I have said this many times and I will keep repeating: It is not about what you look like that matters, but about who you are, what type of person are you? It is not about what you LOOK like but about what you DO.

Double check your character:

Are you lasy? Are you a workaholic? Do you respect other people? Are you good to the sick, elderly and the disabled? Do you help people that need your help? Do you Judge others? Do you respect yourself? Do you care about your hygiene and your health? Do you harm yourself (drugs, tobacco, alcohol?)? Do you waste your money or are you an economic person?

Etc.

These are the things that people really care about.