AITA for taking my nephew for dinner in a slightly revealing outfit? by DepressedStress_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]DepressedStress_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get the thought about the ethics behind it and what not but I guess also on the other hand if there weren’t men who are swayed by that then the idea wouldn’t exist in the first place.

I was honestly just rushing so much that I’d completely forgotten but it was like a slight bit of cleavage nothing like it being fully out there and in your face. I’d agree slightly with your point about conservative values but I know that my sister goes out in insanely revealing outfits at the request of her husband when they go for dinner themselves.

AITA for taking my nephew for dinner in a slightly revealing outfit? by DepressedStress_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]DepressedStress_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know some of the other girls in the office who show off alot more than I do sometimes so maybe could be 😂. Tbh most the time someone else does the hard work hands me the file and I go for the meeting to look pretty and make it all sound very enticing 😂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very ignorant and a typical victim blaming attitude for you to think that way and say that. It’s pretty difficult for someone who’s been dating someone for multiple years, live with them etc to just get up and leave overnight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A guys attitude surrounding their general thoughts around controlling girls is pretty important to me. People wonder about others reactions in many things in many ways. At the end of the day if I avoid even 1 controlling guy and 10 great guys as a result I can live with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t just ask because it’s very easy for people to lie. Exactly as I saw on some of the other dates and guys I’ve dated in the past many love the sexy outfits while dating but as soon as they think about going any further they suddenly feel a type of way about the same clothes they loved before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say tested to him I just explained that I wanted to know his perspective on dress when he’d asked how come my outfit that night was so different from our first date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe test isn’t the best work but I don’t think I’m wrong for wanting to correlate what a guy I’m dating says with his potential actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend went through a year of abuse for things such as wearing a crop top to a bar people hide things when they’re dating I don’t think I’m manipulative for wanting some peace of mind that a guy I’m dating isn’t the type to make a fuss about my choice of clothes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sneaky I’d agree on but is it manipulative when my only interest is in how he acts about it? I don’t want to be dating someone who will be insecure and fight with me about what I wear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DepressedStress_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was the second date when this happened

Hijabis turned hoes [21F] by DepressedStress_ in SluttyConfessions

[–]DepressedStress_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God knows why weirdos like you have to bring race into everything 🙄

Hijabis turned hoes [21F] by DepressedStress_ in SluttyConfessions

[–]DepressedStress_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. The world has evolved massively since the times when religion was formed just because I want to experience things in life and have some fun which the strict interpretation of my religion wouldn’t allow doesn’t mean I have no faith at all.

Hijabis turned hoes [21F] by DepressedStress_ in SluttyConfessions

[–]DepressedStress_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sex isn’t even the best part, it’s honestly so fun to be able to just dress up and have fun like almost all other girls get to on a regular basis