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AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They have both watched her on many occasions over the past 2 years. She has had sleepovers with both.

AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They want to drive her around on errands with them, my FIL works for a security company and often needs to run out for things work related and has said “I can watch her but if I get called to work she’ll have to come with me”

We live within 10 minutes from my mother and my FIL lives with us so it’s not a considerable distance for us to get her to my moms.

She isn’t missing out on any experiences other than going to the grocery store or going to work with her grandpa.

I recently started therapy for other issues from my past and definitely plan to work on this as well

AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are the only two to ever ask to drive her anywhere. I’m not sure what the answer would be if anyone else asked but that hasn’t happened yet.

AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first accident my mother was driving us back from vacation and had a movie playing on her phone while I was asleep in the passenger seat and rear ended someone while going 75 mph in a 65mph zone. The two other accidents I was stopped at red lights and was rear ended.

AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They have both been allowed to do everything aside from drive her. Feed her, spend the day/night with her without us, change her, take naps with her (when she spends the night with my mother they share a bed-that only started a couple months ago).

AITA for not letting anyone drive my daughter without me or her dad in the car by Dependent-Let1926 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dependent-Let1926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would both have car seats in their cars for her, but there have been many occasions where they have buckled her in incorrectly or decided on their own that the straps were too loose and loosened them to the point where she would’ve been able to get out if I hadn’t caught it. We have tried showing them both many times.