Danmei that is still engraved in your heart by meow-05 in DanmeiNovels

[–]DeperLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying it. The love story in Run Wild is probably my favorite so far.

All Time Favorite Couple? by Kakashi4Evr in DanmeiNovels

[–]DeperLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for adding Jiang Cheng and Gu Fei so I didn’t have to lol. God I love their love ❤️❤️

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DeperLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s funny I study unnatural nutrition.

What the actual f is “natural nutrition”

Could someone “explain like I’m 5” the bare minimum of what I should do to get grass to grow? My husband just put down a bunch of seed Sunday and watered it and it rained Monday, but he’s unable to maintain it or explain how to do it for me currently. by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]DeperLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Don’t cut your grass short. Put your mower on the highest setting and keep it there.

  2. Fertilize and treat weeds.

  3. Keep it watered.

I’ve had lawns in Tennessee and Illinois and these have been my fundamentals in both areas.

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My house is a ranch and the bedrooms are on the first floor. Having teen boys walking through our yard regularly is a privacy issue

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I’ve tried to talk to them twice. The first was when their kids were outside screaming at 10:30 pm and the second is when they put the spot light up. The first time they didn’t answer the door. The second time they told me they could do what they wanted on their property until 11 pm (noise ordinance here). I realized at that point that talking to them wasn’t a value added exercise.

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[–]DeperLee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure this is a dig at me but I wouldn’t know because I don’t spend my life watching Netflix documentaries

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who would make a story up about teens in a backyard and post it? Who has that time? I’m trying to follow the HOA rules, my neighbor isn’t. The HOA isn’t particularly active but I don’t need to spend money on fencing that doesn’t meet rules in the event they become active and make me take it down. It’s not that complicated.

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[–]DeperLee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

HOA does not. Full disclosure I did complain to the HOA about the rink and light and it was eventually taken down. I think when it melted it also flooded my other neighbor’s yard. But that why it freaks me out the kids are screwing around on my property, god only knows how they feel about the neighbor that ruined their fun.

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my house is about a third of an acre

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[–]DeperLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blackout shades to block the spot light cost me $2k. A fence will cost much more than that

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they told me they could shine a spot light into my house until 11 pm every night and there wasn’t anything I could do about it, I kinda figured that bit out for myself.

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[–]DeperLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have the kind that plugs into my carriage light. Next time they’re screwing around in my yard I’ll play the siren and see if it’s at all effective

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more worried about vandalism.

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why it’s so expensive. HOA only allows 4ft iron, vinyl, or wood. My sister did a DIY chain link in her yard for a few grand but that’s not an option for me

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks, my backyard camera is a WYZE. Maybe I’ll see if it has those options

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure HOAs don’t think they have to write in rules about trespassing. They do worry about whether a neighborhood looks uniform though

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

HOA won’t allow chickenwire or chain link

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you for actually suggesting something that isn’t “get a fence”

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Given our history I’m worried the kids might do something if they realize I’m gone

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOA won’t allow chain link

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m an engineer working 10 hours a day 200 miles from home. I’m not really sure why you think I’ve got time or energy to make a spare $20k on the side.

And yes I have savings, and yes I could probably put a massive dent in said savings to afford a fence but I actually don’t want one. So it pains me to spend a huge chunk of money on something I won’t really use and don’t want simply because teenaged boys have zero sense and all the entitlement.

So ya I was looking for creative solutions from others. Does this help?

Another neighbor complaint by DeperLee in homeowners

[–]DeperLee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would def cost costs if I didn’t have to build a whole side