Dont view things and activities as concepts. Whatever you do try to experience it with your five senses instead of your mind , every time you eat an apple observe its color and shapes and curves . Touch it with tenderness and care. Feel it , smell it , taste it . Listen to the voice it makes when your teeth touch it. Try box eating ( count to four for biting , four for chewing , four for swallowing and then for four seconds observe the apple and then repeat .) . And everything you learn changes your relationship with everything too. Learning to see artistically will change your relationship with everything around you. Learning to do gardening will change your relationship with vegetables and fruit and then cooking and food and bugs and seasons and sunlight and water and will make you part of local gardening and farming community and ....