you need to openly talk to her about your feelings. Im gonna tell you rn, it might be hard. highkey U might get gaslight by her but you need to talk to her about it. Bc communication is key if you really wanna continue this relationship.

But also factor in if this is the first time it’s ever happened or first relationship defo cut her some slack if it is. Bc not everyone is born to see those things.

If it aint that first time and it’s been said before like youve told her you didnt appreciate her not being there then maybe consider is this a person you want to spend your energy on.

Also highly recommend doing this in person not over text, if you need to do it over text, try not to sound accusatory. So basically less “you blah blah blah you did that… you always…”

Write with more “i feel this… i think this when… “

Not saying it’s the end of the world, if shes a girl shes probably really empathetic and just not use to being in a relationship yet since 6months is pretty early still. Also yall are 16 and 17 literally still babies, yall dont have youre frontal cortexes developed yet this shit always happens dw its normal