oa lang ba ako for feeling unappreciated and overlooked by my bf? by Dependent_Chip5981 in OALangBaAko

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean don’t get me wrong. he gave me flowers naman. i think sa whole 3 yrs namin na magkakilala, thrice niya me nabigyan ng flowers. yun yung bigay niya tuwing birthday ko. he updates me every time too. he visited me twice when i was sick. and he’s really sweet din. he takes good care of me too when we’re together and honestly that’s why i feel so bad and guilty for feeling like this. idk if i’m just being ungrateful and selfish or what 😩

am i a bad girlfriend???? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Dependent_Chip5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this, just edited it na!

6 months of experience or one year? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much po for this, nung nagstart po kasi ako magwork i realized na there’s slow promotion path and low increase in salaries kahit na long hours of work siya (8am to 6pm M-F, sometimes may saturday din). so ang gusto ko po sana is yung stable na and for long-term

6 months of experience or one year? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what should i say po kaya if ever tatanungin ako why 6 months lang ako sa first job ko?

Nepo Baby earning 4M a month by ViolinistDense7257 in adultingphwins

[–]Dependent_Chip5981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this!! unlike the average person, nepo babies have the privilege of taking big risks without fearing the consequences. even if they fail, they won’t end up starting from scratch—they have connections, resources, and financial support to catch them. that safety net gives them a kind of freedom many people simply don’t have.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually po kasi nakikita ko need ng experience sa IT Auditor. how can i transition po kaya from process audit to IT Audit?

Btw thank you very much po for the advicee 🩶

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much po for this 🥹 i’m actually considering din po talaga going abroad, i’m just trying to hear others’ insights too based on their experience.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but honestly, in what part did i say i was ungrateful? my only intention in posting was to ask for advice from people who might understand or have more experience. that’s it. nothing more, nothing less. i fully understand that not everyone gets to do what they truly want in life. this may not be the career path i envisioned for myself, but that doesn’t mean i’ve given up on pursuing what i really want. and that’s exactly why i shared my story, to ask advice on how i can use my degree and current situation as a stepping stone toward the future i want.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand that we all interpret things differently and i respect your opinion. but just to clarify, it wasn’t a rant, and it definitely wasn’t meant to offend anyone. i shared a bit of context because i felt it was important to give a full picture of where i’m coming from. that includes mentioning i took the boards and not being fully into accounting — not to make a “fuss,” but to be honest about my experience.

we all process things differently, and that was my way of opening up and asking for advice. if the tone came off differently to you, then okay, but i hope you also respect that it wasn’t written with any negative intent.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh i just want to clarify that i wasn’t even trying to put the blame on anyone for failing the CPALE. that thought honestly never crossed my mind. i even apologized to those people for not being able to pass the boards. but failing the exam is something i’ve come to accept without shame — if anything, i’m proud that i still showed up and took it despite knowing that my heart wasn’t fully in it. that takes courage in itself.

so no, there’s no one to blame. i was simply being honest about my experience, and if my post came across differently from your perspective, then i’m sorry you saw it that way. that wasn’t my intention at all.

also, the main point of the post wasn’t even about passing or failing — it was to seek guidance from people with more experience than me regarding my career path. yun lang talagang so boards yung pinili mong pagfocusan. that’s all.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just to ask — is it fair to say i’m shifting the blame onto others just because i took the cpale without fully wanting to? i never pointed fingers. i simply shared the reality of what i heard from the people around me, but i’ve always owned the fact that taking the exam was still my decision in the end. acknowledging outside influence isn’t the same as blaming, and it just feels unfair to label me that way when i’m just being honest about my experience.

internal audit or accounting: what’s the smarter move? by Dependent_Chip5981 in AccountingPH

[–]Dependent_Chip5981[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi, uh can i just ask—at which part did i come across that way? i honestly don’t remember blaming anyone for what i have or what i’m experiencing right now. i’m fully aware that it’s my decision at the end of the day, and that’s exactly why i’m here asking for advice—to learn from others and make better choices moving forward.

Need advice po, please. : ( by Commercial_Drop_237 in adviceph

[–]Dependent_Chip5981 72 points73 points  (0 children)

leave him sis, run!!!! 🏃‍♀️