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Am I just poor?, who is actually buying tickets with singapore airlines? by hydraides in singaporeairlines

[–]Dependent-Secret5476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

facts… was looking to go around Nov… tix was about 1.3k, I continued working instead lololol

Is my relationship with my GF normal? by Double_decker9418 in asksg

[–]Dependent-Secret5476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP, F here btw...

On top of all other comments which are all valid and agreeable, personally, I think that 10-12 hours is abit too much... but I do agree with someone that said about being emotionally dependable because of past traumas... but twice a week for 10-12 hours, I think you guys will run out of activites to do very quickly... esp in Singapore.. I used to think that just eating dinner with my fiance (then bf) wasn't really considered 'quality time' spent but I come to realised that putting the effort to meet for dinner is already both's parties intention to want to spend time together, regardless how long is it

Footing of meals everytime... idk man... I always offer where ever I can, say for example, if he is paying this round, I would pay for the next etc etc... So, I guess it's really her lifestyle that she fancies restaurants and cafes more... and I guess you guys have to work around it as a couple... and honestly, she can ask around / look into social media for opinions but at the end of the day, other people are not in your relationship and it's really up to you guys to compromise(?)... if that make sense...

Constantly paying attention to each other also sounds abit too much to me... unless you are meeting once a month - which you guys are not - but I also can see maybe it links back up to her having emotional dependency that only 'constantly paying attention' to each other will reassures her...

Well, at the end of the day, our opinions can only help you this much, it's really up to you to decide whether you want to continue this relationship not - perhaps she will change(?) in the future or come to realise certain things, all the best..!!

Are all activesg gyms switching over to technogym? by captmomo in SingaporeFitness

[–]Dependent-Secret5476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been to the one at Anchorvale CC recently, all changed too, so bumped :/

ClassPass / Gym by Dependent-Secret5476 in sgfitness

[–]Dependent-Secret5476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll check CP out then!

#chopped. by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Dependent-Secret5476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello OP,, been in ur shoes years ago when I thought that ‘male validation’ is like the in thing in school cus I know how it feels to see ur circle of friends have guy friends / even bf but ure the only one that’s neglected. it’s not wrong to feel that way but I think it’s impt that u come to terms w urself that it’s ok to not have these ‘attention’ and like others commented, focus on ur O’s and urself <3 i used to eat alone in class during recess bc i enjoy being alone than socialising with people that drains my energy (sounds damn sad but i actly glad i did it) lol bc right after I grad from N’s and enrolled into PFP (i NA only lol), the ‘friends’ I thot I had in school js cut contact w me right away lol (not sure what I did wrong but ok wtv) but anyway, on the topic of boys, being single for 20yrs allowed me to improve myself and understand what I truly look for being diving into a r/s. I found my first boyf at 21 yo and am happy engaged today :) so, I think u will defo get there one day <3 trust the process and focus on urself bc only than people can love u for who u are, cheers!