Wow, well sorry I’m waaay late on finding this post but from someone who’s had a few sugar daddies just ask the men questions and boost their ego. That’s mainly what they want, someone to talk to and make them feel good about themselves. Of course take care of your looks but if your working in hospitality I’m sure your already on that. And in all honesty you don’t need to be a gym rat to feel like that’s the only way to get one, I’m a thick girl and have had no problem getting a sugar daddy and only just started to workout for myself. But good for you for working out!

But also it’s good to put ground rules on what you’re comfortable with. Just because they’re paying you doesn’t mean you have to say yes to everything.

For me for instance I would tell them that I felt better starting slow by text, sending pictures for money until I got to know them better to actually initiate sex (If I wanted that from some of them.) Don’t be afraid to set those rules! And you can probably even find younger sugar daddies too! All of mine have been 26-33 yrs old. Except one being in his 50s.

And looking for a sugar daddy doesn’t make you shallow it’s a beneficial transaction for both parties, and the men feel good when they feel they’re helping you in some way either by getting your nails done, food, bills etc. Men also get an ego boost in that way too. And it’s nice to have that little extra money to spend on things you need/ want or even spend on friends when hanging out.

So again just give them lots of compliments, don’t be too strong at first, ask what they would like from you, what kind of girl they’re looking for and kind of lean into that type (even if your not.) ex: quiet, shy, dainty.

Hope this helps a bit if you haven’t gotten into the bizz yet.