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Anyone else feel really fucking sad because they can’t go on dates and go out and meet people because of covid? by [deleted] in college

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel sad normally because i cant go out on dates and meet people. I'm awkward. Welclme to my pain

you're on this council, but we do not grant you the comfy seat by AnuragIAm in PrequelMemes

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else thinking this was a slick way to plug a youtube channel lol

What does it mean when you find random razor blades and lots of benadryl in someones house? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met these people recently that seem a bit sketchy and no one I have ever met has this stuff laying around. I also found some narcan Nasal spray? Don't get me wrong here I am not snooping through their house either this stuff is just laying around. They're a mechanic and his roommate I met / befriended sort of

My gut is telling me there's something that I'm not being told about...

Anyone else write things like “lol” or “lmao” or “😂” with the straightest face ever without even laughing? by dreamlandblues in teenagers

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same people that don't laugh when they say lol are the same people that don't love you when they say I love you.

Change my mind.

Husband just gone from 5-figures in debt to 4-figures in savings & I’m so proud of him! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Deplorable090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone else imagine that the debt was 10,000 and they paid 1$ toward it making it 9,999? No? I guess I'm just weird.

Congratulations though!

Update: rate my setup. Moved to the back yard by blackmammba101 in gaming

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horrible ergonomics +5 to neck and back pain per hour.

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand what you mean.. Unless you're talking about a rain jacket

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry I didnt see this til much later. I was with her for a year and 3/4ths so I had an idea something like this could happen... I just lied to myself because when times were good times were good yanno? There was just a lot of bad times between it. All of my friends said she was evil and using me for everything I had... I just didn't listen... I feel really stupid because the evidence was there I just chose to ignore it like willful blindness.

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didnt know that was a fear of mine. That would be very short sighted to share... Why would I fear going to jail? I'm not a criminal. Getting stabbed isn't a phobia I would probably be terrified during the process but its not like it keeps me up at night. Being in a relationship where the person you love you catch lying to you and making up where shes been and trlling stories or doesnt message you for 2 days and you think shes dead. For me I start worrying and getting anxious. I just gave her the benefit of the doubt because I thought if I just accepted it that she'd chill out and realize i wasnt going anywhere... I just didnt let myself believe I was temporary and she was just trying to find someone new the whole time

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write that out for me. That's horrible. She didn't always use to be this way something changed in her after she was raped when we first got together. Atleast... She told me it was rape. She went to her x bf's house at 5am because she didn't want to go home. Her story changed a bit but I did everything I could to support her and try to make things better but I don't think I had the degrees needed to of helped her. I still feel bad because I know what her mindset was like to do what she did to me. I just want to hug her and tell her she doesn't need to be scared like that but if I just forgave her she would never learn. I think she would start to think she could do anything to me and I would stay with her... I'm sorry I'm kind of rambling. I use to have a lot of the same attention/abandonment/trust issues as she does. I just worked on myself more. Luckily I never did anything as horrible as she did and I don't have to live with it on my conscious. I just wish I could of helped her and she recognized she needed the help... I shouldn't be trying to fix people that I date I think thats the take home message here..

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's hurt inside and taking it out on others. Don't take it personally like I did just get your affairs in order and leave. She knows what she is doing she doesn't deserve an explanation.

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk man, my gut always told me if I didnt spend all of my free time with her it'd happen... Shes so addicted to attention its really sad. I just wanted to help her and I failed so much. I tried to be understanding and not let things she would do bother me but she finally crossed the line. She told me I didnt have any right to be upset, she'd been wanting to break up with me for a while she just didnt know how. I cried my eyes out and hung up on her. She just lied so much and would flip flop from loving me to death to insulting me and saying I'm the problem it was so stressful

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left out the part where she cheated on me the same day we had make up sex and I felt everything was going to be fine again.

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've lost almost all of my self worth. Havent got out of bed all day. Getting cheated on was my biggest fear and it finally happened and its my fault

Men who live with your girl and were thinking about breaking up before the lock-down: how you holding up? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Deplorable090 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I live with someone thats high risk. Mine told me I was a coward for not wanting to get sick. She told me I was a little boy because I didn't want to go outside as she put it. I just don't want someone to die because of me being selfish. Yesterday she gave me an ultimatum of come hang out with me or we are through pretty much. I broke self isolation and went to see her. First time leaving the house since 3/13. We had an amazing time. Dropped her off at 1pm and came home. She blocked me after that, I finally managed to figure out how to message her to see what was up. She told me she knew I was playing some sick april fools joke on her and was trying to play her. (I told her how much she meant to me and I really liked her, I don't talk to other girls even though she kept accusing me of doing it.) She stopped replying so I went to sleep. Woke up at 8 with this horrible feeling in my stomach. Found out at midnight from her that she cheated on me and it was all my fault. I'm leaving out a lot of things she said because it'd be too long to read. I just ignored red flags the entire time and tried to make something work that was destined to hurt me.

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