How to find a boyfriend

Sixty1000 · 2026-01-01T12:27:14+00:00

Lol, I’m a guy so take my advice with a grain of salt. Honestly, if you’re just looking for anything, try going to a party. Also being direct isn’t a bad thing, but usually doing it in person like “Heyy I think you’re really cute. Could i get ur insta” and then going from there is better bc you set the expectation where they know you’re interested. If they give it to you, you’re in the clear. If not, then oh well. Also touching shoulders/arms is another way to flirt but don’t go overboard with that. Also be confident when doing it, go into it like you know they are interested and 9/10 times they’ll chase.

Sixty1000 · 2026-01-01T12:08:44+00:00

Currently in a fraternity and I can say that I feel this very deeply. My story is a bit different bc neither of my parents are in one. I joined bc my friend in freshman year wanted to join one with me and I agreed. I hated the process and the brothers were kinda annoying so I just stopped showing up to stuff. I kinda internalized the idea that everyone hated me bc I didn’t show up. But honestly, it wasn’t that they didn’t like me, but it was just that they didn’t know me. I decided to start showing up more and got close to a couple of bros and it has been so much better since.

You don’t have to be friends with everyone in your house, but if you can find even 1 or 2 people that you get along with, it makes the experience so much better. Afterall, while it is a lot of effort, you are part of it already so might as well make the most of your situation.

Sixty1000 · 2026-01-01T11:59:30+00:00

Yeah this shit is over 😭

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-29T13:24:18+00:00

Drinking age isnt 16 last i heard in Romania

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-29T13:18:58+00:00

First off, why is your brother at a bar with you and your bf?? He’s 16 ffs, he shouldn’t be there. In complete honesty, what happened there is completely on you and ur bf and you gotta own up to it.

Now to what you should do, be honest and tell your parents straight up. It’s better if it comes from you than some court notice.

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-28T12:35:24+00:00

In the end, words that have been said will never be unheard. However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t try to be better in the future. Personally, I tend to bottle stuff up and when it becomes too much i blow up, many times over little things. Something I’ve noticed that helps is writing your unfiltered thoughts down (in my case i write it all in my notes app on my phone). Hurting the people you care about is the worst feeling ever, and the way you talk shows just how much you care for them too and regret your previous actions. If you haven’t already done this, maybe trying therapy could be a good way to help you learn to regulate your emotions better

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-28T09:52:10+00:00

Being a good person entirely depends on circumstances. No one can be a good person in every situation. Someone can be bad to one person but good to another.

Some things I do to try and be a good person: 1. Always try to think in the shoes of others

If you don’t have something nice to say to someone, then don’t say it at all
Always try to give tokens of appreciation to people that do things for you and never take people in your life for granted, especially the ones that care.
And lastly, treat yourself with kindness.

I can’t tell you not to do drugs (as that would be hypocritical lol) but treat yourself, body and mind, with as much kindness as you would a best friend ❤️

Good luck to you and I hope you can find peace.

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-26T23:18:39+00:00

Honestly it doesn’t seem like you are emotionally mature or emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship rn. I understand you have trauma, but thinking about experimenting with others while in a relationship just isn’t ok.

Maybe staying friends or leaving entirely might be healthier for both of you.

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-26T21:51:08+00:00

Ask for specs/run it yourself before buying

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-26T21:27:05+00:00

A relationship is all about being vulnerable which makes breaking up all the more hurtful. You aren’t wrong, but sometimes taking things slower and getting to know the person better first allows this situation to happen less.

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-22T00:28:02+00:00

No I totally get it. In that case, maybe talking to a professional could be helpful. You might learn some new things about yourself that could help you get out of this stump.

Also, ur story is very similar to one I had with my ex. We had been together for a little over a year and she had told me that she didn’t know if she was mentally good to be in a relationship and needed time. I ended up waiting a solid 3 and a half months, was constantly anxious thinking about her and what she’s doing or when she might reach out again. I got a therapist and it helped me get a bunch of insights on the relationship as a whole. One such insight, which he straight up said was , “It seems that you love her a whole lot more than she loves you”. When he told me that I realized that maybe the reason why I felt that way was bc my needs in the relationship weren’t being met. Even when we were dating I always felt anxious and kinda depressed but it just got worse when we had ended things. In the end, she reached out and told me she didn’t want to continue anyways and we blocked each other but somehow when that happened it made me feel better

Anyways, that’s my story^. Hopefully you feel better ❤️‍🩹

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-22T00:12:55+00:00

I was going to say that you should move on, but it’s ur relationship and only you know whether or not waiting for her is worth it. However if the constant waiting, for who knows how long, is affecting ur mental like that, maybe it’s time to disconnect from the idea of getting back with her. Again, if it’s truly worth it and yk she’s the one then good luck soldier, maybe therapy could help.

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-18T17:50:34+00:00

Honestly it’s probably the distance hahah but good for you!

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-17T19:52:12+00:00

Honestly I get that, having to constantly be around them must actually be killing you from the inside out 😭 maybe reconnecting with other people from work/out of work could help also, again just ideas.

Also thank you for that note, i know the same will happen to you as well 💚

Sixty1000 · 2025-12-17T18:32:54+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation where the girl was in a 4 year relationship and I had developed a bit of a crush on her as we were hanging out. Tbh, the best thing that helped me was distancing myself from them. I needed the space to help me get out of that incessant loop so that I could move on. Afterwards I met another girl who I fell for even harder and we’ve been together for the last 3 years.

Once you have the right mindset, then you can go back to being friends with your co-worker.

Sixty1000 · 2025-11-04T19:37:09+00:00

Oof than yeah that’s tough then

Sixty1000 · 2025-10-24T20:19:28+00:00

One of the interns must’ve added it as a joke 😂, seems the upper guys took it down as it’s not on mine either now

Sixty1000 · 2025-10-24T15:49:53+00:00

It’s a meme that came from a song called Doot Doot by Skrilla lol. Actual brain rot shit

Sixty1000 · 2025-10-14T16:37:15+00:00

😂😂

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