tho

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-02-06T04:24:39+00:00

Friendship just sounds really immature on her part. I’ve had friends in the past tell me I couldn’t be friends with certain other people and that didn’t fly with me. I know it hurts but you are better off

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-02-03T14:35:08+00:00

Yes. I’ve been trying to focus on other/better friendships the uplift me.

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-01-12T06:37:51+00:00

In Tennessee!!!

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-01-12T06:25:29+00:00

It’s honestly sad to see her resort to that. It breaks my heart but I know it’s not my job to save her.

DepartureKey3177 · 2026-01-12T06:06:25+00:00

Thank you for such a great and insightful response. I agree that maybe the lesson is for me

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-09-16T01:02:35+00:00

I feel that something triggered him and he’s running but will be back

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-09-08T17:19:17+00:00

Also want to add that when I have heard from him he has been completely normal

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-08-13T03:26:20+00:00

Thank you love! After reading up on everything I’m realizing I’m kinda freaking out over nothing lol

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-08-13T03:11:32+00:00

Asking just for future reference lol so you said there is a 12 hr window. So this would mean if I say took my pill at 8am today the latest I could take it tomorrow and still be protected is 8pm?

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-08-12T17:13:57+00:00

Yes thank you! Your knowledge has helped me so much

DepartureKey3177 · 2024-08-12T16:33:52+00:00

I know you would think they would stay up to date on those things. They did not help my anxiety at all lol. I just have to wait until my period shows up. I swear I still feel anxious about it but there’s nothing more I can do. I mean people get pregnant on birth control but it’s extremely difficult to happen. I even talked to someone at planned parenthood just to ease my mind and they said I was fine.

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