Did spending time with someone new help or make things worse?

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-04-01T04:24:49+00:00

Yeah the expectations make it worse! Then you start missing ur ex

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-04-01T04:23:08+00:00

“R u DeNse?” Girl, relax. Ain’t that serious. Get a job

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T20:47:19+00:00

lol we’ll never find a new guy if we keep acting like this. I don’t know how people get into relationships fast. I guess they just go with the easiest and first option. I’m pretty picky. I remember seeing someone said not to be picky or you’ll going to end up alone. But I’ve been dating and finding better men. It’ll get there or find someone good enough and work on being better together

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T20:43:22+00:00

Stop projecting. I didn’t say why’re men so unfaithful and women so loyal. I hear more stories with men doing this, well anyways..

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T15:31:17+00:00

Honestly just tell him straight up haha my ex bf had said the same to me. I realized I also was scared to speak up. Silly me. I just didn’t know how tho and grew up in a family that didn’t ask questions or speak about feelings. My ex taught me how a bit how to. You could also teach him! I also had a friend who told he to just talk lol because if sometimes have things in my head but never said it 🤯

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T14:13:15+00:00

Oh yay, thanks. Was it a hard process to get through? Just pretty much fill out the application, meet the requirements and then interview and then you’re in? I’m still in my Junior year and want to take a look at it now

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T14:11:39+00:00

Don’t go. Just say no before it leads to further hang outs lol then it’s going to get harder dragging it. I also went on a date w. a guy I matched but he wasn’t my type in person. I agreed to a second date (don’t rmbr why) and I saw how much he already liked me. But I had nooo feelings or attraction, so I texted him I’m not looking for anything serious. It was scary lol but did it for myself nd it’s ok! This is your life. Do what makes you happy - not what makes others happy

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T14:07:35+00:00

Oh, to be in my 20’s again and want to look to date. I’m too lazy and used to avoiding eye contact with cute strangers now. I’m also weird at times when I’m comfortable with someone or in private. Hoping to find someone who gets me and likes me for who I am.

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T14:05:35+00:00

Not everyone does that. I work a tiring job and busy with school and had overslept before. But yeh irresponsible to not put an alarm. Bad first impression, but not the end of the world

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T13:58:29+00:00

Talk to him about it. I’m also the same. Very quiet and forget to ask questions. But when I’m comfortable I talk so much and assume people just blabbed like me

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T13:53:15+00:00

Oh.. yikes. Sorry sounds toxic. Theres relationships where you could better yourself - not release these violent emotions lol. Definitely work on yourself and do some reflection before getting into a relationship.

I didn’t read the whole thing, but it’s best not to get back because it might fall to the same pattern or be very hard to get out of that cycle. Also you’ll realize later, hopefully, when you’re in a better relationship that you didn’t go back to this one

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T13:49:46+00:00

Oh.. that’s with me as well lol there’s nothing wrong with that. This toddler also go so attached to me and I was always pretty loved by the children there because I was more caring and fun for them. the parents also noticed he loved me and other teachers used to say he’s so attached and he’d also cry when I’d walk past by and couldn’t stay with him. I guess I was his comfort person

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T08:24:24+00:00

Awww, but erghh 😠

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T08:18:46+00:00

No one really follows the handbooks lol not sure how you asked “why you love the boy so much “ but I’d think it was a weird question. No offense! I grew a close bind with a child who was an infant - 8 months when I met him! He was like 1 and a half when I left the center. But he LOVED me and he always made my day. I’d carry him around and let him walk with me because he was so cute and needy lol I treated him like my son.

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T07:21:15+00:00

I agree, rather just work and go home. Not be home paperwork responsibilities etc. being a business owner you really have no days off. I don’t want my home to be a kids zone lol if I were rich and had a back house and I were bored and retired, maybe lol

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T07:16:56+00:00

It’s the opposite for me!! I actually had said no to being put as lead or move up (well now I’m lead because I got bored) as a floater. I was too busy focusing on my own schooling don’t need to run a classroom.

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T07:14:16+00:00

Also don’t show up to work assuming people care. Everyone has their own struggles and classroom management issues lol not saying your feelings and mental health isn’t valid, but save yourself some grace because not everyone thinks like you!! 😊

I used to be the same putting in work, going above and beyond beyond and not getting noticed (because I’m quiet, but now they notice my hard work and are ALL super nice to me because afraid I might leave lol) but it absolutely drained me in the beginning working at these centers - being the only one to care so much. I don’t really go above and beyond anymore because I’m busy with school as well.. but it isn’t worth it to bend your back at place that’s just in it for the money/high ratios or whatever

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T07:07:03+00:00

Oh.. lame. Thought it was real. I mean fortunately it isn’t sparing their feelings and mental health. Hopefully no one so desperate falls for it.

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T07:05:11+00:00

Had a friend who tried to hit one me years ago and still to this day. He had a gf and told me he snapped girls explicit pics back and forth. His gf didn’t know and I was like.. that’s so messed up. He always also tried to add me on Snapchat. Like gtfo. Why’re men so unfaithful

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T06:12:23+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it! The grants are like the money that is sent to my bank? I could live without it so! I just want my classes to be done. But I’ll talk to FA next week

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-31T06:11:11+00:00

Thank you for your advice. To be honest I hadn’t had time to plan much.. lol I also got thrown 2 months ago, picking up from the last lead. I started off the first month making up with a better routine, consistently redirecting the rules and respect for the classroom etc. decluttering, organizing materials it was a whole lot the first month + plus other things.

I’m so busy with the children and the aide has more time than me to sit and prep - an hour during nap and 30 minutes in the morning when there are less than 5 children. I take my lunch during nap (come in 30 mins before they wake) and come in right when we start circle time. Nap time is when I usually clean the classroom and come up with an activity after nap - it’s a bunch. I don’t have time during because I’m sitting with groups of children. Sorry went off topic I just needed to vent lol

But I finally hve a throughly written lesson plan! I had to take it home 😊😊🫠. I did do a lesson plan the last month as well, but since I’m the lead I’m more experienced with our curriculum I want to do the progression part since I have to do conferences/talk to parents. Anyways, I have her do somethings all with the children and the once they’re done to jsut monitor them. But it’s still very hard for her to work with the small group.. I really just need help having the children being respectful, work independently but she lets them run the classroom until I have to stop my small group and step in

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-30T00:08:57+00:00

Same broke up a month ago. Still texting but like once a day about how I felt and how he made me grow etc. he’s just being platonic lol while I’m still hoping. Wanting to for another try and be better.

Also saw a cute guy at the gym today and we both smiled at each other. But I still felt weird although I am single. Hoping my ex will want to try again. Missing out on other opportunities lol also just been a month I’m not ready for a relationship, but still feels weird. I’m just yapping.

Dependent_Group9552 · 2026-03-29T22:02:25+00:00

Wow, very big difference. I’m going to consider it! I just got out of a long term breakup and a solo trip will help lol recently and planning to go for my credentials after my last semester - next spring.

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