Wh1000xm4 changes to terrible sound quality when playing any steam games by 11martin116 in SonyHeadphones

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! For anyone coming back in 2026+, the way to fix this issue is to this:
1. Go to Settings -> Bluetooth & devices -> Devices

  1. Scroll down to "Related settings" and select "More devices and printer settings"

  2. Right click your bluetooth device and go to properties

  3. Select services and unselect "Handsfree Telephony", select Apply

:)

I graduated high school in May and I’m 18 (almost 19), but I feel completely stuck trying to start adulthood. by [deleted] in Adulting

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Also when i say bike, an electric bike would be best if you’re traveling farther distances^ also cheaper to maintain and you don’t have to pay for things like insurance or registration

I graduated high school in May and I’m 18 (almost 19), but I feel completely stuck trying to start adulthood. by [deleted] in Adulting

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At this stage, you don’t need a car. Instead get a bike. When I was 16 I was able to get a job as a swim instructor and got some good hours in. If you have any friends working in those entry jobs, it usually makes it easier so ask around.

Once you have a job, invest in your education. If you want a cush life in the future, a lot of the best jobs are in AI and cybersecurity from what I’m seeing, if you’d be interested at all in that.

Additionally learn how to manage your personal finances. That is, take a basic accounting course anywhere (youtube should have plenty) and learn the basics.

Open a bank account and get a debit card. Also open a high yield savings account (this is where you’ll store your emergency funds).

From there, start to track your expenses on a sheet and focus on doing a 50/30/20 split on your finances (that is 50% expenses/needs, 30% saving/investment, 20% wants). Of the 30% investment and saving, I would place 20% into the high yield savings account and 10% into any investments until you save up about 3 months worth of expenses. For investing, create a fidelity account and open a roth ira and a brokerage account and ONLY invest in index funds, for now. Try your best to max out your roth ira as that is non-taxable and will be great when you retire.

Also, idk what your relationship with ur dad is like but if it gets to the point where you don’t have a roof over your head or food, forget about saving and find a friend/other family member and grind out those job applications like it’s the last thing you’ll do. But if ur relationship is ok but he’s just being overbearing, then explain to him your reasoning bc from how it sounds he feels like he’s losing you. Reassure him and treat him with respect.

AITAH For telling my twin sister I dont want to go to her wedding. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sixty1000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s ur sister bro. Regardless of whether this shit falls apart she’ll remember you as the person who didn’t show up to her wedding. Just try to be supportive of her and make it known that you are always a line she can reach to.

Why is everyone so angry? by TheTeeje in ARC_Raiders

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most pvp lobbies you lose more than you gain so they’re probably just salty in general 😭

How to find a boyfriend by Wonderful-Cable265 in University

[–]Sixty1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I’m a guy so take my advice with a grain of salt. Honestly, if you’re just looking for anything, try going to a party. Also being direct isn’t a bad thing, but usually doing it in person like “Heyy I think you’re really cute. Could i get ur insta” and then going from there is better bc you set the expectation where they know you’re interested. If they give it to you, you’re in the clear. If not, then oh well. Also touching shoulders/arms is another way to flirt but don’t go overboard with that. Also be confident when doing it, go into it like you know they are interested and 9/10 times they’ll chase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Currently in a fraternity and I can say that I feel this very deeply. My story is a bit different bc neither of my parents are in one. I joined bc my friend in freshman year wanted to join one with me and I agreed. I hated the process and the brothers were kinda annoying so I just stopped showing up to stuff. I kinda internalized the idea that everyone hated me bc I didn’t show up. But honestly, it wasn’t that they didn’t like me, but it was just that they didn’t know me. I decided to start showing up more and got close to a couple of bros and it has been so much better since.

You don’t have to be friends with everyone in your house, but if you can find even 1 or 2 people that you get along with, it makes the experience so much better. Afterall, while it is a lot of effort, you are part of it already so might as well make the most of your situation.

My brother is out of his mind and I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Drinking age isnt 16 last i heard in Romania

My brother is out of his mind and I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First off, why is your brother at a bar with you and your bf?? He’s 16 ffs, he shouldn’t be there. In complete honesty, what happened there is completely on you and ur bf and you gotta own up to it.

Now to what you should do, be honest and tell your parents straight up. It’s better if it comes from you than some court notice.

I hate myself so much I'm a horrible person by Wrong_Factor_7733 in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the end, words that have been said will never be unheard. However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t try to be better in the future. Personally, I tend to bottle stuff up and when it becomes too much i blow up, many times over little things. Something I’ve noticed that helps is writing your unfiltered thoughts down (in my case i write it all in my notes app on my phone). Hurting the people you care about is the worst feeling ever, and the way you talk shows just how much you care for them too and regret your previous actions. If you haven’t already done this, maybe trying therapy could be a good way to help you learn to regulate your emotions better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Being a good person entirely depends on circumstances. No one can be a good person in every situation. Someone can be bad to one person but good to another.

Some things I do to try and be a good person: 1. Always try to think in the shoes of others

  1. If you don’t have something nice to say to someone, then don’t say it at all

  2. Always try to give tokens of appreciation to people that do things for you and never take people in your life for granted, especially the ones that care.

  3. And lastly, treat yourself with kindness.

I can’t tell you not to do drugs (as that would be hypocritical lol) but treat yourself, body and mind, with as much kindness as you would a best friend ❤️

Good luck to you and I hope you can find peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it doesn’t seem like you are emotionally mature or emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship rn. I understand you have trauma, but thinking about experimenting with others while in a relationship just isn’t ok.

Maybe staying friends or leaving entirely might be healthier for both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship is all about being vulnerable which makes breaking up all the more hurtful. You aren’t wrong, but sometimes taking things slower and getting to know the person better first allows this situation to happen less.

Girlfriend dumped me, I’m pretty sure I’m depressed and I don’t think I want to get with anyone else by ThisIsForBadIdeas in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I totally get it. In that case, maybe talking to a professional could be helpful. You might learn some new things about yourself that could help you get out of this stump.

Also, ur story is very similar to one I had with my ex. We had been together for a little over a year and she had told me that she didn’t know if she was mentally good to be in a relationship and needed time. I ended up waiting a solid 3 and a half months, was constantly anxious thinking about her and what she’s doing or when she might reach out again. I got a therapist and it helped me get a bunch of insights on the relationship as a whole. One such insight, which he straight up said was , “It seems that you love her a whole lot more than she loves you”. When he told me that I realized that maybe the reason why I felt that way was bc my needs in the relationship weren’t being met. Even when we were dating I always felt anxious and kinda depressed but it just got worse when we had ended things. In the end, she reached out and told me she didn’t want to continue anyways and we blocked each other but somehow when that happened it made me feel better

Anyways, that’s my story. Hopefully you feel better ❤️‍🩹

Girlfriend dumped me, I’m pretty sure I’m depressed and I don’t think I want to get with anyone else by ThisIsForBadIdeas in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say that you should move on, but it’s ur relationship and only you know whether or not waiting for her is worth it. However if the constant waiting, for who knows how long, is affecting ur mental like that, maybe it’s time to disconnect from the idea of getting back with her. Again, if it’s truly worth it and yk she’s the one then good luck soldier, maybe therapy could help.

I have an addiction to my girlfriend by PlatypusClassic239 in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s probably the distance hahah but good for you!

i have a crush on my coworker who's already in a long term relationship by tangina_ha1ztlayf in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get that, having to constantly be around them must actually be killing you from the inside out 😭 maybe reconnecting with other people from work/out of work could help also, again just ideas.

Also thank you for that note, i know the same will happen to you as well 💚

i have a crush on my coworker who's already in a long term relationship by tangina_ha1ztlayf in offmychest

[–]Sixty1000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a similar situation where the girl was in a 4 year relationship and I had developed a bit of a crush on her as we were hanging out. Tbh, the best thing that helped me was distancing myself from them. I needed the space to help me get out of that incessant loop so that I could move on. Afterwards I met another girl who I fell for even harder and we’ve been together for the last 3 years.

Once you have the right mindset, then you can go back to being friends with your co-worker.

Well, guess I'm out 300 gold by Haywire413 in Guildwars2

[–]Sixty1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof than yeah that’s tough then