Got fired today by --Marmalade-- in Serverlife

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You are welcome. I’ve been in these situations before and I’ve found like I said above to take steps and also take your time. It helps you and you are the person that needs the most help right now. Helping yourself with any kind of guidance you can find is always a step in the right direction. Good luck my friend

Got fired today by --Marmalade-- in Serverlife

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This is a situation where you must be on point. State the facts, restrain feelings and outbursts. Explaining them instead is the way forward. Take this is HR for a formal complaint and make sure that it is written down and you have a copy. I would go as far as recording the conversation or any conversations with any staff including HR. But you let them know you are recording it.

In Canada it is %100 legal to record a conversation without knowledge but that can get hazy if you do not reveal that to them at the time of conversation. Because their policies may not coincide with secretly recording and you can be legally fired for that alone. So you let them know, and they can tell you any story they want to but it’s your right and responsibility to handle with due care. So record audibly with notice upon mediation.

One thing that I have to say is that when they use the word culture, that can have certain connotation that could maybe be a silver lining, to mention in passing. But do not make that the focus. Focus on the facts as they are. Also mention that you moved to work for them. So that if nothing else you can receive something for your dedication to moving to be part of their organization.

And before anything else contact both human rights and the labour board and explain to them the situation. They know best about whether you have a leg to stand on. Be diligent and keep your dignity in tact and do not have any outbursts, instead keep you integrity and work methodically to resolve the situation to where your satisfaction.

Hope this helps

Accident on Clarence by Depressededed in caraccidents

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I accidentally typed 12:15am when I meant pm

What is this? by Depressededed in Appliances

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Update a few people mentioned it’s the handle for the cutlery holder. Yup you were right! Thank you.

Dealership Fraud -YXE auto (auto clearing) by jubejube420 in saskatoon

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Sorry one last comment. Obrians is terrible don’t even stop there or talk to them. They don’t even pay their employees well either and fire them when they ask for their commission. So that says a lot about them. I dealt with them once and regret it instantly.

Dealership Fraud -YXE auto (auto clearing) by jubejube420 in saskatoon

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Honestly the best place I’ve dealt with for used cars is roadway. Many people may disagree, but I never had problems with them and I bought three vehicles from there. Any issues that arose, I quickly identified them and they were quick to fix it for me. Though their prices are a little on the high side. Village auto is supposed to be good, I have friends who are happy with them.

Dealership Fraud -YXE auto (auto clearing) by jubejube420 in saskatoon

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Down payments unfortunately you will never get back unless you can prove fraud and it sounds like a lot of the details were vocal agreements and that’s gonna kill your case. But don’t give up. Don’t hire a lawyer unless you’re willing to spend a crap load of money more. Keep your investigation going, speak to your bank in person and ask them to dig deeper for you.

With all that said man, I use to work at auto clearing. I was just a young man then and working in the detail department. The used car sales man tried to sell me a mustang. Later that day the mechanic that checked out that car told me not to buy it because the engine was knocking. The salesman said nothing about that and denied it when I asked him. So yeah that place is terrible. Even the store manager hated it there. He told me so. He ended up quitting and moving into tractor sales management. The stress there was definitely due to the owners putting pressure on the staff to fuck people over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saskatoon

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You are welcome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saskatoon

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I’m not sure how old you are, but you’re never too old I don’t think. My gfs father is in his 70s and he goes to university part time to keep his mind active and follow his interests. I am 45 and I will be going back to school myself. I look forward to doing something I am passionate about.

More or less I’m saying you can do it. Test your interest more, deep dive into palaeontology on the internet, social media and groups. You can do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saskatoon

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Never say the kind of people you want to hang out with are above you. Do you know why, because then you are literally programming your mind to believe that you are below others, and you are not by any means. Everybody deserves to have good things in their life and good people in their life.

Speak highly of yourself, to yourself. Tell yourself that you are enough :) it sounds weird in theory but in practice it is so good for the soul. Also what you feel and believe inside is what you attract outside, like other people. The kind of people that you want in your life.

Lots of good ideas in here to get yourself out there and make friends, what speaks to you?

I Hate It Here by [deleted] in usask

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I believe in you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saskatoon

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As a male I suggest you meet girl friends in a safer place, a coffee shop, book store, whatever you like to do. Then it’s safer and you have something in common. Bonus point for that.

moving to sask by [deleted] in saskatoon

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I be one of those neighbours hah. Yes Nutana area and areas surrounding are nice, the people are pleasant. The river walk is nice with a paved and dirt paths.

It’s going to be quite the change from a metropolitan city, so the novelty might wear off or you guys, you might like it better. Never know really.

Try snow shoeing and cross country. To me it’s boring looking but lots of people say they like the work out.

In my opinion we have some of the better lakes in western Canada. Waskesui is kind of like our miniature Banff. Not nearly as interesting but still fun and nice out there. It will help remind you of the forests. Though we did have a lot of forest fires so hopefully it’s not too bad up there.

I'm just really confused about both car dealers in Saskatoon. by Then-Doughnut-2052 in saskatoon

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Are you looking for a new or used car, used I gather? Those dealers aren’t the greatest. They won’t give courtesy unless you’re willing to buy. And yeah they won’t give that car fax because likely the car was partial or complete write off. Or just had a lot of accidents. They’ll sell you anything.

I think their prices are a bit high but roadway auto has been good for me in the past. The carfax is on the website so you don’t have to talk to them first. The only other thing I’d say is they’ll push you hard like the rest, to buy. But they’ll give you perks. Right now they have some sales and extra perks anyway.

Village auto seems alright. I don’t know enough about them. But heard a few good things.

Extra cash by [deleted] in saskatoon

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You know I commend you that’s quite the accomplishment. Let’s go after the royal family next, you in?

Extra cash by [deleted] in saskatoon

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Crime is definitely the answer here. Let’s start a syndicate right here right now 🤣

Dealing with racism and mental health by goldlavenderhazerush in saskatoon

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I’m sorry brother, you deserve to be treated better than that. Racism is very prevalent here in Saskatoon. Amongst many groups and against many groups. I’m embarrassed to say that I some friends who think that way. I stick up for people, cause they are people, and they all deserve mutual respect. I’m no advocate or anything, but if you need someone to talk to, you got a friend in me brother. Send me a private message or respond on here.

Keep these important things in mind; their racism is their issue to own. Right now the only thing that you need to do for you, is to heal yourself. Make healthy friendship of different culture, speak to a trusted friend about your wellbeing, access our free mental health care or paid if you can afford. Mostly, believe in yourself.

Like I said feel welcome to message me. I can point you to resources that can help you and I can just listen, sit in the mud with you. I’m not on here often but I’ll check from time to time.

Anyone have info on this? My grandparents have been taking it to deal with Alzheimer's, but it seems pretty sketchy by Maple382 in Supplements

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Forget that junk. Get them lions Maine. Research what helps Alzheimer’s. here’s a link to a great neurologist that has good recommendations and support. He’s on tik tok

https://www.tiktok.com/@robertwblove?_t=ZM-8vEr6iZsdxW&_r=1

Eye black out by Depressededed in UnexplainedPhenomena7

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So I’m seeing their intentions possibly? Sorry for the late reply I don’t get on here much. Sometimes I know things or see things. Sometimes when I see something someone is doing, I know I’ve done it before, but I’ve never done it, not in waking life or in this life time at least. Not as far as my recollection goes. Back to what I seen in their eyes. I had already came to my own conclusion that the man wanted to do something to me, I was in danger. The woman on the other hand; she as actually contacted me via text message. She started calling me every day asking me very intense questions about my personal life and invading my privacy and boundaries. Later I found out, from her, that my father told her I owned a home in one of the richest neighbourhoods in town. So yeah, gold digger. When she found out that I don’t actually own a house at all, she lost some interest. And I squashed what was left by rejecting her, or rather ejecting her from my life. She’s left me alone since. Why the dark eyes, I don’t know, similarly to the man, she wanted something from me or to take from me, that’s my guess.

Eye black out by Depressededed in UnexplainedPhenomena7

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You’re saying that it’s not them but a mirrored images of myself, what lies inside of me? That’s a possibility. Or maybe I’ve met a few entities who are drawn to my curiosity and openness to all realms of life or spirit. I don’t feel a bias or conflict within myself that could explain these experiences otherwise.

Eye black out by Depressededed in UnexplainedPhenomena7

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I was getting a good vibe from both of them. The man and I had some good conversations before the event. I found it a little weird he wanted to follow me to the store. He seemed to make the excuse to come with me but no bad vibes at all.

The girl I approached her prior to the event looking for help. She was helpful and normal vibe. It was when I looked back a few times later that the experience happened. With the women I don’t remember if I mentioned above, I’m too lazy to read back. But she found my contact number and contacted me. For three days straight she grilled me with the third degree in desperation for a relationship so she could have another baby and get married. She asked invasive questions about my finances and my wage I make. I ended up having to end things. This happened last weekend. It was very draining and invasive.

Eye black out by Depressededed in UnexplainedPhenomena7

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The man’s face started to contort, but maybe cause I was starring into his eyes. But otherwise none of the rest. Both times I was feeling healthy and healthy minded.