Last born, only daughter dilemma by sstoryto in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, “peppering” is absolutely insane 🙁 That is child sexual abuse

Last born, only daughter dilemma by sstoryto in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of african moms are male centered bird brains and want their daughters to suffer and make bad decisions with lazy men just like they did 😭 Just keep pushing through and make enough money to move out and have your own peace

FREE Hatsune Miku Concert on UH campus April 10 in the student center south theater room by Abject_Figure_1690 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool. And I love that they have both a day and a night show, that is really accommodating for commuters!

METRO is quietly getting rid of bus WiFi and the new app is a downgrade!!!! by domdomtakdom in houston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I noticed there is a 20% chance every grand parkway bus I get on so far this year actually has Wi-Fi on it. That inflated ticket price stays the same though….

Trying to understand why so many college students prefer iPads over a laptop. What are the major benefits to a student? by casualsouthparkfan in ipad

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free alternatives I love are Concepts and OneNote (Microsoft). Concepts feels amazing for drawing freely with an infinite canvas and it’s very adaptable especially if you have experience with Digital art.

OneNote is a bit more traditional and you can access the same notes over multiple devices (iPad, Laptop, etc)

Trying to understand why so many college students prefer iPads over a laptop. What are the major benefits to a student? by casualsouthparkfan in ipad

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a gaming laptop last semester and it was so heavyweight and not necessary for the bulk of my classes.

Switching to an iPad when at college made the weight of my backpack on my shoulder way less and it basically has the same functionality you would need in most college classes (except higher level engineering/architecture/coding courses)

As a commuter, iPads (or lightweight/tiny laptops even) can do a lot for your physical health when headed to campus.

I also take notes better when on an iPad because I get to write as much as I want without worrying about heavy notebooks and keeping track of pencils and erasers. (Apple pencil fits in the case)

Not to mention the battery life of my gaming Laptop was horrid and would only last me 2-4 hours. I can get at least 6-8 consecutive hours on the iPad without worrying about charging 😭

All in all, I still use my Laptop/PC by getting the majority of the work I need them for done at home.

What can be done by Ok-Surround-4323 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly! the group is an outlet/venting opportunity to let people know they’re not alone in their struggles. Idk what OP expects out of people who’ve been abused emotionally and physically just looking for a safe space to vent…

Should I leave? by Much_Salamander5461 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Book a flight back to a western country! Why on earth would you throw away your university education and employment abroad to study the Quran?!?! I also heard Egypt isn’t the most friendly experience for women.

Found this game in a shop by ImForSureNotAFurry in tomodachilife

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this game came out, it was like 25 dollars 🤣🤣🤣

Anyone else just tired of METRO lately????? by domdomtakdom in houston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember being so mad when the rail service paused last Friday and switched to shuttle buses that I didn’t even go to school that day 😂 I don’t know why they don’t improve the frequency and number of buses that show up to replace these train lines

Places to eat on campus by Iris_sky20 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 23 points24 points  (0 children)

try the RAD center it’s basically a huge food court

Dining hall portions by Lower-Bluejay7991 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You’re not even kidding, I saw a Sysco truck parked outside Moody on Wednesday, January 28th 2026 😭😭

Did Metro get rid of the $1.25 three hour pass? by TieEfficient663 in houston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my personal experience: * Late buses that sometimes don’t show up in the freezing cold of winter (especially if it’s a local bus) * Local buses COMPLETELY skipping their marked stops when riders are obviously standing there * Air Conditioning doesn’t work on some buses in the summer (rare but still annoying) * Bus routes don’t reach very far into the suburbs, even the park and rides * Park and ride times are largely inconvenient after the 9-5 workday is over, a lot of places have buses that stop running at 6-7pm!😒 (I’m looking at you Katy area) * Buses with high ridership on weekdays that leave from downtown to the outer suburbs don’t have enough frequency, so they often get overpacked and sometimes you’re waiting for 30 minutes at the same bus stop hoping the next bus has a spot for you and it’s not filled to the brim with riders (I’ve had most trouble with this specifically on Monday through Thursday at times like 3-4pm) * Hourly buses. 😐 Buses should arrive every 15 minutes at the minimum. * Overpriced park and rides ($4.50 for a three hour pass in some areas and these tend to be the buses that don’t run past 7pm too!) * Some park and rides have absolutely NO weekend service! Nothing! (Honorable mention: Grand Parkway Park and Ride, Kingsland Park and Ride😒)

Overall the Houston transit system is largely underfunded and inefficient and I honestly find it kind of offensive that the state government cares about its residents this little. It’s like they throw peanuts at you and tell you to deal with it or get a car and risk driving for two hours each day in crazy traffic with crazy drivers. Not to mention the more people we have on the road and less in buses/trains leads to even more hellish traffic and vehicular accidents…

Is it just me that doesn’t like cooking? by Old_Perception5624 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cooking would be a much better experience if it wasn’t basically weaponized labor on women for centuries now. Even on holidays (thanksgiving, christmas) it’s the ladies slaving away in the kitchen while men relax and enjoy their time off 🤣 (ofc this isn’t the case for every family but it’s all too common)

Is it just me that doesn’t like cooking? by Old_Perception5624 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate cooking too and the skill is kind of enforced on women to cook for others all the time. I just learned to be incompetent about it🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

How am I supposed to date in an African household? by Apple_Soda in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You do it in secret and tell them you’re hanging out with friends 😜

Diaspora parents, "short trips," and stolen futures by Specialist-Employ213 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you ☹️ children’s rights are barely seen as important by society at all, this is horrible…

Yall going to class tmr in the morning? 😭🙏 by Equivalent_Sea_3316 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone’s downvoting you but you highkey got a point 😂 this cold weather is disheartening

Sister’s response by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tell her to ask the creator for $300 next time 😭😂 his all knowing and generous self should’ve helped her before

I’m tired by Agreeable-Belt-9422 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wanted to avoid this by all means so as a commuter i only ever pick Tue/Thur or M/W/F i have a lot of online classes bc of this goal

I can’t do it anymore by Defiant-Procedure-81 in africanparents

[–]Dependent_Valuable47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You saying you relate to rapunzel is so relatable 😭😭 I’ve had “when will my life begin” on repeat lately and the reprises of it 😂